Dawn Dethick (9 Nov 1969 - 8 Jul 2020)

In memory of my beautiful sister Dawn - a shining light that brightened everyone’s life and heart went out today - everyone that came into contact with her were enlightened by her presence, kindness and pure loveliness. She gave love 💕 hope and unconditional Friendship to everyone who had the pleasure to have crossed paths with her - if I could turn the clock 🕰 back and have her still here as a beacon of love and sincerity I would - if I could trade places and let her continue in this life - living life having fun and bringing joy and happiness to everyone that crosses paths with her I would gladly take her place so that she continued to do so unselfishly what she has done all her life x Nobody could have wished for a better sister daughter cousin friend or partner - she gave light and happiness to everyone when u thought there was none - I will love and miss u til the day I meet back up with you - LIVE LIFE HAVE FUN - your heartbroken sister 💔😢 Linda x x x x x

In memory of Dawn Dethick, who I will always remember as an incredibly kind and positive person who made a newbie feel very welcome. My heart goes out to her loved ones x

In remembrance of Dawn

We all have our memories of Dawn. My times with Dawn have been some of the most happiest times. I will not mention the more recent times as they were heart breaking.

I first met Dawn on Saturday 18th July 2015, in Alton Hampshire after she had a very eventful journey from Leeds. She was sat on a vintage bus the me and a few other friends had taken for a a weekend down there. My first memory was popping my head round the door and saying "hello my name is Calum". He realised that the chemistry was there the following morning when we were discussing one of our friends business ideas.

We eventually agreed to have a date. Which went very well and we were asked to leave several premises because they were closing for the day before we realised it we were having catch the last bus back to our homes. We got together as a couple on Sunday 13th September 2015, having some wonderful times together.

Dawn was a very intelligent caring supportive woman, my life has been better with her in it. She lived life to full. I'm going to make the most of and look after little miss. There is a Dawn shaped gap in my life and until the day I join you I will make the most so we have lots to talk about. I love you Dawn and always will do. You were definitely my soul mate and I miss you so much. Sweet dreams yours always calum xxx

you are always with us,[ live life have fun.]

We all have our own happy memories of Dawn and we all like to remember her in our own way.

I first met Dawn on the 18 July 2015 at half 5. We were a a classic bus day in Alton Hampshire, and Dawn had had a very eventful journey down form Leeds. She had come down to meet us all to discuss a business idea. My first sight of her was of her sat on the bus and I popped my head round the door and said "hello my name is Calum". She sat opposite me at breakfast while we discussed the ill-fated idea. We both engaged in a conversation and we both realised that chemistry was there.

The journey back involved me hanging out the open door taking pictures of the passing scene and she told me that I looked like a war photographer hanging out of a helicopter over a war zone.

We eventually met up for a date and we started of in cafe got talking then were told that the cafe needed to close, so we moved on to a pub, we were there until closing time, our day flew by. We got together on Sunday 13th September 2015 and they have been 5 happy years. I did spend 6 months doing a Disney on ice tourbus contract round France, but the rest of the time we had lots of laughs.

There are lots of other memories too. We will all remember her in our own way. To me Dawn was caring, loving she was intelligent although some of her jokes were unique. She was supportive to everyone, and she had a love of humans and animals, we had a local stray cat come to us for food and safety. After this cat passed away, we adopted little miss.

I have a Dawn shaped gap in my life, she was my soul mate. I know Dawn will always be watching over us all. I only wish I wasn't having to write this and that she was here to make the most of life. Her spirit is strong. Rest in peace Dawn I love you and always will do. I miss you so much. Until it is my time to join you I will live life to the full. Sleep tight. Xxx

Dear Dawn
We shall all miss you, but your memory and the times we shared will burn brightly in our hearts and minds. You shall remain undimmed. As part of the Levenshulme Goth collective you kept us all together and those years in the early nineties will live with me as one of the happiest times of my life. Recently, Richard re-discovered the video of the world-famous Dave Eaves 30th Birthday Party. There all the souls who shared special times were there - Richard, Dave Eaves, Warren Abbot, my own girlfriend of the time, Samantha Thorpe and you. Of course, I would see you regularly at the world-famous Underworld CD shop, just adjacent to the DJ booth. You would know all your clientele and always had a recommendation for me - and even allowed me to pay when I had some money another time. I don't think any of us realised, at that time, how special those times were - but, they remain with us - and your kindness and care will always remain as a bright memory. When our time comes, I'd like to think that Paul Bramall and you will be waiting for us at the Otherworld Underworld. Until that time, make ready the music and the decorations and sleep, beyond any more pain and hurt.
xxx

I hadn’t seen you in some years, Dawn. I remember you well from nights out in the 1990s at Underworld and Rockworld. You were always a friendly face and much loved by many.

