Ben Eldridge (28 Jul 1981 - 11 May 2026)

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Location
Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane (Upper) Chatham, Kent ME5 9QU
Date
5th Jun 2026
Time
11am
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In loving memory of Ben Eldridge who sadly passed away on 11th May 2026, age 44.
Ben is very much loved and will be greatly missed by his family, friends and all who knew him.
We are sure you were all aware Ben was a spoilt only child. The stories that Graham and I are now hearing about from many years back confirm that he and his friends whose names I won’t mention he was a very naughty young man. Ben lived for the day fast and loud, if he loved you, you knew it. If you annoyed him you knew it. Ben could spend money like it was going out of fashion and he liked the best things in life. He told me the other day that he felt that he had lived 10 years in the last 3 years and that he had bought all the things that he ever had wanted to buy and didn’t have to get up for work. Ben has many wonderful friends. Ben was very generous and would help anyone who needed it. He loved his food especially jerk chicken, rice and peas. Ben worked in the NHS for over 20 years a career that he was proud about and made many friends. When Ben had appointments with his Oncology Consultant it was like listening to 2 old friends. Ben fault his battle hard and went through some traumatic events but carried on regardless with such courage. Life is cruel and Cancer sucks. Ben is cherished by his Dad and I and our hearts will be forever broken xx

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Nadia Rolf wrote

Claire & Graham I cannot imagine the heartache you are going through. To outlive a child naturally leaves guilt. Ben was an amazing young man with qualities and resilience that only come from the parents that are there through thick and thin.
Ben would bring such laughter and honesty but also professionalism in his role(s). The chats he would have about his girlies used to make me laugh so loudly.

Ben you are missed! Until we meet again x

Nadia

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Bailey Haisman-Emery wrote

Ben was my older cousin but I see him as a brother more than a cousin, he was always there when you needed him and could always get me smiling again after a shitty day. Ben has always been the first to step up and help if something has gone on he’s not only a person who will show that ur on his good side but will definitely show that ur on his bad side and that is a line you won’t want to come across. Many memories held together and cherish every moment we spent together and will always look back at them memories held together. Love you lots cuz x

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Laura Tillett donated £15 in memory of Ben

Ben will be greatly missed. He was a kind and caring man and the world will not be the same without him. ❤️❤️❤️ my thoughts are with Graham and Claire during this tough time ❤️❤️

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Zoe Moorhouse donated £50 in memory of Ben

Ben, you leave a massive hole in so many hearts. I have so many happy memories that I will cherish always. Sleep tight beautiful man. Love Zoe and Duncan. Xxx

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Terry Baroudi donated in memory of Ben

Dearest Claire and Graham. We are so sorry for your loss. We adored Ben and his larger than life personality and booming laughter. Jacqui met him briefly at work when visiting him and became friends on Facebook. He will be forever in our hearts. May he rest in peace ♥️

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Lauren Brookman donated £20 in memory of Ben
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Lauren Brookman wrote

I still can't believe it. You were taken far too soon, Ben. You didn't deserve to suffer like you did, but you fought your battle courageously and always found the light in those dark times. I will always remember your cheekiness, your boldness, your banter and your love for life (and cars). You had a hard exterior and were often misunderstood, but I got you, and knew you were a soft teddy bear at heart. I will cherish the good times we had in Pharmacy. Fly high my friend, rest in peace and give Dolet a big cuddle from me too.

Claire and Graham, you raised a gentleman and I am so sorry you're going through this.

Lots of Love,

Lauren x o x

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Lynsey Smith donated £20 in memory of Ben

Rest in peace Ben. ❤️

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Lauren Evans donated £20 in memory of Ben

So much love for you and admiration for how you’ve been there every single second with Ben - he couldn’t have asked for better parents than you both!

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Shane Miles donated £15 in memory of Ben

Rest in peace. Until we meet again Ben! Miss you mate! ❤️

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