Abbey Funeral Services Ltd
An independent, well-established family-managed business in Tonbridge, serving Tunbridge Wells, Pembury, Southborough, East Peckham, Hadlow, Hildenborough, Paddock Wood and surrounding areas
Funeral Services
- Traditional burial
- Simple funeral
- Traditional cremation
- Home visit
- On-site parking
- Chapel of rest
Funeral arrangements
- Home visit
- 24 hour telephone support
- On-site parking
- Chapel of rest
- Hearse
- Limousine
- Horse-drawn hearse
- Bespoke vehicle
- Coffin
- Personalised coffin
- Casket
- Headstone / Plaque
- Urn
- Memorial jewellery
- Floral tributes
- Charitable donations
- Newspaper announcement
- Online obituary
- Memorial book
- Order of service sheets
- Music
- Video tribute
- Funeral webcasting
- Catering
- Dove release
- Balloon release
- Fireworks
Types of funeral
- Traditional burial
- Simple funeral
- Traditional cremation
- Green funeral
- Direct cremation
- Burial at sea
- Non-religious funeral
- Anglican funeral
- Roman Catholic funeral
- Muslim funeral
- Jewish funeral
- Sikh funeral
- Hindu funeral
- Buddhist funeral
- Children’s funeral
Financial arrangements
- Financial advice
- Wills & probate
- Pre-paid funeral plan
Additional services
- Repatriation
- Bereavement counselling
- List of mourners
About Us
Abbey Funeral Services was founded in 1983 by husband and wife team, and former Presidents of the National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (SAIF), Jim and Chris Parker. Jo, the daughter of Chris & Jim, joined the company in 1993 and has been Managing Director since 2019.
This Funeral Home provides a wide range of funeral services to families in Tonbridge, Tunbridge Wells, and surrounding areas, from simple funerals, traditional burial and cremation services, green funerals including woodland burials and other environmentally conscious options. Their vehicle offerings include a selection of hearses and limousines, including horse-drawn hearses, motorcycle hearses and other, more personalised and bespoke transportation.
For anyone thinking ahead to the future, Abbey Funeral Services provides pre-paid Funeral Plans through Golden Charter, which are designed to cover the Funeral Director's costs and help contribute towards any third-party costs, such as crematorium fees and an officiant to lead the service.
Given our Mental Health is so important, aftercare is also made available, with Jo forming a community bereavement support program called ‘Friends Together’, which aims to assist families following a funeral. In addition to Funeral Directing and running the support group, Jo also runs Kent & Sussex Memorials, a monumental masonry company catering to the memorial needs of their families.
The family and their highly trained staff at Abbey Funeral Services are proud of their deep connection to the local community and offer services to high professional standards, in keeping with a strict industry Code of Practice.
Call Abbey Funeral Services today to begin making arrangements, discuss setting up a plan or for further enquiries, or click 'Visit Website' to view their official website and to explore in more detail.
What Families Say
AI SummaryMany families emphasise the personal care they received, describing staff who were kind, empathetic and patient throughout arrangements, even when requests were unusual or decisions needed time. Several mention that this independent firm felt less impersonal than larger chains, with staff treating them as though their loved one was the only person being looked after.
Families frequently note clear communication at every stage, from the first phone call through to after the funeral, with staff always available to answer questions and keeping them informed of progress without being intrusive. A number describe how staff helped coordinate various elements—recommending celebrants, florists and other services—which reduced stress during an already difficult time.
On the day itself, families repeatedly highlight how smoothly the funeral ran, with staff remaining calm, organised and respectful, and handling every detail exactly as the family had wished.
This summary is generated by AI from recent verified reviews.
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Professional Standards
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SAIF Member
Businesses are checked before they are admitted to SAIF and work to the Society’s Code of Practice.
What they do
- Inspects businesses before granting membership
- Represents independent and family-owned funeral directors
- Offers free, independent arbitration if something goes wrong
Latest Verified Reviews
Claire Mitchell 25th Sep 2026
I lost my husband unexpectedly which was an incredibly shocking, bewildering experience. We went to Abbey as they are a small independent firm and feel we got a personal service that was lacking in bigger "chains". James looked after me and my friend who accompanied me on all visits, was kind, caring and empathetic from the start – and didn't appear fazed by our sometimes bizarre requests or questions! He helped arrange the celebrant Gary, recommended a florist and thought of a couple of things I wouldn't have that made a real difference to the day. For example using the Chapel at Kent and Sussex which would work with the number of guests and look great with the horse drawn hearse - it did look really special. I'd booked the horse drawn hearse myself as knew the horses that would be taking Mick on his final journey but James was happy to pick up liaising on that meaning I didn't have to worry about that part of it. Everyone involved was caring and professional, the transfers from the car to the horse drawn hearse were seamless and carried out with the utmost respect to Mick, the sun shone and the day/service were a fitting tribute to someone who is much loved and missed.
Tanya Harris 17th Sep 2026
I cannot thank Karen and the team enough for the wonderful care they gave our family after my father passed away. From our very first meeting, everything was handled with absolute dignity, respect, and deep compassion. Karen guided us through every step without any rush or pressure, making a very painful time much more manageable. On the day of the funeral, the team were calm, organised, and supportive. We are so grateful for all their kindness and professionalism.
Judith Stanton 16th Sep 2026
Very kind and efficient and great communication from Sharon. Thank you very much.