S. Stibbards & Sons, Rayleigh

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A family-owned funeral home in Rayleigh, near Benfleet, supporting families with compassionate and caring funeral services

Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

Weir View House
533 Rayleigh Road
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 3TN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Professional Standards

  • NAFD Member

    Members agree to a published Code of Practice and can be held to account through the Association if something goes wrong.

    What they do

    • Inspects member premises to check standards are being met
    • Runs a complaints and resolution service for bereaved families
    • Provides funeral training and professional qualifications
  • SAIF Member

    Businesses are checked before they are admitted to SAIF and work to the Society’s Code of Practice.

    What they do

    • Inspects businesses before granting membership
    • Represents independent and family-owned funeral directors
    • Offers free, independent arbitration if something goes wrong

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but with over 150 years experience, they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Rayleigh, Benfleet and the surrounding area at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

When it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of their caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Rayleigh funeral home is a completely new site with state-of-the-art care facilities. The new funeral home and care centre is the result of 5 years of planning, 18 months of building and 156 years of experience and knowledge. prior to opening in 2023. With two chapels of rest, bespoke washing facilities, large gathering rooms which allow extended family groups to come together, and industry leading modern facilities for the care of the deceased, Weir View House is a truly inclusive and fully featured funeral home.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved ones will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Traditional horse-drawn hearses, vintage vehicles and other bespoke options can also be arranged.

S Stibbards & Sons is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Homes Association (SAIF) and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for a compassionate and helpful funeral service in Rayleigh.

Latest Obituaries

Doreen   Gamblin

Doreen Gamblin

Feb 1949 - Aug 2026

David   Christopher Eveleigh

David Christopher Eveleigh

Nov 1961 - Aug 2026

Leslie   William Waspe

Leslie William Waspe

Jan 1929 - Jul 2026

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What Families Say

AI Summary

Many families mention how clearly Stibbards communicated with them throughout the arranging process, from the initial phone call through to the funeral day itself, with staff readily answering questions and keeping them informed at each stage.

Families frequently describe the compassion and care shown by the team on the day of the funeral, noting how the conductor and staff members attended carefully to their needs while maintaining dignity and professionalism, sometimes through small personal gestures that brought comfort during an emotional time.

Several families raise the question of cost and hidden fees, appreciating that Stibbards explained all charges transparently and that there were no unexpected expenses added to their arrangements.

This summary is generated by AI from recent verified reviews.

Verified Reviews

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  • 5 Peter Walsh 23rd Feb 2026

    Outstanding and sensitive support; both customer service and communication throughout was exemplary. The staff at Stibbards fully understand the extremely delicate nature of arranging and managing funerals and associated services. At no time did I have to chase or ask for clarification. My auntie's last days on this earth were treated with total respect and dignity and the family will be eternally grateful for this.

    Highly recommended!

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Peter,
    Thank you so much for sharing such thoughtful and heartfelt words. We are truly touched by your message.
    It means a great deal to us to know that you felt supported throughout every step of arranging your auntie’s funeral. We understand how delicate and emotional this time can be, and hearing that our communication, care, and organisation brought you comfort is something the whole team deeply appreciates.
    We are especially moved by your comments about your auntie’s final days being treated with respect and dignity. It is an honour to care for someone so loved, and to support a family who holds her memory with such tenderness.
    Thank you for placing your trust in us, and for your kind recommendation. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family, and if you need anything at all, we are here for you.
    With warmest regards,
  • 5 Daniel Crysell 16th Feb 2026

    The hardest day of our lives was made that little easier by the handling of everything by Stibbards.
    The empathy and compassion shown by everyone to an extremely sensitive situationnfrom start to finish was exemplary.
    From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Daniel,
    Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt message. We are truly sorry for the unimaginable loss of Harry, and it was an honour to support you, your family, and everyone who cared for him during such a deeply painful time.
    Knowing that our team’s care, empathy, and attention helped ease even a small part of the day means more to us than we can express. Harry was clearly loved by so many, and the respect shown by his school and community was incredibly moving.
    From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for placing your trust in us at such a difficult moment. We will always remember looking after Harry with the utmost dignity and compassion.
  • 5 Jane Woollaston 9th Feb 2026

    Scott was outstanding. He was so kind and professional. My requests were all dealt with . 
    Thank you so much 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Jane,
    Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. It’s wonderful to hear that Scott’s kindness and professionalism made a difference for you, and we’re glad your requests were handled just as you hoped. Your thanks mean a great deal to us.
  • 5 Helen Walker 3rd Feb 2026

    Fantastic care - kept informed at every stage of the process and well looked after on the day. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Helen,
    Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. We’re so pleased to hear that you felt well cared for throughout and kept informed at every stage. Knowing that you felt supported on the day itself means a great deal to our team.
    Thank you again for your kind words.
  • 5 Jean Woodruff 30th Jan 2026

