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Margaret Haggerty (14 Aug 1946 - 16 Aug 2016)
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Born 14th Aug 1946, daughter to Bill and Jessie Stemp, in West Hoathley, East Sussex, second of four siblings (Ron, Shirley and Ian).
Her father (Grandad) was a farm tractor driver; work led them to move to Crondall, Hampshire when Mum was a young girl. Mum regularly sang in the church choir, was a Red cross member and a Sunday school teacher.
Mum had many happy and funny memories of her younger years, growing up in a busy home, where both her parents worked hard to provide a happy and stable home. Mum would often spend summers with her Aunt May, helping her cousins and her Aunt run a boarding home - she really enjoyed those holidays and shared a few naughty moments with us when they would play tricks on the guests.
After leaving school Mum went to work in Boots and trained as a GPO telephonist. During the early 60's Mum met our Dad while he was still on active service. James (Jim) Haggerty & Margaret Stemp were married on 23rd Sep 1967, at the local Church in Crondall, married by the vicar who had seen our Mum grow into adulthood.
They began their married life in Scotland, living with family in Drongan and then moving to a flat in Ayr. Their first child was born in April 1969 (Karen).
Mum and Dad moved back to England in the early 70's and set up a family home in Blackwater, Surrey where their second child was born in Sep 1975 (Robin). Mum had various jobs working in a warehouse, administrative roles, shop work and childminding for a few years when Robin was young. Mum and Dad moved to Cove, nr Farnborough in the late 80's. Mum worked for many years as a PA in the MOD (RAE, DERA) which she really enjoyed. She worked hard and really enjoyed the challenges the role offered.
Mum was supportive of the local Cubs group, helping at the weekly meeting and camping with the boys. Also at this time Mum became a very active member of The Samaritans, spending many hours in the call centre answering phones and speaking to people face to face, even taking on the role of fund raising and often did car boot sales, roping Dad in to help on many occasions.
Mum also took on a lay person role, inspecting local care homes, reporting back areas for improvement and things that worried her.
Mum and Dad began a new chapter together when they moved to Bourne for Dads retirement. Mum became known as Granny Cuckoo to her grandchildren (James born 1998; Emily born 2000).
Mum started work as a receptionist at Peterborough Walk In Centre which she really enjoyed.
After mums hip replacement in 2006 it was not possible for her to drive, so she found other interests and activities to keep her active and interested in life. Our Dad supported her to get to different venues and when the weather was good, Mum could be seen on her mobility scooter, making her way around the town. Mum started a blog about her scooter adventures, some of which she shared in the parish magazine.
Mum is now a published author, 'Lottie And The Land Of Dofstram' sparking her trilogy, and I think she surprised herself at her achievements. Mum also knitted for the world; blankets, jumpers, teddies - the knitting club was a regular diary commitment.
Mum also supported the local foodbank and was outraged many times that in a modern society, foodbanks were required at all. Mum would regularly write to MPs and Ministers sharing her concerns and seeking answers to issues that worried her. She was an active member of 38 degrees. Mum also enjoyed the discussion groups with U3A, scrabble club and various music and poetry evenings at the local church hall and corn exchange.
Our Mum loved her family - she was so proud of all their achievements, watching us all grow from children to successful adults with families and lives of our own. Most of all Mum loved our Dad (her Jimmy, her hubby). Mum loved her bungalow and spending time in the garden, feeding and watching the birds, enjoying her flowers and adding various garden ornaments (gnomes and fairy lights) to create a splendid and colourful display, day or night.
Mum celebrated her 70th birthday with her family around her doing the things she loved best; in the garden, playing music, talking, laughing and caring for her family.
Mum collapsed at home and despite best efforts never regained consciousness. Mum passed away on Tues 16th Aug with her family by her bedside.
We miss you Mum and love you so very much.
