Eileen Rees (6 Oct 1944 - 27 Sep 2026)

I sadly didn’t have the privilege of knowing Eileen but I felt I did by all the wonderful stories I was told by her daughter Melanie. It was very clear that they had a special and close relationship. I know that Melanie demonstrated her love and devotion to her beloved Mum right up until the end.
I hope the wonderful memories you all shared bring you some peace and comfort at this difficult time. RIP Eileen and my sincere condolences to Melanie and Eileen’s family and friends.

My dear girl, the day you see I'm getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I'm going through. If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don't interrupt to say: "You said the same thing a minute ago"... Just listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.
When I don't want to take a bath, don't be mad and don't embarrass me. Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl?
When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don't look at me that way ... remember, honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life's issues every day... the day you see I'm getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I'm going through.
If I occasionally lose track of what we're talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can't, don't be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with you.
And when my old, tired legs don't let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you when you first walked. When those days come, don't feel sad... just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love. I'll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With a big smile and the huge love I've always had for you, I just want to say, I love you .

I am so incredibly sorry to hear about Eileen's passing. She was such a kind woman and will be deeply missed. I’ll always laugh remembering the first time we met and she saw me wearing my ridiculous toe shoes—her warmth and humour made me feel welcome right away.

In loving memory of Eileen
As I mourn the passing of our beloved Eileen affectionately known to me as MUM!
She was a very special kind person, joyful , full of life and her smile invited friendship that created a connection between us for 29 years.
She had filled our hearts with so much happiness and wonderful cherish memories that lives on forever.
May her loving precious soul rest in peace !
My heartfelt condolences to my dearest friend/ sister Melanie and her siblings Danny, Sam and families,
May you find strength in cherished memories and peace , love and comfort surrounded you during this difficult time!
Much love and blessings
Sherri & Steve

Eileen was a very special lady and was more like a sister than sister in law. We were very lucky to live near Eileen for a number of years and shared so many fun times together. Thankful while her health allowed, she had a few trips to visit us in Ireland. Last one was really special as we had so many of the family here for a reunion.
You may be gone from our sight Eileen, but you are never gone from our hearts. God rest your soul.

In memory of Eileen

I have been a fried of Melanie for over 15 years now so I was fortunate enough to have met Eileen. Actually she was so kind and gave me a pyjama set when I had my first Son in 2015. It was so kind of her. Melanie and I were struggling to see one another because of our difficult circumstances over recent years, and we finally made an arrangement to meet up on Friday 2nd October 2026. I was looking forward to being with Mel and her mum, just pottering around the house, drinking tea. We hadn't been able to in such a long time. Unfortunately, it was not meant to be. I'm so proud of Mel for how she looked after and cared for her mum, she never complained. Love that girl. I send my love to you all at this difficult time.

I remember Eileen as such a fun person to be around, great for a good natter and a laugh, and ready to provide her own wry take on any given situation, often to the entertainment of those in her company. She was a model of resilience, and I always found her smiling that warm, infectious, mischievous smile.

Whenever I went to Mel’s house and knew Mum was there, it always made me smile, because I knew she would make me laugh or say something to cheer me up. She somehow always discerned when I needed cheering up, even when I didn’t say much. We understood each other’s humour, and I loved sitting with Mum and spending time with her. She was so caring and always asked how I was doing. I have such lovely memories of her, and I’ll really miss her.

To the family of Eileen

How sorry I am for your precious loss. Saying goodbye to a love one is one of the hardest thing to accept or process. With time the pain will subside, but the memory of them will always remain with you. We are assured from God's word the bible in:-

Psalms 147:3
He (Jehovah God) heals the brokenhearted, he will binds up their wounds.

My dearest Sister & friend Melanie, what a fine loving, devoted, hands on care you had for your 'mother' as hard as it got you gave selflessly, your efforts are well noted by our 'Creator' what blessing he has in store for you.

RIP Eileen
Yvonne Gayle

Mel loved you so much and always spoke about you with love and care whenever she came to work. You held a special place in her heart, and she will miss you dearly. May your soul rest in perfect peace.

In 18 years, she always greeted me with warmth, a smile, and a compliment, making me feel so welcome. x

It was a true privilege to know you. You were such a lovely, caring woman, and your devotion to Mel was beautiful to witness. Mel, I am always here for you, standing by your side. We will keep your mum’s memory alive and honor the incredible person she was.

Thinking of you and sending all my love,
Jo xxx

Frist may I say to the family of Eileen, I am truly sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother.

I have had the pleasure of meeting her at Melanie's house a few times, she was a classy woman, with style, I would always say this to Mel. She always greeted me with a warm smile and hello.

Mel, had so much love and affection for her mother, and this showed throughout.

I'm sorry for all the family who lost Eileen ,I personally feel it too as over the time I've known Eileen I've grown fond of her despite her dementia her eyes and personality shone through she was very smart lady , the times I saw her I always felt uplifted by her happy vibe and that will be greatly missed.
Micheal

Eileen
I meant over a period of time of 45 years she wrote fantastic poetry And she kept going for her different trials she was a lovely and kind person and I’m pleased that she had Melanie her daughter to look after her right till the end

I am still in disbelief, Rest now Ms Eileen, it has been a pleasure to work with you, I'm gonna miss your expressions and your quirky little conversation. May you Rest in Eternal peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️

Sorry about your loss 💔 I didn’t know Eileen very well, but I saw how much love and care Melanie put into looking after her this last few years. She was blessed to have a daughter like Mel who loved her so much ❤️‍🩹

Rest in eternal peace Eileen such a lovely neighbour and amazing lady x