Alan Peter Risley-Settle (31 Aug 1943 - 21 Mar 2026)

In memory of our best man in 1974 — a lifelong friend who will always be remembered for the wonderful human being he was. Your life was a fine example to us all. Rest in peace.

Alan — the best of human beings. His kindness, wisdom, humour, quiet strength and courage shaped every life he touched. Fondly remembered.

Remembering your sensible help to the Little Theatre and your unstinting and generous support. But mainly, Alan, your smile. ❤️

Thank you to everyone who has left messages and made donations to the charities. It has been and continues to be an emotional period but it has been uplifting to read your memories and what my father meant to you. Thank you.

In fond memory of someone who was a gentleman and a gentle man. A shining example to us all.

In loving memory of Alan.

What a hole you have left in so mant lives!
Alan was a true gentleman with great compassion and interest in all his family. indefatigable in his globe trotting and travels in England. when we met Alan and Trevor having travelled by train, it was seldom without a hiccup despite meticulous planning, but always dealt with in good humour. Alan had a mischievous sense of Bomphrey humour which he inherited from his mother as I did from her brother, my father. When choosing Godparents for Jonathon our son, his name was first. I am in awe of his achievements in life. Remembering with love my cousin and hoping the outpouring of love will help Peter and Vicky through this sad time. with love from Sally, Roger Suzi and Jonathon

In memory of Alan. With love from Iain, Sarah, Stanley and Dougie x

A remarkably friendly gentleman who always had time to chat

In the short time we knew Alan he was always available at the church door to welcome us in a warm and friendly manner. He loved to chat a remarkable man.

How appropriate and comforting for St Paul’s to be bathed with love and music today. Joining online, I was reminded of the numerous times as a small child when I would sit in the front pew at St Paul’s whilst my Mum, Alan and others had choir rehearsals - sticker book in tow! As I grew and found my own love of singing with HT choir, I remember fondly the expeditions he would take to come and support us on our choir holidays across the UK. Such a kind and gentle man, with a mischievous twinkle in his eye! Rest in peace Alan x

I had the privilege of working for Alan as his gardener for many years. A true gentleman who always made me smile. His determination and sense of adventure was truly inspiring and still is.
You never knew what part of Europe he was off to explore next.
I know that wherever he is now he is waiting for the Snowdrops to appear.
I miss him greatly.
Deepest condolences to all his family and friends.
Eric

In memory of Uncle Alan, with our love Suzi, Mike, Roxy and Daniel xxx

I have many fond memories of Uncle Alan, always so kind, interesting and interested in us too. A true gentleman in every sense of the word, a gentle calm voice, clever and perceptive, good company with lovely anecdotes. He will be remembered with love.

My association with Alan was only over the last few years ,and through our membership of Probus Folkestone .
I am pleased that our paths crossed because I found him to be a great character of warm humour and manner.He was a shining example to us in his attitude ,and , fortitude to life.
He will be sadly missed.
May he now rest easy and in eternal peace

In memory of a dear friend

In loving memory of my God father Alan

My indefatigable god father. I am in awe of everything you achieved, how you lived your life and your tremendous bon homie. I always enjoyed seeing and chatting with you and also enjoyed your generous hospitality when you put us up before the ferry! You will be greatly missed. Much love, strength, best wishes and loving memories to Peter and Vicki and families.