Claire & Graham I cannot imagine the heartache you are going through. To outlive a child naturally leaves guilt. Ben was an amazing young man with qualities and resilience that only come from the parents that are there through thick and thin.
Ben would bring such laughter and honesty but also professionalism in his role(s). The chats he would have about his girlies used to make me laugh so loudly.
Ben you are missed! Until we meet again x
Nadia
Ben Eldridge (28 Jul 1981 - 11 May 2026)
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In loving memory of Ben Eldridge who sadly passed away on 11th May 2026, age 44.
Ben is very much loved and will be greatly missed by his family, friends and all who knew him.
We are sure you were all aware Ben was a spoilt only child. The stories that Graham and I are now hearing about from many years back confirm that he and his friends whose names I won’t mention he was a very naughty young man. Ben lived for the day fast and loud, if he loved you, you knew it. If you annoyed him you knew it. Ben could spend money like it was going out of fashion and he liked the best things in life. He told me the other day that he felt that he had lived 10 years in the last 3 years and that he had bought all the things that he ever had wanted to buy and didn’t have to get up for work. Ben has many wonderful friends. Ben was very generous and would help anyone who needed it. He loved his food especially jerk chicken, rice and peas. Ben worked in the NHS for over 20 years a career that he was proud about and made many friends. When Ben had appointments with his Oncology Consultant it was like listening to 2 old friends. Ben fault his battle hard and went through some traumatic events but carried on regardless with such courage. Life is cruel and Cancer sucks. Ben is cherished by his Dad and I and our hearts will be forever broken xx

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