Rest easy now xxx
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£125 donated to Water Aid from the collection received at South Lincolnshire Crematorium. Many thanks from Margarets family for your generous support x
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Many thanks for all your support, love and memories you have shared about our Mum,Wife and Granny. Together we have done Mum proud and collected £245 to be shared between her favourite charities.
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Many thanks for all your support, love and memories you have shared about our Mum,Wife and Granny and friend. Together we have done Mum proud and collected £520 to be shared between her favourite charities. We do appreciate all your kind words and your generous donations. Mum loved all of us and cherished time spent with her friends and family laughing, talking and listening. We love you Mum x
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We have shared the collection between both charities (£120 Woodgreen; £125 Water Aid) Many Thanks from Jim, Rob, Karen, Andrew, Beverly, James, Emily, Tim & Jacob xx
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Margaret was a lovely lady always had a smile, a giggle and always looked on the bright side even though she had not been at all well.
Will miss her.
Love to Jim and all the family.
Joan, Ann and families (neighbours across the road)
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As one of Aunt May's family I'd just like to add how devastated we all are in hearing of Margret's death. She was just part of our family - the summer part - the fun part and Margret was central to the fun. She was the epitome of kindness and consideration, and always full of love for others. Mum thought the world of her as we all did. We will always keep and cherish those happy memories. Our thoughts are with Jim ,Karen and Robin and all the family at such a sad time. All our love, Elizabeth,Pamela,John,Michael,Sandra and Peter.
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Just wanted to say what a lovely lady, always had a smile and a giggle even though she had not been well for a while but always made the most of it
Thinking of you all.
Joan, Ann and families (neighbours across the road)
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So sorry to hear your sad news. My family and I remember Margaret from her time in Blackwater. She was a lovely kind lady. All our love and prayers to you all.
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We are so sad, Margaret was one of the most lovely people we have ever met always so happy despite not being well over the last few years and always made the most of life.
Love to you all.
Ann Joan and family (your neighbours across the road)
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With love, in memory of a wonderful Mum, who was always there to listen.
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I am so sorry, Margaret was a lovely lady with a great sense of humour, met thoughts and prayers are with you all
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I remember Margaret so well from her years as a Samaritans volunteer in Farnborough - she gave so freely of her care and concern, her time and her energy. She will be remembered with great fondness. My condolences to Jim and to all Margaret's family and I wish you all many happy memories.
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I'm truly sorry to hear the news about Margaret.
A lady that always greeted you with a big smile a warm heart and made you feel welcome.
Love to the hole family in this hard time.
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Margaret was known to her cousins as Bubs Why this nickname I am not sure but she was always ready to share a joke and a smile with us all She and Jim made me most welcome when I visited them at their home in Bourne and we shared a few happy hours together. You will not be forgotten Bubs. May you rest in peace.
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I am so sorry to hear about the sad loss of your mum Margaret. I got to know your mum through the Bourne Food Bank, It was always a pleasure being on rota with her and hearing all her stories of the past, she was always with a smile and a hearty laugh which will be missed greatly.
Please take comfort in remembering all the good times you had together.
Unfortunately I am unable to attend the funeral this week due to other commitments but please pass on my condolence to the rest of the family.
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Heard the sad news about our cousin Margaret from my brother John Baldwin. Our mother was sister to Jessie (Eleanor Agnes Wickham)
John has kept me informed over the years of Margaret's achievements and they certainly are deeds to be very proud of. May Bubs rest in peace. Jean West, Casino, NSW Australia
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So sorry to hear of your mum passing away. How devastating for you all. Too young and too soon to be taken. Please give my love to all your family and my deepest sympathy. Will be thinking of you at such a sad time. I remember your mum such a happy lady and always had a smile for me xxx
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Mary Ann and I are truly sorry for your loss. Margaret will be missed and she will never be forgotten, may her soul rest in peace.
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Mum always loved the family around her.
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Lovely photo Rob. Treasured times x
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Mum always loved the family around her.
Mum always loved the family around her.
Was always proud when a new book was published.
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