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S. Stibbards & Sons, Hadleigh

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  1. S. Stibbards & Sons, Hadleigh, funeral director in Essex
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A caring funeral home in Essex supporting families in the Hadleigh, Thundersley and Benfleet areas

Latest Verified Reviews

Ian Wilson 12th May 2026

Stibbards have been wonderful to me and my family! Amazing!

Britta Pridige 14th Apr 2026

We can not thank you enough for the beautiful and fitting funeral for Karl. It went off just as we had hoped it to. From the moment we made contact with initial enquires, through to the planning , the visits and all the communications we were impressed by the professionalism and care and attention you gave to all the family . Thanks go especially to Rebecca who helped us to navigate arrangements , to David who conducted on the day and Jay the celebrant . The funeral itself was a fitting tribute to our loved one and has helped us all in the grieving process especially Karl's children. I look forward to seeing Rebecca in person to thank her from the bottom of my heart .❤️

Mark Sibthorpe 14th Apr 2026

Everything they done was extremely professional and caring. Couldn’t have asked for more. There was a mix up with some flowers (nothing to do with Stibbards), which meant we didn’t get the rose bush plants we ordered. During the service, someone from Stibbards went and bought us some. Really went up and beyond want could have been expected. 

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Funeral Services

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Home visit
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest

Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

4 Commonhall Lane
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 2RN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Hadleigh and the surrounding area, at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

At a very difficult time, when it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of the caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Hadleigh funeral home provides a calm and tranquil atmosphere in which to make funeral arrangements. It has a private chapel of rest where families can spend precious time with their loved one, reassured that their funeral wishes are administered to. Should you prefer support in more familiar surroundings, a home visit can be arranged with a member of this caring funeral home.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved one will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Funerals can also be tailored with a traditional horse-drawn hearse, or vintage vehicles.

The Hadleigh funeral home is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and independent funeral homes association, SAIF and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for compassionate funeral service in Hadleigh, Thundersley and Benfleet, at a very difficult time.

Latest Obituaries

Christine Anne Kathleen Smith

Christine Anne Kathleen Smith

Nov 1935 - Apr 2026

Fred Dowson

Fred Dowson

Apr 2026 - Jul 1935

Kenneth Taylor

Kenneth Taylor

Jul 1939 - Apr 2026

Mary Mayo

Mary Mayo

Oct 1944 - Apr 2026

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Ian Wilson 12th May 2026

    Stibbards have been wonderful to me and my family! Amazing!

  • 5 Britta Pridige 14th Apr 2026

    We can not thank you enough for the beautiful and fitting funeral for Karl. It went off just as we had hoped it to.
    From the moment we made contact with initial enquires, through to the planning , the visits and all the communications we were impressed by the professionalism and care and attention you gave to all the family . Thanks go especially to Rebecca who helped us to navigate arrangements , to David who conducted on the day and Jay the celebrant .
    The funeral itself was a fitting tribute to our loved one and has helped us all in the grieving process especially Karl's children.
    I look forward to seeing Rebecca in person to thank her from the bottom of my heart .❤️

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Britta,
    Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. It truly means a great deal to all of us that we were able to support you and your family at such a difficult time.
    We are very touched to hear that Karl’s funeral was everything you had hoped it would be and that it provided comfort to you all, especially his children. Your appreciation of the care, professionalism, and attention shown throughout the arrangements will be shared with the whole team.
    Rebecca, David, and Jay will be especially moved by your thanks, and they will be comforted to know the role they played helped honour Karl’s life so fittingly. It was a privilege to be entrusted with his arrangements.

  • 5 Mark Sibthorpe 14th Apr 2026

    Everything they done was extremely professional and caring. Couldn’t have asked for more. There was a mix up with some flowers (nothing to do with Stibbards), which meant we didn’t get the rose bush plants we ordered. During the service, someone from Stibbards went and bought us some. Really went up and beyond want could have been expected. 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Mark, Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly grateful you took the time to share your experience.

