S. Stibbards & Sons, Rayleigh

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A family-owned funeral home in Rayleigh, near Benfleet, supporting families with compassionate and caring funeral services

Latest Verified Reviews

Christine Wright 28th Sep 2025

The attention to detail given was excellent, staff so understanding, who kept us informed of the whole process with dignity. My husband had a beautiful service to celebrate his life, could not have gone better.  Thank you to all. 

Tina Newman 25th Sep 2025

Stibbards &sons went above and beyond for our mums funeral From the moment we met Martin and Wendy they made us as a family feel welcome and supported through such a difficult and very sad time They kepted in touch from the beginning up until the day of mums funeral and after No matter what questions we wanted answered or how many times we went over the plans they were there no matter what Quick responses to our emails and calls too When it came to the day we had a dress code and Martin along with he’s amazing staff came in our dress code and that meant the world to us as they didn’t have to do that but they did Also entering the crematorium they stopped and offered to put my 12 yr old daughter up onto the horse and carriage with the driver to bring mum in down the path to the crematorium  The perfect touch is was to Very thoughtful considerate and compassionate with regards to dealing with the family affairs and sad situation Stibbards & sons feel like part of our family and we highly recommend them to everyone  We cannot thank them enough

Jane Thompson 16th Sep 2025

What can I say, Stibbards has always conducted our family funerals for many years with love and compassion.   This time for my mum was no different. Wendy was absolutely brilliant with chatting with us to arranging and meeting the needs we required and compassion and gentleness shone through. Scott and the team on the day were so so lovely. Explaining the run of events with timings etc and giving us all the time we needed. Again compassion and love and caring was shown.  We can’t thank you all enough. And will always always recommend your services. So thank you so much adore making my mums final journey the best it could be and her every wish was met.. 

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Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

Weir View House
533 Rayleigh Road
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 3TN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but with over 150 years experience, they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Rayleigh, Benfleet and the surrounding area at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

When it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of their caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Rayleigh funeral home is a completely new site with state-of-the-art care facilities. The new funeral home and care centre is the result of 5 years of planning, 18 months of building and 156 years of experience and knowledge. prior to opening in 2023. With two chapels of rest, bespoke washing facilities, large gathering rooms which allow extended family groups to come together, and industry leading modern facilities for the care of the deceased, Weir View House is a truly inclusive and fully featured funeral home.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved ones will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Traditional horse-drawn hearses, vintage vehicles and other bespoke options can also be arranged.

S Stibbards & Sons is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Homes Association (SAIF) and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for a compassionate and helpful funeral service in Rayleigh.

Latest Obituaries

John   Charles William Grieve

John Charles William Grieve

Jul 2026 - Oct 1934

Kevin Raymond    Watkins

Kevin Raymond Watkins

Oct 1969 - Jul 2026

Jeanette Margaret    Suckling

Jeanette Margaret Suckling

Mar 1955 - Jul 2026

Peter Frederick   Edwards

Peter Frederick Edwards

Nov 1939 - Jun 2026

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Christine Wright 28th Sep 2025

    The attention to detail given was excellent, staff so understanding, who kept us informed of the whole process with dignity. My husband had a beautiful service to celebrate his life, could not have gone better.  Thank you to all. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Christine,
    We’re deeply grateful for your kind words. It was a privilege to help honour your husband’s life, and we’re so glad the service reflected the love and dignity he deserved. Knowing that you felt supported and informed throughout means everything to us. Thank you for allowing us to be part of such a meaningful moment.
  • 5 Tina Newman 25th Sep 2025

    Stibbards &sons went above and beyond for our mums funeral
    From the moment we met Martin and Wendy they made us as a family feel welcome and supported through such a difficult and very sad time
    They kepted in touch from the beginning up until the day of mums funeral and after
    No matter what questions we wanted answered or how many times we went over the plans they were there no matter what
    Quick responses to our emails and calls too
    When it came to the day we had a dress code and Martin along with he’s amazing staff came in our dress code and that meant the world to us as they didn’t have to do that but they did
    Also entering the crematorium they stopped and offered to put my 12 yr old daughter up onto the horse and carriage with the driver to bring mum in down the path to the crematorium 
    The perfect touch is was to




    Very thoughtful considerate and compassionate with regards to dealing with the family affairs and sad situation




    Stibbards & sons feel like part of our family and we highly recommend them to everyone 
    We cannot thank them enough

