Terence Frederick Ruddy 'Terry' (23 Nov 1945 - 27 Sep 2026)

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Location
Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane (Upper) Chatham, Kent. ME5 9QU
Date
26th Oct 2026
Time
1pm
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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Terence Frederick Ruddy, who sadly passed away on 27th September 2026, aged 80 years.

Terry, a much-loved man who meant so much to those who knew and loved him.

Terry will be remembered with great affection by his loving wife, Pauline, his daughter, Victoria, his son, Marc, his grandchildren, Lauren and Taylor, and his wider family and friends.

They will forever treasure the memories they shared with Terry, from the special moments and laughter to the simple pleasures of everyday life that become so precious over time.

Although saying goodbye is never easy, the love Terry shared and the special place he held in the hearts of those closest to him will never be forgotten. The memories they made together will continue to bring comfort to those who miss him, keeping his memory alive for years to come.

Terry will be deeply missed by his family and friends, but he will forever remain in their hearts, remembered with love, cherished always and never forgotten.

Floral tributes should be sent by 11:00 am on the day of the service, c/o John Weir Funeral, 127 Watling Street, Gillingham, Kent, ME7 5NY, Tel.No: 01634 855558.

If desired, donations in memory of Terry for 'Alzheimer's Research UK' would be gratefully received and may be made online via this page. Thank You.

Richard Mattocks donated in memory of Terence

Terry was a first class work colleague, a great ‘mate’’ always enjoyed our joint Jethro show excursions, and regular Redfern reunions.
Will be sadly missed.

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Malcolm Beattie donated £30 in memory of Terence
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Diana and Dudley Cramp donated £25 in memory of Terence

With our deepest sympathy

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Heather Jackson donated £30 in memory of Terence
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Debra Causton-Holt donated £30 in memory of Terence

Dear Terry Pauline & family

Terry it has been a honour knowing you in your lifetime.

Pauline, Victoria, Mark & family. Thinking of you all and sending big hugs

XxxxxxxX

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Chris and Sue Hillman wrote

It was a privilege to have known you Terry!! Some great memories and a big part of our footballing lives.
Chris and Sue.xx

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Lauren Miles donated £25 in memory of Terence

We all miss you so much grandad, I love and miss you lots xx

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Ray Hill donated £30 in memory of Terence

I will miss you Terry with your Jethro jokes. Rest in Peace. Ray

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Tim at John Weir Funeral Directors, Gillingham lit a candle
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I love this photo of us, Grandad I miss you so much and it still doesn’t feel real that you’re not with us anymore. I’m so glad you got to see me grow up as the woman that I am today and I will treasure the memories we shared together. Love you always xx

I love this photo of us, Grandad I miss you so much and it still doesn’t feel real that you’re not with us anymore. I’m so glad you got to see me grow up as the woman that I am today and I will treasure the memories we shared together. Love you always xx

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Pauline Ruddy donated £25 in memory of Terence

In memory of Terry my loving husband, and my friend . So many shared years. So many memories to cherish. Miss you always . Love you.

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marc Ruddy posted a picture
So glad you saw me married dad love you miss you so much.

So glad you saw me married dad love you miss you so much.

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marc Ruddy donated £25 in memory of Terence

Miss you very day dad so glad you got to see me married what a wonderful day that was and you enjoyed it all.

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Pauline Ruddy posted a picture
Terry so enjoyed his day at Osborne House.A memory I will hold in my heart x ❤️

Terry so enjoyed his day at Osborne House.A memory I will hold in my heart x ❤️

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Alan Jackson posted a picture
Very last photo of Terry. Vicky will savour this forever as he looked so happy xxx

Very last photo of Terry. Vicky will savour this forever as he looked so happy xxx

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Victoria Jackson posted a picture
Me and my wonderful dad enjoying an evening together on our recent family break to Allhallows which he so enjoyed. A memory I’ll never forget. Love and miss you so much dad xxxx

Me and my wonderful dad enjoying an evening together on our recent family break to Allhallows which he so enjoyed. A memory I’ll never forget. Love and miss you so much dad xxxx

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Alan Jackson donated £50 in memory of Terence

Will always miss you mate. Having a whiskey now as always

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Heather Jackson wrote

Wonderful gentleman, I enjoyed spending time with Terry before he sadly passed away and my thoughts and prayers are with Pauline, Vicky, Marc and grandchildren Lauren and Taylor at this sad time. Rest in peace Terry, gone but not forgotten.

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