Abbey Funeral Services Ltd

72 reviews

Call 24 hours

An independent, well-established family-managed business in Tonbridge, serving Tunbridge Wells, Pembury, Southborough, East Peckham, Hadlow, Hildenborough, Paddock Wood and surrounding areas

Latest Verified Reviews

Angela Rees 1st Sep 2025

Respectful, caring and so very helpful throughout, thank you.

Madeline Serjeant 1st Sep 2025

Arranging a funeral for a loved one  is heartbreaking and the staff at Abbeys helped to make this task as easy as possible. They treated my family and I  with the utmost care, respect and compassion. Sarah was so helpful guiding my family and I through this very difficult time. I cannot recommend Abbeys highly enough, they are all a most caring and professional team. 

Jane Stanley 30th Aug 2025

Everyone at Abbey was wonderful. They took all the stress off of our family at such a distressing time and were so helpful in finding a marvellous lady to do the flower memorials and dealing with the church and vicar arrangements. I thoroughly recommend their services.

Reviews

Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

173 High Street
Tonbridge
Kent
TN9 1BX

Open map

Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

About Us

Abbey Funeral Services was founded in 1983 by husband and wife team, and former Presidents of the National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (SAIF), Jim and Chris Parker. Jo, the daughter of Chris & Jim, joined the company in 1993 and has been Managing Director since 2019.

This Funeral Home provides a wide range of funeral services to families in Tonbridge, Tunbridge Wells, and surrounding areas, from simple funerals, traditional burial and cremation services, green funerals including woodland burials and other environmentally conscious options. Their vehicle offerings include a selection of hearses and limousines, including horse-drawn hearses, motorcycle hearses and other, more personalised and bespoke transportation.

For anyone thinking ahead to the future, Abbey Funeral Services provides pre-paid Funeral Plans through Golden Charter, which are designed to cover the Funeral Director's costs and help contribute towards any third-party costs, such as crematorium fees and an officiant to lead the service.

Given our Mental Health is so important, aftercare is also made available, with Jo forming a community bereavement support program called ‘Friends Together’, which aims to assist families following a funeral. In addition to Funeral Directing and running the support group, Jo also runs Kent & Sussex Memorials, a monumental masonry company catering to the memorial needs of their families.

The family and their highly trained staff at Abbey Funeral Services are proud of their deep connection to the local community and offer services to high professional standards, in keeping with a strict industry Code of Practice.

Call Abbey Funeral Services today to begin making arrangements, discuss setting up a plan or for further enquiries, or click 'Visit Website' to view their official website and to explore in more detail.

Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Angela Rees 1st Sep 2025

    Respectful, caring and so very helpful throughout, thank you.

  • 5 Madeline Serjeant 1st Sep 2025

    Arranging a funeral for a loved one  is heartbreaking and the staff at Abbeys helped to make this task as easy as possible. They treated my family and I  with the utmost care, respect and compassion. Sarah was so helpful guiding my family and I through this very difficult time. I cannot recommend Abbeys highly enough, they are all a most caring and professional team. 

  • 5 Jane Stanley 30th Aug 2025

    Everyone at Abbey was wonderful. They took all the stress off of our family at such a distressing time and were so helpful in finding a marvellous lady to do the flower memorials and dealing with the church and vicar arrangements.
    I thoroughly recommend their services.

  • 5 Lynn Humphreys 30th Aug 2025

    Abby are just amazing. They help you every step of the way, nothing is too much trouble. Their personal service is second to none. I would always use them and always have. 

  • 5 Mike Hibbs 28th Jul 2025

    We couldn't have asked for a better funeral service than Abbey gave us. Their kind, compassionate approach made one of life's most difficult times a little easier. Thank you to all the staff for everything.