  • 5 Jane Thompson 16th Sep 2025

    What can I say, Stibbards has always conducted our family funerals for many years with love and compassion.  
    This time for my mum was no different. Wendy was absolutely brilliant with chatting with us to arranging and meeting the needs we required and compassion and gentleness shone through.
    Scott and the team on the day were so so lovely. Explaining the run of events with timings etc and giving us all the time we needed. Again compassion and love and caring was shown. 
    We can’t thank you all enough. And will always always recommend your services.
    So thank you so much adore making my mums final journey the best it could be and her every wish was met.. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Jane,
    Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words. It truly means the world to us at Stibbards to know that we were able to support you and your family during such a deeply emotional time.
    It was an honour to help guide your mum’s final journey, and I’m so glad that Wendy was able to offer the compassion and care you needed throughout the arrangements. She’s a gem, and I’ll be sure to pass on your lovely message to her.
    On the day itself, my team and I felt privileged to be there with you. We always aim to create a calm, respectful space where families feel supported and never rushed—and I’m grateful that came through for you.
    Your mum’s wishes were important to us, and knowing that we helped fulfil them with love and dignity is something we’ll carry with us. Thank you again for your trust, and for continuing to recommend us. It’s something we never take for granted.
  • 4 John Dilkes 14th Sep 2025

    The team at Stibbards were extremely professional and ensured the day of the funeral went without a hitch. They introduced us to Colourful Coffins and with the assistance of Colourful Coffins design team a wonderful personalised casket was created. It was the talk of the service.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear John,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. We're truly grateful that you felt supported and well cared for during such an important and emotional day. It was a privilege to help guide you through the arrangements and to introduce you to Colourful Coffins—their team does incredible work, and we're so pleased the personalised casket resonated so deeply with everyone. Hearing that it became the talk of the service means a great deal to us.
  • 5 Vera Clark 14th Sep 2025

    the funeral of my husband Frederick Clark was amazing. The family and I were dreading it but there wasn't any need
    it really couldn't have gone better. The cars were on time, the ushers were fantastic and it was good. The church was spotless and inviting and the Minister. Jon, was wonderful, at times he even made us laugh, my it was sad, of course it was, we were saying goodbye to someone we loved but it was also beautiful. Well done to all at Stibbards.

  • 5 Linda Simpson 12th Sep 2025

    The team at Stibbards were fantastic from start to finish. They were respectful, kind and professional. Everything was thoughtfully planned out and we were calmly supported throughout. 
    On the day of the funeral Simon took good care of us all and everything went without a hitch. 
    Thank you team Stibbards, you made a difficult day run smoothly and beautifully. 

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Linda, Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly honored to have been able to support you during such a difficult time. Knowing that the experience met your expectations from beginning to end and even after means a great deal to us. I hope that everything went well for you and your family once back the The Woodman Arms.
  • 5 Gina Denham 12th Sep 2025

    I cannot thank and highly recommend Stibbards enough.  From first point of contact with Wendy through to the sad day when we had to say goodbye to mum, they were thoroughly compassionate, professional and extremely polished in every aspect of the process, making an extremely difficult time less stressful x

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Gina,
    Thank you very much for your kind words. It is truly heartening to know that our team, and Wendy in particular, were able to offer the compassion and professionalism you needed during such a difficult time. We are honored to have supported you and your family in saying farewell to your beloved mother, and we deeply appreciate your recommendation. I hope all went well on your return to the gun and a toast was raised.
  • 5 Madeline Rose 8th Sep 2025

    Scott was professional kind and caring. A big help during a difficult time. An excellent service that felt like he knew Mum and the family well. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Madeline,
    Thank you for your thoughtful feedback. It was a privilege to support you and your family during such a sensitive time. I'm truly honored that my care felt personal and meaningful. I will be sure to pass on these kind words to the team.
  • 5 Andrew Murphy 1st Sep 2025

    From my first phone call to Stibbards until the day of the funeral, I cannot fault Stibbards at all.  Extremely helpful and the way they were I would 100% recommend them.  Thank you 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Andrew ,Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re thrilled to hear that Stibbards was able to support you during such a difficult time. It’s wonderful to know they met your expectations, and your recommendation means a lot. I will pass your kind words on to all the team
  • 5 David Pegg 31st Aug 2025



    A massive thank you to the team at Stibbards for helping and supporting us before, jurying and after Matthew’s funeral. We were so pleased how it all went on the day. Please pass on our gratitude to Obitus and Basildon Crematorium for letting us use their beautiful facilities. Finally a massive thank you to Jon Stannard for his service and support throughout the service.