    We’re glad we could support you during such an important moment, and it means a lot to hear that our team’s care and professionalism made a difference. While we’re sorry there was a mix-up with the flowers, we’re pleased we could help resolve things on the day. We hope your enjoy the rose bushes

  • 4 Sheila Kerr 2nd Apr 2026

    Throughout the entire process the whole Stibbards team were compassionate and really caring. All queries and concerns were dealt with efficiently and reassuringly. Particular thanks to Rebecca, Jon and Scott for their patience and understanding during a very emotional experience.  

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Sheila,
    hank you for taking the time to share your experience. We’re truly grateful for your kind words. It means a great deal to everyone at Stibbards to know that our support brought comfort during such a difficult time. Rebecca, Jon and Scott will be especially touched by your appreciation. We’re honoured to have been able to guide you through the process with care and understanding.

  • 5 Teresa Henderson 1st Apr 2026

    Thank you to Rebecca, Rosie, Scott and all the team who gave my dad a respectful send off and on organising the funeral and making our wishes come to fruition.
    You all are very professional, respectful and caring and cannot say how much your dedication and support helped us get through the day.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Teresa,
    Thank you for sharing such thoughtful words. It truly means a great deal to Rebecca, Rosie, Scott, and everyone involved to know that your dad’s farewell was handled in a way that honoured him and reflected your wishes. We’re grateful for the trust you placed in us and are glad our support brought some comfort during a difficult time.

  • 5 Steven Downey 30th Mar 2026

    WOW, Stibbards you team have done it again. Exceptional through and through. Our experience when you dealt with Dad's funeral in 2023 was exceptional and you have done it again with Mum's funeral this month (March 2026). On both occassions the personal touch to the quirks of each of our parents stories was incredible. Your staff are highly professional and very personable. Thank you for making a difficult time as easy and pleasant as could be hoped for.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear, Steven, Thank you so much for your incredible feedback.
    We are truly honoured to have supported your family once again. Knowing that our team was able to provide the same exceptional level of care for both your dad’s funeral in 2023 and your mum’s funeral this month means so much to us.
    We’re deeply touched by your kind words and the way our staff looked after each of your parents. Our team works hard to be both professional and personable, and it’s wonderful to hear that this made a difference during such difficult times.
    Thank you for placing your trust in us again.

  • 5 Anita Brown 24th Mar 2026

    Excellent service, very dignified and professional. 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Anita,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly grateful that you took the time to share your experience. It was our honour to support you in caring for Marlis’ arrangements, and we’re pleased to know that our team were able to provide the dignified and professional service you deserved.

  • 5 Elaine Glover 22nd Mar 2026

    From the first phone call we made, in the middle of the night, we were treated with compassion and sensitivity. The staff were always on hand to guide us through a very difficult time. I can’t speak highly enough of the care we received. 

    Leo Reeve replied
    We truly appreciate you taking the time to share this. Supporting families with care and sensitivity is at the heart of what we do, and we’re grateful to know that we were able to guide you through such a challenging moment. Thank you for allowing us to help.

  • 5 Susan Layzell 9th Mar 2026

    The funeral was conducted just as we wished and we were very satisfied with the service provided.

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Susan,
    Thank you for taking the time to share your kind words with us. We are truly grateful. It means so much to know that Peter’s funeral was carried out just as you wished, and that our team was able to support you during such a difficult time.

  • 5 Wendy Thrale 2nd Mar 2026

    The whole Stibbards team have been amazing. Their professionalism, compassion and kindness throughout the planning and delivery of my husband’s funeral was second to none. 

    Leo Reeve replied
    Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words. It truly means a great deal to the whole team to know that we were able to support you during such a difficult time.

    We are deeply honoured to have been entrusted with arranging your husband’s funeral. Providing care, compassion, and professionalism to every family we serve is at the heart of what we do, and your feedback reassures us that we are fulfilling that commitment.

    Please know that our thoughts remain with you and your family. If there is ever anything more we can do for you, we are always here to help.

  • 5 Carole Moore 23rd Feb 2026

    Rebecca treated us with courtesy, respect and Harp professionalism throughout the process. Stuart and team looked after us and Mum equally on the day of the funeral.
    Thank you all

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Carole, Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. It means a great deal to us to know that Rebecca, Stuart, and the team were able to support you and your mum with the care, respect, and professionalism you deserved throughout the entire process. We truly appreciate you taking the time to share your experience.

