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S. Stibbards & Sons, Hadleigh

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  1. S. Stibbards & Sons, Hadleigh, funeral director in Essex
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A caring funeral home in Essex supporting families in the Hadleigh, Thundersley and Benfleet areas

Latest Verified Reviews

David Bone 4th Oct 2025

Excellent service provided in a friendly and dignified manner in every respect.

Marie Kadwill 22nd Aug 2025

My sister and I would like to thank you for your care and consideration . Everything went smoothly on the day and we were treated with such kindness from the first day we met Rebecca in your Hadleigh office and all the way through the planning leading up to my Mums funeral . We would also like to thank the Rev’d Jon Stannard for the way he conducted the service , he made it as beautiful as it could be .  Thank you all for making a very difficult day just a bit easier  Marie and Angela

Alan Gifford 12th Aug 2025

all of the team were great, i really couldn't fault them. thank you so much for everything

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Funeral Services

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Home visit
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest

Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

4 Commonhall Lane
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 2RN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Hadleigh and the surrounding area, at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

At a very difficult time, when it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of the caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Hadleigh funeral home provides a calm and tranquil atmosphere in which to make funeral arrangements. It has a private chapel of rest where families can spend precious time with their loved one, reassured that their funeral wishes are administered to. Should you prefer support in more familiar surroundings, a home visit can be arranged with a member of this caring funeral home.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved one will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Funerals can also be tailored with a traditional horse-drawn hearse, or vintage vehicles.

The Hadleigh funeral home is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and independent funeral homes association, SAIF and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for compassionate funeral service in Hadleigh, Thundersley and Benfleet, at a very difficult time.

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 David Bone 4th Oct 2025

    Excellent service provided in a friendly and dignified manner in every respect.

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Jean, thank you for entrusting us with David's care, we are pleased to have served you well.

  • 5 Marie Kadwill 22nd Aug 2025

    My sister and I would like to thank you for your care and consideration . Everything went smoothly on the day and we were treated with such kindness from the first day we met Rebecca in your Hadleigh office and all the way through the planning leading up to my Mums funeral .
    We would also like to thank the Rev’d Jon Stannard for the way he conducted the service , he made it as beautiful as it could be . 
    Thank you all for making a very difficult day just a bit easier 
    Marie and Angela

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Marie and Angela,

    Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly touched to hear that you felt supported and cared for throughout such a difficult time. It was our privilege to help you honour your Mum’s life, and we’re so glad that everything went smoothly and that the service brought comfort.

    Rebecca and the team at our Hadleigh office will be especially grateful to know their compassion made a difference. We’ll also be sure to pass on your thanks to Rev’d Jon Stannard—his thoughtful and beautiful service meant a great deal to us all

  • 5 Alan Gifford 12th Aug 2025

    all of the team were great, i really couldn't fault them. thank you so much for everything

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Alan, thank you so much for your kind words. We're truly grateful for your feedback and so pleased to hear that you felt supported by the whole team. It means a great deal to us to know we were able to help you during such a difficult time.

  • 5 Vivienne Jenkinson 3rd Aug 2025

    Professional and personal service with lovely staff from start to finish  

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Vivienne,
    Thank you for your lovely feedback. We're so pleased to hear that you felt supported both professionally and personally throughout your experience with us. Our team takes great pride in offering a caring and compassionate service, so it’s wonderful to know that came across from start to finish.

  • 5 Shirley McFall 3rd Aug 2025

    We was very happy with your service all the way through very helpful and caring thank you so much from Shirley and all the family
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    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Shirley, thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us, it was our privilege to be able to look after you and your family and I am so pleased that you felt supported along the way. I hope that all went well for you once back at The Conservative Club

  • 5 Annette Henstridge 1st Aug 2025

    A fantastic service with great support throughout.

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Annette, thank you for your generous feedback. We are truly pleased to hear that you found our service and support to be of a high standard throughout your experience.

  • 5 Margaret Hill 22nd Jul 2025

    Always approachable and friendly when advice was needed. Consistently professional from start to finish and very well presented.

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Margaret, I thank you for your kind sentiments and we are so pleased that everything went so well for you. Having the Yeoman of the Guard there on the day was a fitting final tribute to Ronald. I hope that everything went smoothly for you all once back at The Gun.

  • 5 Charles Warren 8th Jul 2025

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  • 4 Monika Samuels 7th Jul 2025

    Thank you for accompanying us safely at this time. Much appreciated. 

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Monika, I thank you for your kind sentiments and we are so pleased that everything went so well for you. Having the Bedford Lorry along with the Arsenal flag was a true fitting for Ernest's final journey. I hope that everything went smoothly for you all once back at The Castle.

  • 5 Linda Allway 27th Jun 2025

    So kind and compassionate at every stage of the funeral planning and on the day they were very respectful to my late father. We have always used Stibbards for our family funerals. They are an excellent company and I would 100% recommend 

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Linda, thank you for taking the time to express your thanks for the service that we provided to you at such a sad time. I am pleased that you felt looked after and supported by all involved.

  • 5 Anita Pearce 15th Jun 2025

    Stibbards and all the staff I dealt with were kind, courteous, professional and efficient at a time when I was deeply saddened. They were also calming and helpful in decision making when I was really not able to focus.  

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Anita, thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us, it was our privilege to be able to look after you and your family and I am so pleased that you felt supported along the way. I hope that all went well for you once back at Akropolis.

  • 5 Brad Ward Yates 3rd Jun 2025

    Stibbards are without fault, professional and caring. Making every possible effort to ensure the smooth running of the entire process start to conclusion.

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Brad, Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly grateful for your feedback. At Stibbards, we strive to provide a professional, caring service and to support families every step of the way. Knowing that our efforts made a difference means a great deal to us.

