Alexander Gary John 'Gary' Paterson (21 Dec 1961 - 26 Aug 2026)
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In loving memory of Alexander Gary John 'Gary' Paterson who sadly passed away on 26th August 2026, aged 64 years.
Gary was a loving husband to Emma and father to Harry, Charlie and Sidonie; step-father to Louise and James and doting grandfather to Callum, Alfie, Albert, Edith, Clara, Oakley and Sully.
The funeral will take place on Friday 18th September at 1pm at The Garden of England Crematorium, Bobbing, Sittingbourne Kent.
Traditional black funeral attire. Feel free to wear a royal blue tie or accessories.
The wake will take place immediately afterwards at Upchurch River Valley Golf Course, Oak Lane, Upchurch, Kent, ME9 7AY.
Family flowers only.
Donations can be made to the 'Wisdom Hospice Charity' using the link below
https://fowh.enthuse.com/donate
Wisdom Hospice showed understanding, kindness and respect to ensure Gary was given the dignity and care he deserved in his final weeks.
For those that are unable to attend, please use the following details to watch a live stream of the service:
Link: https://watch.obitus.com/login/q6ff3v
Username: napi1963
Password: 115428
Please be aware that the link will only become live from 12:50.
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We are glad you were in our lives, a wonderful man and friend. We will miss you RIP dear Gary
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A fun loving man who will be greatly missed.
God Bless.
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Thank you Gary for making our girl the happiest girl. Love Anjie and Sarnie x
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Sleep tight Gary xx
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Gary was always a top man.So sorry for all your family
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All our hearts were broken today but the love I saw in your family and friends was very special. Thank you for letting me be a part of it. Love Ian xx
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In memory of Gary - may you rest in peace love Jane and Mac, Jeff and Rachel x
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Fond memories of the best best man Jerry could have wished for
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Bless you Gary, a friend for 50+ years, I only have happy memories.
Rest in peace
Much love
Steve
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Such a lovely man, so funny and loving. You will be missed by so many. Lots of love to all the family xxx
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With deepest sympathy from everyone at Optimized Metal Fabrication.
In memory of Gary, who will be greatly missed by all of us. Our thoughts are with their family, friends and loved ones at this very difficult time.
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There are no words that can express how much we will miss you my friend
Always a friend always a blue
Stu and Viv
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Derby day Goodison
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Another cup final at Wembley 💙
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Thinking of you, sending lots of love 💙
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One of the really great guys, will be sadly missed by everyone who knew him. RIP mate
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Up the Toffees 💙
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Thank you Gary for making our girl the happiest girl. Love Anjie and Sarnie x
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Another cup final at Wembley 💙
One of many lovely times spent with you Gary. Thank you for the memories. I will miss you so very much xx
Gary not winning at the races. AGAIN! Thank you Gary for the laughter, the jokes, all of the happy memories and for serenading me outside my bedroom window before we’d even met! I will miss you xxx
At Jerrys 40th 2001. Forever Friends 💙💙
A classic weekend at James’s stag do in Dublin.
RIP big fella!
Thanks for being my best mate, agony aunt, drinking buddy, getting me home when my legs had gone buddy, twitching buddy and losing at horse racing buddy. A true legend to my family. Love you mate 💙
Such a brilliant man! Thank you for all the memories and being my dad's best mate. Love from Hannah, Leo and DJ Joel xxx
Thank you for all of the happy memories and being such a great friend to Dad xx
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