    Your dedication to providing support and direction during this difficult time was so sensitive and gentle, it made the whole process easier to bear. Thank you

    Dave Ponton replied
    Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words.
    It truly means a great deal to us to know that our support and guidance brought some comfort to you during such a difficult time. We understand how emotional and overwhelming these moments can be, and it is a privilege to be able to help make the process a little easier to bear.
    Your appreciation is sincerely valued and will be shared with the whole team.
    With warmest regards,
    The Stibbards Team
  • 5 Clare Cooper 27th Dec 2025

    Excellent service. Very caring and professional. Would highly recommend.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Clare,
    Thank you so much for your wonderful feedback. We’re delighted to hear that you felt well cared for and received professional service. Your recommendation means a great deal to us, and we truly appreciate you taking the time to share your experience.
  • 5 Rebecca Crane 21st Dec 2025

    Very professional with a big heart. There to help you thought every step

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Rebecca, Thank you so much for your kind words. We truly appreciate you taking the time to share your experience. Our team is dedicated to providing professional care and heartfelt support every step of the way, and it means a lot to know we were able to help during such an important time.
  • 5 Ian Welby 21st Dec 2025

    Stibbards did a fantastic job of arranging my mum's funeral, cannot fault them. They made every stage of the process very respectful and I would recommend them.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Ian,
    Thank you for your kind words. We’re so pleased to hear that you felt supported throughout the arrangements for your mum’s funeral. Knowing that every stage of the process felt respectful and reassuring means a great deal to us. We truly appreciate your recommendation and thank you for placing your trust in Stibbards.
  • 5 Diana Kamarasi 18th Nov 2025

    The service and support provided by S. Stibbards & Sons has been exceptional.  This is a devastating and very disorienting time in everyone’s life, when we encounter such deep loss and the pain is insufferable.  The wish to honour our loved ones with a fitting send off becomes extremely important and invaluable.  S. Stibbards’ personnel, guidance and clear and detailed processes made it possible for me.  To be able to arrange a send off that honoured the love of my life.  It was personal and it adhered to all my wishes.  The facilities both on site and digitally available (webcast, upload links for pictures) were fantastic.  All of my requests have been perfectly executed and it just made a difficult experience that much lighter. Rev. J. Stannard has been outstanding in the way he conducted the service, and it was a privilege to have him.  I thank to S.Stibbards and Sons for all their help and support, as well as patience and compassion.  I can wholeheartedly recommend their services, thank you.  Diana

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Diana,

    Thank you for taking the time to share such heartfelt words. We are truly humbled to know that our support and guidance helped you through such a difficult and painful time. It means a great deal to us that we were able to honour your loved one in a way that reflected your wishes and brought comfort.

    We are glad that the facilities and digital options provided helped make the service more personal and meaningful, and we will be sure to pass on your kind words to Rev. J. Stannard, who will be touched to know his presence brought you solace.

    Your recommendation and gratitude mean so much to our team. Please know that it was our privilege to walk alongside you during this journey, and we remain here with patience and compassion should you ever need us again.

    With deepest sympathy and thanks
  • 5 Steven Ripo 16th Nov 2025

    I had my husbands funeral last week,I can’t fault the service Stibbards gave us at such a sad time, they took the strain and made things so much easier for us,it all run smoothly which I’m so thankful for I would highly recommend them and it’s family run so they understand the importance of family 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Steven,
    Thank you for taking the time to share such a heartfelt review. We’re truly sorry for your loss, and it means a great deal to know that our team was able to support you during such a sad and difficult time. We’re glad we could help ease some of the strain and ensure everything ran smoothly for your husband’s service. As a family‑run business, caring for families with understanding and respect is at the heart of what we do, so your kind words are deeply appreciated.
  • 5 Rob Morrish 11th Nov 2025

    From start to finish helping us make arrangements for Dad, Martin, Wendy & Janice (the main people we were dealing with) treated us with the greatest of care and attention, no question was too small and no ask too much.
    At all times we felt that Dad was treated with the ultimate dignity and care, and on the day of the funeral, the respect shown was so deeply appreciated.
    Its a strange thing to say, but we all feel we would entrust Stibbards to look after us when our time comes!
    Thankyou Stibbards!

