John Raymond Barnes

John Raymond Barnes (30 Sep 1943 - 23 Feb 2026)

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Location
Thamesview Crematorium Gravesend Road Shorne, Gravesend. Kent DA12 3JH
Date
30th Mar 2026
Time
1pm
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Location
Hoo Village Institute 25, Main Road, Hoo, Rochester ME3 9AA
Date
30th Mar 2026
Time
2.30pm

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In loving memory of John Raymond Barnes (Ray) who sadly passed away on 23rd February 2026, aged 82 years.

Ray will be deeply missed by his loving wife Anita, daughters Angie, Jo and Jen, Grandchildren, family and friends.

The funeral service will take place at Thames View Crematorium at 1:00 pm on Monday 30th March 2026.

If desired, donations in memory of Ray for 'Alzheimer's Research UK' or 'Dementia UK' would be gratefully received and may be made online via this page, or a donation box available at the close of the service. Thank you.

You are warmly invited to join the family after the service, for light refreshments at Hoo Village Institute, 25 Main Road, Hoo, Rochester, Kent. ME3 9AA at 2:30 pm.

Jen Barnes donated £20 in memory of John

Love you always Daddy ❤️ xxx

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Andrew Beatson donated £20 in memory of John
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Angie Surridge donated £40 in memory of John
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Gill Levick donated £50 in memory of John

Donation from us all

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Andrew Surridge donated £20 in memory of John

Rest in peace

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lucy djemal donated £30 in memory of John

Rip Ray, thinking of you.

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First little granddaughter ! Your eyes always lit up at the mention of her name Betty ! Miss you more than you will ever know dad Love you xx

First little granddaughter ! Your eyes always lit up at the mention of her name Betty ! Miss you more than you will ever know dad Love you xx

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Shane Surridge donated £50 in memory of John

Love you Grandad Barnes. Shane, Emma & Logan xxx

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Tina Munn donated £40 in memory of John

Deeply missed by all at Grafton Lodge.

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Tina Munn wrote

A true gentleman that lit up the room with his infectious smile. We were honoured to have spent time with you Ray. You are deeply missed by all the Staff and residents at Grafton Lodge. x

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Gill Levick wrote

Thinking of you all at this sad time xxx

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Susan Hayton donated £15 in memory of John

A lovely cousin my dads namesake two lovely Rays

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John Raymond Barnes First little granddaughter ! Your eyes always lit up at the mention of her name Betty ! Miss you more than you will ever know dad Love you xx

First little granddaughter ! Your eyes always lit up at the mention of her name Betty ! Miss you more than you will ever know dad Love you xx