  • 5 Julie Barter 21st Jul 2025

    Abbey Funeral Services organised my late mother's funeral arrangements. As we are a small family, we couldn't face a big service in the Crematorium. A direct cremation was decided upon but we needed a company with a High St presence and excellent reviews who stood by their ethos. They communicated with us throughout. We wanted peace of mind that my mother was picked up from hospital and was delivered safely to their Chapel of Rest where we could all go and visit her and pay our respects. We had the comfort of knowing she was safe in their hands all the time, which lessened the trauma of it all. My mother was never alone and with Abbey all the way to her final Resting Place. AFS took all the stress out of what was already a very emotional time. We highly recommend them.

  • 5 Mike Muir 20th Jul 2025

    Karen from Abbey Funerals carried out all the arrangements for Vivs funeral.
    The first and main thing she gave us was her time and support taking away the stress and worry. She removes any taboo about death and just made the situation copeable. The whole team were available to answer questions and actually felt like part of our family. Speaking on behalf of all our family, we would have no hesitation in recommending Abbey Funeral Services to conduct a funeral thanks to all

  • 5 Philip Mills 19th Jul 2025

    Excellent in all respects. Very friendly and did anything we requested. We were very impressed.
    S.

  • 4 Janet Elcombe 18th Jul 2025

    They were all very helpful and fulfilling our needs

  • 5 Wendy Tolhurst 18th Jul 2025

    Choosing a funeral director when a loved one has died is a unique experience. You are looking for a professional service, where everything is going to run smoothly, but also where the staff are compassionate and understanding. Whilst cost is a consideration, this is one occasion that people are unlikely to shop around.
    My sister and I were planning and organising the funeral in accordance with our late brother's wishes but, as my sister lives abroad, ultimately it was down to me to choose an organisation. I had met Chris Parker through the Friends Together bereavement group and so we made an appointment with Abbey Funeral Services.
    From the moment we met Sharon, all the arrangements felt like they were in safe hands. No request was too small or difficult and the contact we had between meeting Sharon and the funeral was perfect - we felt everything was what we had chosen and updates given along the way were regular but not intrusive. It was Abbey who recommended a celebrant to us and both my sister and I felt that she was a perfect fit. I'm sure a part of that was Sharon listening to us talk about our brother and his character and recommending somebody who could offer support and understand the service we required.

    Abbey took care of everything for us, even sorting the finances with the funeral plan my brother had in place. Their professionalism and compassion meant that on the day of the funeral, all we were required to do was grieve for our brother and pay our last respects.

    I would have absolutely no hesitation in recommending Abbey Funeral Services to anybody.

  • 5 Kim Winton 17th Jul 2025

    Lovely caring people who make everything run effortlessly at a difficult time. Used Abbey a couple of times before and they are brilliant. Have always passed their name onto others.

  • 5 Tracy Williams 17th Jul 2025

    Abbey funeral services, treated us with kindness and compassion when dealing with my mum’s funeral, especially Karen Barker, she guided us through every step of the process and went above and beyond, especially when my mums ashes were interred in the vault at the cemetery, I cannot thank Karen and the whole team at abbey funeral services enough for all they did in looking after mum in her final journey.

  • 5 Ann Jones 17th Jul 2025

    I was very pleased with Abbey in particular with Sharon who was so reassuring and helpful in every way. She came to the house and talked everything through with my eldest son and his wife and myself. If a death and funeral can be perfect Gerard’s certainly was. Thank you so much. Ann Jones 

  • 5 Rob Burt 17th Jul 2025

    Abbey are without question a very caring and professional company, but more so they showed much empathy when helping me organise the funeral of my late mother. I couldn’t recommend them highly enough. Thank you, bless you all at Abbey. 
    Rob Burt

  • 5 Fernando Resende 17th Jul 2025

    I would like to express my gratitude to Abbey Funeral Services for all that they did for Jane's Funeral. Sarah Spence was absolutely marvellous and was always on hand to support me through the most difficult time of my life.
    Thank you.
    Fernando Resende

  • 5 Russell Lynch 17th Jul 2025

    Amazing Team, my thanks to you all.

