Alexander Gary John 'Gary' Paterson (21 Dec 1961 - 26 Aug 2026)

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Alexander

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Location
Garden of England Crematorium Sheppey Way Bobbing, Sittingbourne, Kent ME9 8GZ
Date
18th Sep 2026
Time
1pm
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In loving memory of Alexander Gary John 'Gary' Paterson who sadly passed away on 26th August 2026, aged 64 years.

Gary was a loving husband to Emma and father to Harry, Charlie and Sidonie; step-father to Louise and James and doting grandfather to Callum, Alfie, Albert, Edith, Clara, Oakley and Sully.

The funeral will take place on Friday 18th September at 1pm at The Garden of England Crematorium, Bobbing, Sittingbourne Kent.

Traditional black funeral attire. Feel free to wear a royal blue tie or accessories.

The wake will take place immediately afterwards at Upchurch River Valley Golf Course, Oak Lane, Upchurch, Kent, ME9 7AY.

Family flowers only.

Donations can be made to the 'Wisdom Hospice Charity' using the link below

https://fowh.enthuse.com/donate

Wisdom Hospice showed understanding, kindness and respect to ensure Gary was given the dignity and care he deserved in his final weeks.

For those that are unable to attend, please use the following details to watch a live stream of the service:

Link: https://watch.obitus.com/login/q6ff3v
Username: napi1963
Password: 115428

Please be aware that the link will only become live from 12:50.

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Thanks for being my best mate, agony aunt, drinking buddy, getting me home when my legs had gone buddy, twitching buddy and losing at horse racing buddy. A true legend to my family. Love you mate 💙

Thanks for being my best mate, agony aunt, drinking buddy, getting me home when my legs had gone buddy, twitching buddy and losing at horse racing buddy. A true legend to my family. Love you mate 💙

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Such a brilliant man! Thank you for all the memories and being my dad's best mate. Love from Hannah, Leo and DJ Joel xxx

Such a brilliant man! Thank you for all the memories and being my dad's best mate. Love from Hannah, Leo and DJ Joel xxx

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Tracey Clark-rout donated in memory of Alexander

You will be so missed by everyone what a a absolutely great friend and a wonderful husband dad and grandad we will all miss you so much

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Thank you for all of the happy memories and being such a great friend to Dad xx

Thank you for all of the happy memories and being such a great friend to Dad xx

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A great 'Blue' friend. I will miss you Blue.x

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