Stephen Mark Crowe (15 Oct 1964 - 24 Jan 2022)

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Location
Avenue Baptist Church Avenue Terrace Westcliff on Sea Essex SS0 7PL
Date
16th Feb 2022
Time
3.15pm
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In loving memory of Stephen Mark Crowe a beloved son to Barbara and the late Ken Crowe and dearest brother to Jonathan and Debbie, who sadly passed away on 24th January 2022.
Stephen born with Down's Syndrome defied the predictions of the time of never amounting to anything, to go on to lead a fulfilling happy and joyful life and gained skills and made significant achievements.
Stephen lived in the family home for many years and then moved on into supported living at Barnabas House and then more recently Autumn Cottage.
As a child Stephen attended Lancaster School and as an adult the Avro Centre for people with Learning Disabilities and gained a role working at Rayleigh Police Station helping out on the post run and then Hadleigh Traing Centre in the cafe there.
Stephen loved his family, his mum, his dad who he missed greatly, his brother and sister and nephews and nieces, loving people and building strong bonds with everyone he met and will be remembered for his cheeky smile and infectious giggle and amazing hugs and genuine love for them, although strong willed and stubborn at times too!
Stephen was an avid supporter of Southend United Football, showing faith where others failed and although did not attend many games would listen on the radio and loved to talk 'football' with his dad when he was alive.
Stephen had a great love of music- especially the drums and was one of the very first members of MENCAP Music School even getting to play the drums on the stage at The London Palladium.
Stephen was dedicated to Avenue Baptist Church taking his role of Church Steward very seriously and always ensuring the offering was part of the service, even if this meant reminding the minister mid sermon!
Stephen also brought his musical skills to the church and part of the worship team would play the bongos but was always a fan of the more lively tunes.
Stephen was a volunteer for many years at the church mother and toddler group and here too built strong links with those who attended.
Stephen was a member of The Seekers group at Avenue Baptist Church, a group dedicated to making the Christian life more understandable and accessible for adults with learning disabilities and had many friends and happy times, including holidays away with this group of friends.
Sadly in his later years Stephen developed dementia and needed more help and support but his amazing smile and giggle never faltered.
Stephen we will miss you so much.

Pam & John Peace donated £10 in memory of Stephen

In memory of Stephen, a very special man who was something of a trailblazer for those with a learning disability.

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Linda Cuthbert donated in memory of Stephen

From Lin Cuthbert and Jill Smith.
Fond memories of Stephen at Causeway b

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Don and Ann Cooper donated £10 in memory of Stephen
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Pam Thompson donated £10 in memory of Stephen

Will miss your cheeky smile x x

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Patrick Lee-Hargreaves donated in memory of Stephen

With sincere condolences, from Patrick, Clara, Emily, Terry, Jacek, and all who knew Stephen at Barnabas House.

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Joy Rooke wrote

I will always remember Stephen with love and affection. From when he first came to Avenue as a maybe 2yr old, helping take him into creche and Beginners and look after him there sometimes. To babysitting occasionally and then generally in church, Seekers and Shared Care Adults. Dave when working with him at Barnabas house too. Visited him once at Autumn Cottage last August and seeing him in church right up till the end of December I believe. He lived an extra 4 or 5 years too as was very ill then and I honestly thought we were saying goodbye to him, but God wasn't ready to take him home then. God bless and keep you Stephen. You taught us a lot as a family as all of us working paid or voluntarily with learning disabilities.

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Andrea Snowden wrote

I remember Stephen’s passion for Football, always talking matches over with Uncle Ken, Bowls at Potters, Strong Bear Hugs, Line Dancing at the Church and Baked Beans on Toast!
Stephen, you will be sadly missed and our thoughts are with Auntie Barbara, Joe & Deb and all your wider family and friends.

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Diana Causton wrote

A lovely tribute to a very special person who was involved in so many things in the church and outside organisation's with his lovely sense of rhythm and music. We will remember his smile, commitment, hugs and wanting to do things right. We will be remember him as a light in
our lives with lots of memories.
May he rest in peace with the Lord he believed in xx

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