We only met a few times but you had the kindest and sweetest energy. May you rest in peace and all the people who loved you, come to terms with a big loss xxx

I will miss you, darling one. Always a kind word and a big smile.

I’m heart broken. You were truly the kindest, warmest and most wonderful person I knew. We met shortly after you moved to Levenshulme (AKA Goth Central!) and our friendship was cemented in this small corner of Manchester. You always thought of everyone else before yourself, whatever the circumstance. I remember that after going to Rushulme for near 20 years, you revealed that you didn’t really like Indian curries (!). But you always went with a happy heart because you knew we all loved curries and never once said ‘let’s go for a Chinese!’ I know this seems such a silly little story to remember, but for me, it speaks volumes about how you always placed other people before yourself. But you were also so smart, funny and a friend to all. You will be hugely missed by everyone who knew you. Big hugs in heaven Dawn 🖤💜🖤xxxxxx

Rest in peace Dawn. I remember you as a kind, non judgemental decent soul. A sad loss 🖤🖤

Dawn was a gentle and lovely person. Intelligent and good fun. Taken from this world too soon 💔

Dawn, you were one of Paul's closest friends, and quickly became a dear friend to me too. I will always remember you fondly as such a kind, gentle and selfless soul... with that little hint of wickedness in your sense of humour accompanied by that knowing gleam in your eye. Though you could be stubborn as a mule sometimes... I can see you looking away sheepishly as you often did as I read that back...!

Am grateful that I got to spend time with you running the merch stalls and at various club nights and gigs, and on a more personal level.. though I'm sad we didn't get to spend time together over the past few years, even though we exchanged messages and spoke on the phone.

You always remembered birthdays, even those of the kids, anniversaries and other special dates... your handmade cards have always been and are cherished. Thomas came to recognise your writing on envelopes and always got excited to see what was inside.

You were so utterly bereft when Paul died.. i remember catching your eye at his funeral and you blowing me a kiss and that set us both off. I'd love to think that you have found him now and he can give you a huge hug.

We last spoke in March this year.. just at the start of lockdown.. so many things I would have said had I known it was the last time we were to talk. I wished I could have given you even a small percentage of the support you have given me over the years.

I will miss you so very very much... I am still not quite processing it all and have not found the right words to write, as words are so inadequate.

Am glad you found happiness with Calum, and little Miss. I hope you realise just how much you are loved, and just how much you are missed, Miss!

All my love

Jen xx

Until next we meet

Much love

Jen xxx

For Dawn. x

Anyone who knew Dawn knew she was an absolute sweetheart, always had a smile and a kind word... RIP Dawn, so many will miss you.

Oh my goodnesswhere do I start Dawn was a gentle intelligent beautiful soul. When she smiled you just knew things would be ok...she put you at your ease as soon as you approached her. I have been on many adventures with Dawn and Richard travelling to many amazing gigs...always feeling welcomed and at ease. Dawn you will always be a shining light I will never forget you. Rest in peace beautiful lady. I so wish we had managed to see each other. Love and hugs Alison xxx

Dawn, I am deeply saddened to hear of your passing.
You were one of the first sights of Rockworld that caught my attention 20 odd years ago. And what a sight you were. I thought you were Queen Goth, holding court by the dj box. Everyone came to talk to you and you greeted everyone with a smile. I was so in awe of your look from a distance, and your kind personality as I got to know you a little.
Thank you for answering my call for missing books. Thank you for all the wonderful messages you put in birthday cards - your handwriting was always recognisable and always brought a smile.
I'm sorry I noticed your absence more recently but didn't find the time to make contact.
I hope you are at peace now and out of pain. Xxxx

Dawn and Richard were the first two friends I made on the Manchester Goth scene many moons ago (1995/96). Dawn was so kind and funny and smart. When she visited Dublin with Calum a few years ago it was great to catch up with them. I remember her unstoppable energy and encyclopaedic knowledge of music, literature, science... everything! Dawn was always working so hard and passionate about many things, especially animal rights. She never made a fuss, always thinking of everyone else. I'm sure she is at peace now but I will miss her big smile and warm heart.

The purest good soul I ever knew.

You were a truly beautiful person. I missed you not being at Infest the last few years but I will never forget you.

Dawn, I only met you a few times during our nights out in the Underworld at Jillys, when Richard was DJing, but I will never forget what a beautiful and kind, caring soul you were. May you rest in eternal paradise with Paul & my John now xx

Dawn, you were the kindest, most selfless and patient person I have ever met. As my first girlfriend, you shaped who I became as an adult over our 16 years together. So many fun times and great experiences, so many memories and such a great cook!
We have always stayed best friends and you were always the first person there for me, whatever. I owe you so much and you never wanted anything in return. I will miss you for the rest of my life.
Heartbroken,
Richard