  • 5 Sandra Karslake 1st Jun 2025

    From start to finish, Stibbards were wonderful to us when our mother died at home. From collecting her body to collecting her ashes they were professional, compassionate and made sure the whole process was dignified. A special mention to Maria who directed both my dad and brother in laws funerals as well as my mother’s. She was exemplary. She and the rest of Stibbards’ staff made what was a very emotional day seem just that little bit easier. Thoroughly recommend them to anyone looking for a funeral directors. 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Sandra, thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. it means a great deal to us that we were able to support you and your family during such a difficult time. Your recognition of Maria and our team is deeply appreciated — we’re honoured to have been there for you and to have helped provide comfort and dignity throughout the process. Thank you again for your recommendation and trust in Stibbards.

  • 5 Claire Smales 24th May 2025

    This is a very professional company. During a very difficult time in our lives Stibbards were outstanding. Every staff member was respectful, patient and very kind and helpful. The attention to detail meant mums funeral ran smoothly. A special thanks goes to Rebecca and Scott. As it was a celebration of mums life she wanted colour,  not black. The attendants looked wonderful in their different coloured ties and bought a smile to my face. Thank you all so very much.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Claire, Thank you so much for your lovely message. It truly means the world to us to know that we could offer the support and care your family needed during such a meaningful time. Your mum’s request for colour made her celebration of life so special, and it’s wonderful to hear that our guys colourful ties brought a smile to your face—such a beautiful way to honor her wishes. I will make sure to pass along your kind words to Rebecca.

  • 5 Janet Simmons 30th Apr 2025

    Thank you all at Stibbards for your help & support during this challenging time for my daughter & I.
    Your staff were very caring, considerate & professional.
    At all times we were kept well informed which made the planning of Dean's day less stressful. Nothing was too much trouble and we are truly thankful.
    The day its self was perfect.
    Thank you




    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Janet, thank you so much for your kind words. We're truly grateful we could support you and your daughter during such a difficult time. It means a lot to know that our care and attention helped ease the planning of Dean’s day. We're honored to have been there for you.

  • 5 David Maloney 5th Mar 2025

    I just wanted to send you a short note to say many thanks to yourself David, and the team at Stibbards, for all of your help with Mum’s funeral. Monday was a very sad day, but everything went as well as we could have wished for which was a great comfort to us. The whole team were extremely professional.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear David,
    thank you so much for your kind words. It means a great deal to us, David and the team will be pleased to know that they were able to provide some comfort during such a difficult time. We are glad to hear that everything went as smoothly as possible and that we could be of help to you and your family.

  • 5 Sharon Wilde 27th Feb 2025

     Wonderful supportive staff.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Sharon,
    thank you for your kind words. We are pleased to hear you felt supported by our team.

  • 5 Stuart Smith 13th Jan 2025

    Stibbards were extremely caring, compassionate and professional, helping us as a family to navigate a very difficult time. Always very responsive and flexible, nothing was too much trouble. Thank you so much to Leo and the team for their support and guidance. From the initial phone call right up to the funeral service itself, they were there every step of the way and helped to give my Dad a send off he would’ve been proud of. 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Stuart, on behalf of Leo and the whole team at Stibbards, I thank you for your kind sentiments and we are so pleased that everything went so well for you.

  • 5 Elsie Townsend 23rd Dec 2024

    Everyone was very kind and caring from beginning to end. They were always there when help was needed.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Elise, we are always here to help in any way we can, we are so pleased have been able to look after and support you at this difficult time.

  • 5 Stephen Greenfield 13th Dec 2024

    We have relied on Stibbards twice and they have been fantastic both times . Thank you

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Stephen, thank you for your kind words. We are so pleased that the care you received met with your expectations and thank you for your continued support for our family run company.

  • 5 Janet Essex 8th Dec 2024

    Kind, respectful & easy to deal with 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Janet, thank you for your kind words and taking the time to comment on our service to you.

  • 5 Patrick Richardson 30th Nov 2024

    Very professional from the beginning. Compassionate and understanding. Fantastic service by everyone 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Patrick, thank you for your kind words, I will ensure they are shared with all concerned

  • 5 Carol Giggins 18th Nov 2024

    We met Lauren on our initial visit at Hadleigh and subsequently dealt with Leo, both of whom were excellent. Nothing was too much trouble and everything was handled with compassion and understanding.
    On the day of the funeral our Conductor Stuart and the team were professional and helped a very difficult day run smoothly. 
    We would like to thank everyone at Stibbards for their help and would have no hesitation in recommending them to others.
    Many thanks.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Carol, thank you for your kind words and particular praise for Lauren, Leo and Stuart. We are so pleased that the care you received met with your expectations and thank you for recommending our family run company.

  • 5 Zoe Lane 17th Oct 2024

    Excellent service from start to finish

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Zoe, thank you for your kind words, I will ensure they are shared with all concerned

  • 5 Valerie Poulton 15th Oct 2024

    From start to finish Stibbards could not have been more helpful.Did my husband proud
    Would thoroughly recommend them!

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Valerie, thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you and your kind recommendation, your words are gratefully received.

Address
4 Commonhall Lane
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 2RN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

David Bone 4th Oct 2025

Excellent service provided in a friendly and dignified manner in every respect.

Marie Kadwill 22nd Aug 2025

My sister and I would like to thank you for your care and consideration . Everything went smoothly on the day and we were treated with such kindness from the first day we met Rebecca in your Hadleigh office and all the way through the planning leading up to my Mums funeral . We would also like to thank the Rev’d Jon Stannard for the way he conducted the service , he made it as beautiful as it could be .  Thank you all for making a very difficult day just a bit easier  Marie and Angela

Alan Gifford 12th Aug 2025

all of the team were great, i really couldn't fault them. thank you so much for everything

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