  • 5 Alison Evans 15th Feb 2026

    At such a difficult time the service Stibbards provided was excellent. Staff were very professional and kind, communication was excellent and all we wanted for Mums funeral was delivered 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Alison,
    Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience. We’re truly grateful for your kind words. At such a difficult time, it means a great deal to know that our team’s support, professionalism, and communication brought you comfort. We’re honoured to have helped you create the funeral you wanted for your mum.

  • 5 Ellie Wade 11th Feb 2026

    They were all amazing at Stibbards, everyone I spoke to helped with answering my questions or got back to me promptly. It really helped as at the time you are grieving and having your hand held through it all is lovely.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Ellie,
    Thank you for sharing such thoughtful words. It’s lovely to know that everyone you spoke with was able to support you and respond quickly at a time when everything feels overwhelming. We’re truly glad that our team could offer the guidance and care you needed while you were grieving.

  • 5 Daniel Palmer 3rd Feb 2026

    Excellent service provided throughout the process, attention to detail was second to none, my Mum had the send off she deserved.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Daniel,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. It means a great deal to know that you felt supported throughout the process and that your mum received the send‑off she deserved. We’re truly honoured to have helped you and your family at such an important time.

  • 5 Roberta Miller 31st Jan 2026

    We as a family cannot express the thanks we have for everyone at Stibbards in Hadleigh. 
    Nothing was too much trouble, all our requests were met without any problem. Everyone concerned made sure that a very emotional time ran as smoothly as possible. 
    Once again our sincere thanks to you all….

    Dave Ponton replied
    Thank you so much for your heartfelt words.
    It truly means a great deal to all of us here at Stibbards in Hadleigh to know that we were able to support you and your family at such a deeply emotional time. We understand how important every detail is, and it’s incredibly touching to hear that nothing ever felt too much trouble and that your requests were met just as you needed.
    It was a privilege to help ensure everything ran as smoothly as possible for you. Your appreciation will be shared with everyone involved — your kindness will mean so much to them.
    With our sincere thanks and warmest wishes,
    The Stibbards Hadleigh Team

  • 5 Jean Hughes 19th Jan 2026

    We would highly recommend Stibbards without hesitation. Their care and professionalism were flawless and they gave their services with such kindness and empathy from the very start.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Jean,
    Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. It means a great deal to our team to know that our care, professionalism, and compassion made a difference to you during such an important time. We are truly grateful for your recommendation and for placing your trust in us again.

  • 5 Kathy Quinton 7th Jan 2026

    Stibbards Hadleigh organised my husband Den’s funeral. From our first visit Rebecca made us feel at ease. She showed compassion, dignity , respect and patience and made us feel we were in good hands . The funeral service was beautiful and we as a family are so very grateful for her support during this very emotional time . Thanks also to Joe , Lee and Stuart for their support and compassion on the actual funeral day . Truly an amazing team and a credit to Stibbard and sons . Thank you so very much.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Kathy,
    Thank you so much for taking the time to share such thoughtful words. It means so much to us to know that Rebecca was able to bring comfort, reassurance, and gentle guidance during such a difficult time. We’re truly honoured that you felt supported and cared for throughout every step.
    We will also make sure that Joe, Lee, and Stuart receive your kind appreciation. They, like all of us at Stibbards, are dedicated to providing families with dignity, compassion, and respect when it matters most.
    It was a privilege to help you honour Den’s life, and we are deeply grateful for your trust in us.

  • 5 Hilary Willett 28th Dec 2025

    Rebecca and all staff involved were very supportive and made a difficult time easier to bear.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Hilary,
    Thank you for sharing such kind words. We’re truly glad to hear that Rebecca and the team were able to offer the support you needed during a difficult time. It means a great deal to us to know we could help make things a little easier.

  • 5 Sue Taylor 16th Dec 2025

    Thank you once again for your kind care and attention on the passing of our mum and Nan Lesley Taylor. You also helped us when my father passed away and the level of service and care you give is outstanding. I would recommend you to everybody and anybody ! You made a very difficult and emotional day a much better celebration of life than we could have hoped for.
    Greatly appreciated x

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Sue,
    Thank you so much for your heartfelt words. It truly means a great deal to us that you entrusted our team with the care of both your mum and dad. Supporting families through such emotional moments is a responsibility we never take lightly, and knowing that we were able to bring comfort and help you create a meaningful celebration of life is deeply appreciated.
    Your recommendation is incredibly kind, and we are grateful for your trust.