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Rob,
    Thank you so much for sharing such a thoughtful review. We’re truly grateful for your kind words. It means a great deal to know that Martin, Wendy and Janice were able to support you with such care and attention while making arrangements for your dad. Ensuring families feel listened to, reassured and never rushed is incredibly important to us, so your feedback is deeply appreciated.
    We’re also touched to hear that the dignity and respect shown to your dad, especially on the day of the funeral, brought comfort to you all. Knowing you would place your trust in us again in the future is one of the highest compliments we could receive.
    Thank you for choosing Stibbards and for allowing us to support your family.
  • 5 Joanne Beaumont 3rd Nov 2025

    Stibbards have been amazing from start to finish. Wendy was extremely patient and helpful. We found all of the drivers and the conductor to be extremely professional on the day and would not hesitate to use them again and i would recommend them to any one. Thank you so much for making such a tough time that bit easier for us. 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Joanne, Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly grateful that you took the time to share your experience. It means a great deal to know that Wendy and the team were able to support you and your family during such a difficult time. Your recommendation is very much appreciated, and we’re honoured to have been able to help make things a little easier for you.
  • 5 Marilyn Edwards 25th Oct 2025

    Excellent service.

  • 5 Colin East 17th Oct 2025

    On behalf of our Family a huge Thank you for the care and attention you showed in arranging our Brothers Funeral .
    Thank you to Wendy Scott and Lauren and Rev John
    Highly recommend this Family run Funeral Company

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Colin,
    Thank you for your thoughtful message. It was a privilege to assist your family, and we are sincerely grateful for your kind recommendation. Your appreciation will be shared with Wendy, Lauren, and Rev Jon.
  • 5 Gillian Evans 14th Oct 2025

    Very professional and on the day of funeral they were so attentive and made everything go to plan. I would highly recommend. Thank you all for making Ian’s funeral go smoothly xx

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Gillian,
    Thank you for sharing such kind words. We’re truly glad to hear that everything went smoothly for Ian’s funeral and that you felt well supported on the day. Being attentive and ensuring every detail is taken care of is so important to us, and it means a great deal to know this brought comfort to you and your family.
    Thank you again for your recommendation and your trust.
  • 5 Mark Whitley 13th Oct 2025

    Stibbards looked after the arrangements for our dad’s funeral. Everything was taken care of from the moment we made contact right up to dropping the family off at the wake venue. All the staff could not have been kinder or more professional. Thank you.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Mark,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. It was our privilege to look after your dad’s funeral arrangements, and we’re truly grateful for your trust during such a difficult time. Knowing that you and your family felt supported and cared for means a great deal to all of us.
  • 5 Holly Howlett 10th Oct 2025

    Absolutely incredible team. Cannot fault one single thing or one single person. We are so grateful to Wendy for allowing us to come and see Aria every day. Also to Scott for walking Arias funeral. Thankyou for taking exceptional care of not just our Aria but me and Lewis too x

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Holly,
    Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. It was an honour to walk with Aria and to help guide her final journey with the dignity and love she deserved. Seeing her carried in the horse-drawn carriage was incredibly moving—a beautiful tribute to such a special little girl.
    We’re all so grateful to Wendy for making sure you could spend those precious moments with Aria each day. And I’m truly humbled to have been part of something so meaningful for your family. Supporting you and Lewis through this has stayed with me, and I’m glad we could offer comfort when it was needed most.
  • 5 Lisa Fulcher 7th Oct 2025

    Thank you for everything you did for us in the preparation and lead up to the Funeral. Obviously not having to organise one of these very often, you took the stress away and ensured all the details were sorted. On the day, the staff were very respectful (& helpful) plus the Order of Services were amazing quality. Thank you!

  • 5 Christine Wright 28th Sep 2025

    The attention to detail given was excellent, staff so understanding, who kept us informed of the whole process with dignity. My husband had a beautiful service to celebrate his life, could not have gone better.  Thank you to all. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Christine,
    We’re deeply grateful for your kind words. It was a privilege to help honour your husband’s life, and we’re so glad the service reflected the love and dignity he deserved. Knowing that you felt supported and informed throughout means everything to us. Thank you for allowing us to be part of such a meaningful moment.
  • 5 Tina Newman 25th Sep 2025

    Stibbards &sons went above and beyond for our mums funeral
    From the moment we met Martin and Wendy they made us as a family feel welcome and supported through such a difficult and very sad time
    They kepted in touch from the beginning up until the day of mums funeral and after
    No matter what questions we wanted answered or how many times we went over the plans they were there no matter what
    Quick responses to our emails and calls too
    When it came to the day we had a dress code and Martin along with he’s amazing staff came in our dress code and that meant the world to us as they didn’t have to do that but they did
    Also entering the crematorium they stopped and offered to put my 12 yr old daughter up onto the horse and carriage with the driver to bring mum in down the path to the crematorium 
    The perfect touch is was to




    Very thoughtful considerate and compassionate with regards to dealing with the family affairs and sad situation




    Stibbards & sons feel like part of our family and we highly recommend them to everyone 
    We cannot thank them enough

