Jill Irene Dedman (26 May 1947 - 11 Feb 2026)

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Jill Irene Multiple Sclerosis Society

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Location
Barham Crematorium Canterbury Road Barham CT4 6QU
Date
16th Mar 2026
Time
2pm
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Our beautiful Mum, Jill, sadly passed away suddenly on 11th February 2026. She was not just our Mum but our best friend too. Always there for us in person, and on the end of the phone whenever we wanted a chat or her advice.

Mum loved gardening and always used be out in the garden until she was no longer able to, due to her health. Mum would advise as what was needed to be done in the garden, so that she could continue to enjoy the garden and the plants from her window.

Mum had Multiple Sclerosis and had become housebound, but she ran our whole family from her bed or chair. Mum was always on her tablet or phone either chatting or texting to her family and friends, enjoying being part of everyone's lives, and loving all the photos and videos she was sent from them. Mum always felt and was included in our lives. Mum and Dad were happily married for 55 years.

Despite Mum's condition she was always there for Dad, Roger, Lisa, Stuart and I and her Grandsons.

We are all as a family totally heartbroken, my Dad lost his whole world and Roger and I just want our Mum back.

We will be celebrating Mum's life on Monday 16th March 2026 @ 1400 at Barham crematorium. Mum wouldn't want us to be sad and all in black. Family flowers only, any donations are to the MS Society via the just giving link, Farrier's Dover or by collection at the crematorium on the day.

Anyone attending Mum's funeral are welcome to follow onto Mum's wake.

Mum's wake will be held in the Winston Suite at Dover Marina Hotel & Spa, Waterloo Crescent, Dover CT17 9BP.

Thank you
Alison xx

Susan Hollands donated £20 in memory of Jill

A lovely lady

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Carisse Walker donated in memory of Jill

Although we never met, I can tell you were the kindest and most loving person from the wonderful stories I’ve heard. I promise to be there for Alison and your family in whatever ways I can. I know you’re up there getting the best cuddles ever from Booboo and Olly

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Julie Harvey donated £20 in memory of Jill

Love Always

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Sending heartfelt love & sadness to you all. Jill will always hold a place in all our hearts. Jill & Michaels wedding day was   so lovely. Ive always been grateful to of been part of their special day.

Sending heartfelt love & sadness to you all. Jill will always hold a place in all our hearts. Jill & Michaels wedding day was so lovely. Ive always been grateful to of been part of their special day.

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  • What a lovely photo Julie, thank you for sharing it and for your donation xx 😘

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Amy,Ben and James Capon-Harris donated £15 in memory of Jill
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John and Sue Harris donated £30 in memory of Jill
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Tracy Gibbs donated £20 in memory of Jill

Jill was a wonderful lady, and will be sorely missed by all who knew her.

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I miss you so much Mum 💔 I'm so lucky that I have so many happy memories, photos and videos of you always making us laugh 😃 You are forever in my heart ❤️ Love you forever xx😘

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Sending you all my sincere thoughts at the loss of your lovely Mum, Jill. I have very fond memories of her, spanning many years. Love to Michael and you all....xx

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