Brenda Kathleen Harcos (2 Apr 1951 - 27 Aug 2026)

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Brenda Kathleen

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Location
Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane (Upper) Chatham ME5 9QU
Date
6th Oct 2026
Time
11am
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In loving memory of Brenda Kathleen Harcos who sadly passed away on 27th August 2026, aged 75 years.

A Wife to Tibby of 52 years, Mum to Sharon and Natalie and Nanna to Sienna & Carter will be deeply missed.

Flowers may be sent c/o John Weir Funeral Directors, Rainham by 9:00 am on Tuesday 6th October.

If you prefer to make a donations in memory of Brenda we have chosen the Maidstone and Tunbridge Wells NHS Charitable Fund- Oncology unit which may be made online via this site. Brenda/Mum personally raised money to help other people fighting the fight against cancer so we know that this would have been her wishes.

Martin Harris donated £30 in memory of Brenda

Dear Brenda, it has been a privilege to have known you for over 50 years with your enthusiasm for everything you did.

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Robert Perch donated £50 in memory of Brenda
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Bob Perch wrote

Thanks for your great enthusiasm and happy disposition whilst we worked together and your endless quest to keep everyone else happy. God Bless

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Louise Smith donated in memory of Brenda

Brenda was a lovely woman and I'm so sorry for your loss. Heaven has gained an angel xx

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Ian Thornthwaite donated in memory of Brenda
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Carol & Ron Thorndycraft donated £50 in memory of Brenda

Thankyou Brenda for being such a wonderful friend

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Lesley & Mick Clark donated £20 in memory of Brenda

I have known Brenda all my life, we grew up together in Robin Hood Lane. Went to Burham school & then to Walderslade girls school. Will miss you at our lunches with our other school friends, it won’t be the same without you. God Bless xx

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Nick Felton donated in memory of Brenda

It has been a real privilege to have known Brenda who was a valued, cheerful and always helpful colleague at CAV.

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Joan Grant donated £50 in memory of Brenda

In loving memory of Brenda, a kind, friendly lady who made everyone welcome, and will be greatly missed.
With love from Joan, Peter, Natasha & Ashley xxxx

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Claire & Michael Frewin donated in memory of Brenda

Rest in peace dear Brenda

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Lisa Pepper donated £20 in memory of Brenda
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Maddie Little wrote

May you rest peacefully,
forever surrounded by music, love and harmony.
Always remembered and always loved🤍
From Maddie and Callum xx

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Andrew Beer donated £50 in memory of Brenda

Brenda was a lovely lady and will be sorely missed

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Kate Griggs donated £30 in memory of Brenda
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Kate Griggs wrote

Brenda, I don’t feel I have all the words to say what a special person you truly were. Beautiful inside and out. Always an amazing smile on your face and nothing was ever a problem. Thank you for welcoming me into your home and making me feel part of the family, like a second mum! You will be greatly missed. You are now pain free after fighting so hard for many years. Lots of love from Cake and the boys xx

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Jenny Everitt wrote

Thank you for welcoming me into your family . You will be greatly missed . Love you lots .Jenny (Dustbin)

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Joanne Weller donated £50 in memory of Brenda

You fought long and hard and will always be in our hearts. We will always remember the love, happiness and kindness you shared with us all. Rest in peace Auntie Brenda xx
Lots of love from Joanne, Jamie, Eve, Ryan and Ann

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Sharon & Ray Rumsby wrote

So sad to hear of Brenda’s passing. Was a lovely lady and loved going to the choir up the Smallholders every year. She will be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Tibby and you lovely daughters. Xxx

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Julie Power donated £50 in memory of Brenda

Dear Brenda
God bless you - you fought so hard now you are at peace - lots of love to all the family
julie and sean bill and doreen xxx

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Jenny Everitt wrote

Thank you for welcoming me into your family .I will miss you greatly.Lots of love
Jenny (Dustbin)

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Wendy & John Laker donated £50 in memory of Brenda

God Bless you Brenda.❤️

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Wendy & John Laker wrote

You fought for so long & now you can have peace.
Lots of love Wendy John & Family.❤️

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Lynne Bunce wrote

You have been such an important and treasured part of our singing group.
We will miss you so much.
Rest now.
With much love.
'Harmony'

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Lynne Bunce donated £90 in memory of Brenda

To our truly inspirational singing companion and dearest friend.
Rest now Brenda after your long, hard fight.
With love from 'Harmony'
xx

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Roy and Lynda Lambourne donated £30 in memory of Brenda

You were a kind and loving lady. Rest in peace.

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Sandra and Colin Jeffery donated £30 in memory of Brenda

In memory of our lovely friend Brenda Harcos

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