  • 5 Jane Thompson 16th Sep 2025

    What can I say, Stibbards has always conducted our family funerals for many years with love and compassion.  
    This time for my mum was no different. Wendy was absolutely brilliant with chatting with us to arranging and meeting the needs we required and compassion and gentleness shone through.
    Scott and the team on the day were so so lovely. Explaining the run of events with timings etc and giving us all the time we needed. Again compassion and love and caring was shown. 
    We can’t thank you all enough. And will always always recommend your services.
    So thank you so much adore making my mums final journey the best it could be and her every wish was met.. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Jane,
    Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words. It truly means the world to us at Stibbards to know that we were able to support you and your family during such a deeply emotional time.
    It was an honour to help guide your mum’s final journey, and I’m so glad that Wendy was able to offer the compassion and care you needed throughout the arrangements. She’s a gem, and I’ll be sure to pass on your lovely message to her.
    On the day itself, my team and I felt privileged to be there with you. We always aim to create a calm, respectful space where families feel supported and never rushed—and I’m grateful that came through for you.
    Your mum’s wishes were important to us, and knowing that we helped fulfil them with love and dignity is something we’ll carry with us. Thank you again for your trust, and for continuing to recommend us. It’s something we never take for granted.
  • 4 John Dilkes 14th Sep 2025

    The team at Stibbards were extremely professional and ensured the day of the funeral went without a hitch. They introduced us to Colourful Coffins and with the assistance of Colourful Coffins design team a wonderful personalised casket was created. It was the talk of the service.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear John,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. We're truly grateful that you felt supported and well cared for during such an important and emotional day. It was a privilege to help guide you through the arrangements and to introduce you to Colourful Coffins—their team does incredible work, and we're so pleased the personalised casket resonated so deeply with everyone. Hearing that it became the talk of the service means a great deal to us.
  • 5 Vera Clark 14th Sep 2025

    the funeral of my husband Frederick Clark was amazing. The family and I were dreading it but there wasn't any need
    it really couldn't have gone better. The cars were on time, the ushers were fantastic and it was good. The church was spotless and inviting and the Minister. Jon, was wonderful, at times he even made us laugh, my it was sad, of course it was, we were saying goodbye to someone we loved but it was also beautiful. Well done to all at Stibbards.

  • 5 Linda Simpson 12th Sep 2025

    The team at Stibbards were fantastic from start to finish. They were respectful, kind and professional. Everything was thoughtfully planned out and we were calmly supported throughout. 
    On the day of the funeral Simon took good care of us all and everything went without a hitch. 
    Thank you team Stibbards, you made a difficult day run smoothly and beautifully. 

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Linda, Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly honored to have been able to support you during such a difficult time. Knowing that the experience met your expectations from beginning to end and even after means a great deal to us. I hope that everything went well for you and your family once back the The Woodman Arms.
  • 5 Gina Denham 12th Sep 2025

    I cannot thank and highly recommend Stibbards enough.  From first point of contact with Wendy through to the sad day when we had to say goodbye to mum, they were thoroughly compassionate, professional and extremely polished in every aspect of the process, making an extremely difficult time less stressful x

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Gina,
    Thank you very much for your kind words. It is truly heartening to know that our team, and Wendy in particular, were able to offer the compassion and professionalism you needed during such a difficult time. We are honored to have supported you and your family in saying farewell to your beloved mother, and we deeply appreciate your recommendation. I hope all went well on your return to the gun and a toast was raised.

Address
Weir View House
533 Rayleigh Road
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 3TN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Professional Standards

  • NAFD Member

    Members agree to a published Code of Practice and can be held to account through the Association if something goes wrong.

    What they do

    • Inspects member premises to check standards are being met
    • Runs a complaints and resolution service for bereaved families
    • Provides funeral training and professional qualifications
  • SAIF Member

    Businesses are checked before they are admitted to SAIF and work to the Society’s Code of Practice.

    What they do

    • Inspects businesses before granting membership
    • Represents independent and family-owned funeral directors
    • Offers free, independent arbitration if something goes wrong

Latest Verified Reviews

Peter Walsh 23rd Feb 2026

Outstanding and sensitive support; both customer service and communication throughout was exemplary. The staff at Stibbards fully understand the extremely delicate nature of arranging and managing funerals and associated services. At no time did I have to chase or ask for clarification. My auntie's last days on this earth were treated with total respect and dignity and the family will be eternally grateful for this. Highly recommended!

Daniel Crysell 16th Feb 2026

The hardest day of our lives was made that little easier by the handling of everything by Stibbards. The empathy and compassion shown by everyone to an extremely sensitive situationnfrom start to finish was exemplary. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

Jane Woollaston 9th Feb 2026

Scott was outstanding. He was so kind and professional. My requests were all dealt with .  Thank you so much 

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