  • 5 Simon Morris 17th Jul 2025

    I cannot fault the service that Abbey provided to my sister and I at such a difficult time. The service throughout the process was exceptional. James in particular who dealt with the  majority of the organisation was such a kind person to deal with.
    Also the pallbearers on the day who were again first class. Thank you so much for doing such a great job for my dear Mum

  • 5 Julie Moss 17th Jul 2025

    Professional, compassionate and well run company.  Staff are very friendly and knowledgeable and nothing is too much trouble. They are discreet when they need to be but always available when needed and very caring. Would highly recommend them. 

  • 5 Ray Price 17th Jul 2025

    Abbey handled all aspects of the funeral with professionalism and care. Everyone was helpful and friendly. The respectful way they handled the coffin was very moving for all the family. To say we were satisfied is an understatement, I cannot recommend them highly enough. 

  • 5 Bob Gritten 17th Jul 2025

    Once again the staff at Abbey Funerals were extremely professional, I would not hesitate recommending them.

  • 5 Lyanna Perryman 17th Jul 2025

    We have used Abbey for other family members. Karen went above & beyond for Michael. We had a full police funeral and they arranged it to perfection. We couldn't have asked for anything better than we had for his day.
    And Jan conducted the service bwautifully

  • 5 Sally Holdsworth 17th Jul 2025

    Abbey funeral directors were wonderful, very caring and nothing was any trouble and gave us as much time as we needed for all matters. 

Address
173 High Street
Tonbridge
Kent
TN9 1BX

Open map

Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

Angela Rees 1st Sep 2025

Respectful, caring and so very helpful throughout, thank you.

Madeline Serjeant 1st Sep 2025

Arranging a funeral for a loved one  is heartbreaking and the staff at Abbeys helped to make this task as easy as possible. They treated my family and I  with the utmost care, respect and compassion. Sarah was so helpful guiding my family and I through this very difficult time. I cannot recommend Abbeys highly enough, they are all a most caring and professional team. 

Jane Stanley 30th Aug 2025

Everyone at Abbey was wonderful. They took all the stress off of our family at such a distressing time and were so helpful in finding a marvellous lady to do the flower memorials and dealing with the church and vicar arrangements. I thoroughly recommend their services.

Reviews
Crematorium
Cemetery
  • Kent and Sussex Crematorium

    Royal Tunbridge Wells, TN2 5JJ

  • Vinters Park Crematorium

    Maidstone, ME14 5LG

  • Medway Crematorium

    Chatham, ME5 9QU

  • Thames View Crematorium & Cemetery

    Gravesend, DA12 3JH

  • Wealden Crematorium

    Horam, TN21 0LH

  • Tonbridge Cemetery

    Tonbridge, TN10 3EL

  • Kent and Sussex Cemetery and Crematorium

    Tunbridge Wells, TN2 5JJ

  • Greatness Cemetery

    Sevenoaks, TN14 5AA

  • Herne Road Cemetery

    Crowborough, TN6 2NT

  • Snodland Cemetery

    Snodland, ME6 5DN

  • Maidstone Cemetery

    Maidstone, ME15 9AF

  • Oxted Burial Ground

    Oxted, RH8 9NB

  • Mount Noddy Cemetery

    East Grinstead, RH19 3HP

  • Biggin Hill Cemetery

    Westerham, TN16 3UB

  • St Marys Cemetery (Bromley)

    Bromley, BR5 3PG

  • Rochester Cemetery

    Chatham, ME4 6HJ

  • Chatham Cemetery

    Chatham, ME4 6HJ

  • Greenlawn Memorial Park Cemetery

    Croydon, CR6 9EQ

  • Strood Cemetery

    Rochester, ME2 2NJ

  • St Lukes Cemetery

    Bromley, BR2 8EH

Update

Prices vary by time and day of week