Sorry I couldn’t be there to say goodbye properly to you yesterday. You were in my thoughts all day and I toasted a drink to you last night (yes non alcoholic which you would have mocked me for lol).
My whole time I was at GSTT you were a constant presence maybe because my desk was at the door… always saying morning making me toast, alerting me it was lunch time and my attendance was required, mocking me of my poor relationship choices and my lack of knowledge about cars in general.
Your laugh and cheekiness was the best and you could always tell you were up to something. Made me giggle hearing you come out of aseptics with Carlton as his laugh was legendary too.
You always had time for your girlies and to me you were like a big brother. Advice and saying do you need me to sort him out (haha all of our twatty exes!). Although sometimes we would have a little falling out we would sort it out when one of of us stopped being so stubborn.
After I left we still would chat on Facebook and more recently on insta and you were so lovely about me being a mum and having my little lad. You never complained about anything you were going through just shows your personality and strength through and through.
I will miss you Benny Boy!
Natalie xx
Ben Eldridge (28 Jul 1981 - 11 May 2026)
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Heart Of Kent Hospice
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- Location
- Spitfire Pub 1 Liberty Square Kings Hill ME19 4AU
- Date
- 5th Jun 2026
- Time
- 12pm
In loving memory of Ben Eldridge who sadly passed away on 11th May 2026, age 44.
Ben is very much loved and will be greatly missed by his family, friends and all who knew him.
We are sure you were all aware Ben was a spoilt only child. The stories that Graham and I are now hearing about from many years back confirm that he and his friends whose names I won’t mention he was a very naughty young man. Ben lived for the day fast and loud, if he loved you, you knew it. If you annoyed him you knew it. Ben could spend money like it was going out of fashion and he liked the best things in life. He told me the other day that he felt that he had lived 10 years in the last 3 years and that he had bought all the things that he ever had wanted to buy and didn’t have to get up for work. Ben has many wonderful friends.
Ben was very generous and would help anyone who needed it. He loved his food especially jerk chicken, rice and peas. Ben worked in the NHS for over 20 years a career that he was proud about and made many friends. When Ben had appointments with his Oncology Consultant it was like listening to 2 old friends.
Ben fought his battle hard and went through some traumatic events but carried on regardless with such courage. Life is cruel and Cancer sucks. Ben is cherished by his Dad and I and our hearts will be forever broken xx
Join us in celebrating the life of Ben on 5th June at 12pm at The Spitfire, ME19 4AU. We invite family and friends to share memories and honour their legacy together.
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Typical photo with Ben really, laughter was never very far away when he was around. You have left a massive hole in our lives, but also so many happy memories to try and fill that with. Sleep tight bruv, see you again one day.
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Ben and I on a Pharmacy night out. He always looked out for his girlies.
You will be missed my friend
Typical photo with Ben really, laughter was never very far away when he was around. You have left a massive hole in our lives, but also so many happy memories to try and fill that with. Sleep tight bruv, see you again one day.
Ben you absolute legend. Us MOFOS will miss you.This day is one of the many great memories with you. Rob and Dolly xxxx

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