    Kind Regards,
    David and Cristina

  • 5 Alison Halpin 24th Aug 2025

    Exceptional service from start to finish. The team showed genuine care, professionalism, and attention to detail, making a difficult time feel more manageable. Everything was handled with quiet dignity and compassion. We are deeply grateful and would not hesitate to recommend them.

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Alison, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team. I hope everything went well for you and your family once back at the Rayleigh Club.
  • 5 Tracy Field 29th Jul 2025

    I would like to say a huge thank you for making a very sad time a little easier to deal with, nothing was to much trouble, everything was taken care of with the upmost respect to all involved. My mum had the best send off and l am honestly so grateful for all the help and support that was offered. Wendy was especially helpful, l had many questions and she was always willing to help. 
    Thank you all so very much.
    I would not hesitate to use your services again but hopefully not any time soon. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Tracy,
    Thank you so much for your kind and touching words. It means a great deal to hear that your mum's farewell felt right and respectful — that’s always our deepest aim.
    Wendy will be especially moved to know how much her care and support meant to you; I’ll be sure to pass on your thanks.
    Please know that we’re always here if you ever need us again — though we absolutely understand the sentiment behind “hopefully not any time soon.”
  • 5 Graeme Rudgley 26th Jul 2025

    Looked after us from start to finish. Make it so easy for us.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Graeme,
    Thank you so much for your lovely message. We're so glad we were able to support you every step of the way and make things feel a little easier during such a difficult time. It means a lot to know that our care made a difference, and your kind words are deeply appreciated by all of us.
  • 5 Jenny Pearce 22nd Jul 2025

    1st class service from the team at Stibbards’s, we couldn’t have asked for better.  Everything was seamlessly put in place, nothing was too much trouble.
     Special mention to Sue & Stuart for their unwavering support & help to organise everything….thank you so much!

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Jenny , Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re truly grateful for your feedback and are so pleased to hear that everything went smoothly for you. Sue, Stuart, and the whole team will be touched by your appreciation — it means a great deal to us. It was an honour to support you
  • 5 Terri-Anne Wilcox 20th Jul 2025

    From the very beginning, Stibbard’s professionalism and compassion helped ease us through this difficult time for our family. Every detail was handled with such respect and thoughtfulness, and their quiet guidance gave us comfort and confidence when we needed it most. Thank you so much.

  • 5 Sophie Cooper 14th Jul 2025

    The very best!

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Sophie, That’s very kind of you to say, we hope all went well back at the Lawns
  • 5 Sophie Hine 13th Jul 2025

    We were so impressed with Scott on the day. He made a horrible day more bearable. Took the stress away from everything and really looked after us. From the phone call the day before, to then actual day. Thank you. 

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Sophie,

    That’s incredibly kind of you to say—Thank you for taking the time to express such words. We’re so glad the team and myself was able to bring some comfort and ease during such a difficult time. It’s moments like these that remind us why we do what we do. I hope all went well on your return to The Rayleigh Club, and a toast was raised to a very special person.
  • 5 Lisa Newall 7th Jul 2025

    Certainly. Here's a respectful and positive review you can use

    I cannot thank Stibbards Funeral Home enough for the care, professionalism, and compassion they showed during such a difficult time. From the very first contact, every member of the team was supportive, attentive, and genuinely kind. They handled every detail with the utmost sensitivity and ensured the entire process was smooth and dignified.

    Their guidance was invaluable, and nothing ever felt rushed or impersonal. They took the time to listen, accommodate our wishes, and deliver a service that was not only respectful but also deeply meaningful. It brought great comfort to know our loved one was in such good hands.

    Thank you to everyone at Stibbards for your outstanding service and for going above and beyond.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Lisa,

    Thank you for your truly heartfelt message. We are incredibly grateful that you took the time to share your experience.

    It is our privilege to support families during such a tender and difficult time, and it brings great comfort to know that our care made a meaningful difference to you and your family. Every member of our team is committed to offering compassion, professionalism, and dignity in all we do, and your recognition means more than we can express.