  • 5 Tracey . 13th Dec 2025

    I would like to extend great thanks to Becca and her colleagues at Stibbards in Hadleigh for the sensitive, respectful and caring way that they dealt with our dear mum Sally at the time of her passing in October and during the weeks leading up to her funeral and beyond.  Becca and the team were always on hand to guide us and deal with any enquiries;  they helped make a very sad time more bearable. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Tracey,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly sorry for your loss and are glad that Becca and the team at Stibbards in Hadleigh were able to provide the care, guidance, and support you needed during such a difficult time. It means a lot to know they helped make things a little more bearable for you and your family. We’ll be sure to share your gratitude with all those involved.

  • 5 Colin Smith 9th Nov 2025

    Highly satisfied with everything that was done. All we asked for was carried out with no problems. Would like to thank everyone for what  they did to make the day go smoothly 

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Colin, Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly honored to have been able to support you during such a difficult time. Knowing that the experience met your expectations from beginning to end and even after means a great deal to us.

  • 5 Janice Keam-George 1st Nov 2025

    Their support and guidance throughout was outstanding. The entire team ensured we had a beautiful and memorable celebration of life for my husband. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Janice,
    We’re deeply grateful for your kind words. It was a privilege to walk alongside you during such a significant moment, and we’re honored to have helped create a heartfelt tribute to your husband’s life. Knowing our support made a difference means everything to us.

  • 5 Steve Montigue 12th Oct 2025

    Excellent service right from the initial phone call to Stibbards. They are very experienced & this shows through in the way they talk you through everything with compassion considering it is a very difficult time & you are struggling with all the arrangements that need to be done. 

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Steve, Thank you for your thoughtful feedback. It was a privilege to support you and your family during such a sensitive time. I'm truly honored that my care felt personal and meaningful. I will be sure to pass on these kind words to the team.

  • 5 David Bone 4th Oct 2025

    Excellent service provided in a friendly and dignified manner in every respect.

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Jean, thank you for entrusting us with David's care, we are pleased to have served you well.

  • 5 Marie Kadwill 22nd Aug 2025

    My sister and I would like to thank you for your care and consideration . Everything went smoothly on the day and we were treated with such kindness from the first day we met Rebecca in your Hadleigh office and all the way through the planning leading up to my Mums funeral .
    We would also like to thank the Rev’d Jon Stannard for the way he conducted the service , he made it as beautiful as it could be . 
    Thank you all for making a very difficult day just a bit easier 
    Marie and Angela

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Marie and Angela,

    Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly touched to hear that you felt supported and cared for throughout such a difficult time. It was our privilege to help you honour your Mum’s life, and we’re so glad that everything went smoothly and that the service brought comfort.

    Rebecca and the team at our Hadleigh office will be especially grateful to know their compassion made a difference. We’ll also be sure to pass on your thanks to Rev’d Jon Stannard—his thoughtful and beautiful service meant a great deal to us all

Address
4 Commonhall Lane
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 2RN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

Ian Wilson 12th May 2026

Stibbards have been wonderful to me and my family! Amazing!

Britta Pridige 14th Apr 2026

We can not thank you enough for the beautiful and fitting funeral for Karl. It went off just as we had hoped it to. From the moment we made contact with initial enquires, through to the planning , the visits and all the communications we were impressed by the professionalism and care and attention you gave to all the family . Thanks go especially to Rebecca who helped us to navigate arrangements , to David who conducted on the day and Jay the celebrant . The funeral itself was a fitting tribute to our loved one and has helped us all in the grieving process especially Karl's children. I look forward to seeing Rebecca in person to thank her from the bottom of my heart .❤️

Mark Sibthorpe 14th Apr 2026

Everything they done was extremely professional and caring. Couldn’t have asked for more. There was a mix up with some flowers (nothing to do with Stibbards), which meant we didn’t get the rose bush plants we ordered. During the service, someone from Stibbards went and bought us some. Really went up and beyond want could have been expected. 

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