    I will be sure to pass on your gratitude to the team, thank you for entrusting us during such a difficult and emotional moment.
  • 5 Mel Tuitt 25th Jun 2025

    They are so helpful and considerate of people and they're business skills are top tier

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Mel, thank you for you kind words
  • 5 Sara Ace 23rd Jun 2025

    Thank you for your support and amazing service during a difficult time 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Sara, We are truly glad we could support you during this difficult time. Wishing you continued strength and comfort."
  • 5 Theresa Ward 14th Jun 2025

    They handled everything with empathy and detail. Would definitely recommend if anyone asked

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Theresa, thank you for your kind words. We are pleased to hear you felt supported by our team.
  • 5 Daniel Spencer 9th Jun 2025

    Cannot speak highly enough about S.Stibbards & sons. Wendy was Excellent from the very first phone call, and at every stage of organising the funeral, so respectful and considerate, nothing was too much trouble. Scott was Brilliant on the day and couple of days before the funeral phoned to run through all the details which was very helpful and reassuring.
    Such a professional and personal company.

    Scott Bartlett replied
    Dear Daniel,

    I truly appreciate you taking the time to share such kind words. It means so much to know that Wendy guided you seamlessly through the arrangements and that I was able to support you on the day. We are genuinely pleased to hear that everything was handled with professionalism and care, and your feedback reassures us that we are making a personal touch throughout such a difficult time.

    Thank you again for your thoughtful message—it is deeply appreciated.
  • 5 Laura Mead 27th May 2025

    Stibbards come highly recommended by my family, having supported us through both my Dad’s and my Nan’s funerals. They were incredibly professional and compassionate during what were very difficult and emotional times. The team clearly explained every step of the process, kept us informed throughout, and maintained excellent communication.

    We were also introduced to a wonderful celebrant, Emma Walker, who led both services with warmth and sincerity — we can’t recommend her enough.

    Thank you to everyone at Stibbards for helping us lay our loved ones to rest with the dignity and care they truly deserved.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Laura, thank you so much for taking the time to share such kind and thoughtful words It was our privilege to support you and your family through such difficult times.

    We’re truly grateful to hear that you found our team to be professional, compassionate, and communicative throughout the process. Ensuring that families feel supported, informed, and cared for is at the heart of everything we do.

    We’re also so pleased to hear that Emma Walker’s services brought comfort and warmth to your ceremonies — she is indeed a very special part of our team.

    On behalf of everyone at Stibbards, thank you again for placing your trust in us. It means a great deal to know we were able to help honour your Dad and Nan with the dignity and respect they deserved.
  • 5 Kevin Peacock 24th May 2025

    The hole experience was exceptional from start to the day we laid my wife to rest and including the after service 

    Stuart Fryer replied
    Dear Kevin, Thank you so much for your kind words. We are truly honored to have been able to support you during such a difficult time. Knowing that the experience met your expectations from beginning to end and even after means a great deal to us.
  • 5 Richard Ovenden 21st May 2025

    Cannot fault any aspect of the service provided. Extremely professional and helpful from start to finish. Would highly recommend 

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Richard, Peter and Stephen, thank you for allowing us to come into your lives at such a difficult time and care for you all and Mum, your kind words are so gratefully received.

Address
Weir View House
533 Rayleigh Road
Benfleet
Essex
SS7 3TN

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

Christine Wright 28th Sep 2025

The attention to detail given was excellent, staff so understanding, who kept us informed of the whole process with dignity. My husband had a beautiful service to celebrate his life, could not have gone better.  Thank you to all. 

Tina Newman 25th Sep 2025

Stibbards &sons went above and beyond for our mums funeral From the moment we met Martin and Wendy they made us as a family feel welcome and supported through such a difficult and very sad time They kepted in touch from the beginning up until the day of mums funeral and after No matter what questions we wanted answered or how many times we went over the plans they were there no matter what Quick responses to our emails and calls too When it came to the day we had a dress code and Martin along with he’s amazing staff came in our dress code and that meant the world to us as they didn’t have to do that but they did Also entering the crematorium they stopped and offered to put my 12 yr old daughter up onto the horse and carriage with the driver to bring mum in down the path to the crematorium  The perfect touch is was to Very thoughtful considerate and compassionate with regards to dealing with the family affairs and sad situation Stibbards & sons feel like part of our family and we highly recommend them to everyone  We cannot thank them enough

Jane Thompson 16th Sep 2025

What can I say, Stibbards has always conducted our family funerals for many years with love and compassion.   This time for my mum was no different. Wendy was absolutely brilliant with chatting with us to arranging and meeting the needs we required and compassion and gentleness shone through. Scott and the team on the day were so so lovely. Explaining the run of events with timings etc and giving us all the time we needed. Again compassion and love and caring was shown.  We can’t thank you all enough. And will always always recommend your services. So thank you so much adore making my mums final journey the best it could be and her every wish was met.. 

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