Emmanuel Megafu (5 Aug 1952 - 13 Jan 2026)

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Date
26th Feb 2026
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12pm
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In loving memory of Emmanuel Megafu who sadly passed away on 13th January 2026.

Wake to be held at Chawkwell park rooms from 1.30pm on the 26th Feb.

The family asks that donations to Haven Hospice are preferred over sending flowers. As Emmanuels favourite colour was also red, please wear something red to the funeral as he'd love that so much.

DR. EMMANUEL IFEATU MEGAFU

Emmanuel was born in Onitsha, Anambra State (Eastern Nigeria) in August 1952 to the loving home of his parents, Mr. Augustine Azubuike Megafu and Mrs. Lizzy Nonyem Megafu, being their first child.

A brilliant and bright son, he had his early education, Primary school then Secondary school in Eastern Nigeria up till 1967 when the Nigeria – Biafra Civil War broke out abruptly terminating all schooling in that part of the country.

Sadly, this budding teenager was wounded during an Air-raid in that war damaging his spinal cord. After the war (1970) he was reunited with family at Onitsha. He was moved to Lagos University Teaching Hospital (L.U.T.H), Lagos for initial treatment and subsequently to Stoke Mandeville Hospital, Aylesbury, England (then the only spinal injuries hospital in the world). During hospitalization he completed his O-level and A-level examinations before proceeding to the University of Aston, Birmingham. He graduated in 1976, a qualified Ophthalmic Optician. He started practice in Royton, Greater Manchester district and passed all professional studies acquiring three fellowships of the British Ophthalmology systems.

In 1982, he married and wedded Patricia (now deceased) and they moved to Essex County where they settled and he established two Clinics simultaneously at Shoeburyness and Leigh-on-Sea where he practiced for four decades. Well loved, he became a popular Family Optician often having patients of three generations in many a family.

A consummate medical practitioner he also read Law, qualifying in London in later years. He was passionate about automobiles and also an accomplished musician skillfully playing the Piano and some woodwind instruments (including the Alto Saxophone). In fact, as a teenager in Nigeria he played the Organ at Emmanuel Anglican Church, Inland town, Onitsha.

In the last three years he battled Colon cancer and passed on peacefully at his home (13th January 2026) in the presence of family and friends. He is survived by Michael Chukwuka Megafu (son) and Jennifer Ngozi Megafu (daughter) and also Engr. Samuel Ifeanyi Megafu (brother), Mrs. Stella Obiageli Udemba, Mrs. Dorothy Nneka Udemezue (sisters) and many other relations.

May his soul rest peacefully in the Lord’s bosom.


[Sam Ifeanyi Megafu, Lagos, Jan. 2026]

TRIBUTE TO MY ELDER BROTHER DR. EMMANUEL IFEATU MEGAFU - from Stella his sister

Dr. Emmanuel Ifeatu Megafu was my beloved elder brother—a man of rare kindness, a gentle soul, and a truly remarkable human being. He was good-hearted, jovial, loving, peaceful, caring, and exceptionally intelligent. Despite the many challenges life presented to him, he achieved so much and left an indelible mark on everyone who knew him.

Dr. Emmanuel was a trained medical doctor and also a lawyer, a testament to his brilliance and determination. Although the civil war affected him deeply, by the grace of God he rose above its impact and lived a life of purpose and service. He cared deeply for people and consistently demonstrated compassion in both his professional and personal life.

He made several meaningful journeys to London. The first was in 1981, when he travelled with our father, mother, and grandmother, generously paying for our tickets and taking care of us throughout the trip. The second visit was in 2013, when my husband and I stayed with him for six months. The third visit was after the death of my husband, when he invited me again and personally paid for my flight ticket. For all these acts of love and sacrifice, I remain eternally grateful.

Dr. Emmanuel was a devoted family man who loved his children dearly—Michael and Jennifer —and ensured they were well nurtured and cared for. He never lacked anything and extended that same love to his grandchildren, especially Evelyn and Lilian. He also loved his workers and treated everyone around him with kindness, respect, and dignity.

As a medical doctor, he took personal responsibility for my health during my sickness in London. He encouraged and supported me through the process, advising me on the need for surgery. My surgery took place in September 2024, and he remained by my side, visiting me every morning and evening until I was discharged. Whenever I heard that he was ill, I prayed fervently for him, and many times God answered those prayers, granting him recovery.

Sadly, this last illness claimed his life. We trusted in God’s will, believing that he received the best possible care in the hospital. We prayed for him continuously and kept calling to check on his condition. When calls could no longer go through, I relied on updates from his daughter, who eventually broke the heartbreaking news that my brother had passed away.

I was completely devastated. The pain of losing such a dear brother is beyond words, and I found it extremely difficult to bear. His death has affected me deeply. Nevertheless, I give thanks to God for his life, a life well spent in service, love, and integrity.

May God Almighty be glorified for the gift of his life. May our father, mother, and the entire family find comfort and strength in this time of grief. May God accept his gentle soul into eternal rest.

Rest in the bosom of the Lord, my dear brother Emmanuel. Adieu, my brother.

From your loving sister,
Stella O. Udemba

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Anna Charters donated £40 in memory of Emmanuel

A very kind and gentle man with a big heart. I will never forget his kindness.

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Helen Moore donated £30 in memory of Emmanuel

Our warmest condolences to the family of Mr Megafu. He was our family optician for over 40 years. He was a lovely gentleman, always asking after and taking an interest in the family and what we’d been up to.
He will be sorely missed but was a pleasure to have known him. X

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Sheelah and Keith Evans donated £30 in memory of Emmanuel

Thank you for your kindness over the years … you made a difference.

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Mick Hodges donated £20 in memory of Emmanuel

Thank you for the kindness you showed to our family over many years.

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Havens Hospices wrote

Today, our thoughts are with Emmanuel's family and friends. May his service bring a sense of peace to all those who miss him.
Sending strength and comfort
Martina (In Memory Team) and all the nurses

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Declan Murphy donated £20 in memory of Emmanuel

Rest in peace Emmanuel. Such a lovely man. Condolences to his family.

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Daisy and Iris Daisy and Iris donated £50 in memory of Emmanuel
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Gaius Umeh donated £50 in memory of Emmanuel

Emma, we love but God loves you more. It is His appointed time for which we give thanks.
To God be the glory.

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Gaius Umeh wrote

It is sad to hear that Dr Emma Megafu has moved on to the great beyond. He was a brother too dear to lose, but our consolation lies in the fact that he made his mark where it mattered.
He touched many lives with love and humility and many who came across him have testified of his unflinching commitment to the welfare of humanity.
May his soul rest in peace.

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Charlie Garrod donated £50 in memory of Emmanuel

RIP Mr Megafu.

You were such a kind, gentle and lovely man.

Sending love and condolences from our family to yours x

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Michael Cox donated £20 in memory of Emmanuel

Rest in peace Mr. MEGAFU.

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Lee Harvey wrote

You were my optician from teen years I’m now 55. You were such a beautiful soul. May you rest in peace. 💓

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Sammy Turner wrote

What a wonderful and kind man. Three generations of family members were clients. You will be sadly missed.

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Stephen Ansell donated in memory of Emmanuel

We were so sorry to hear of Emanuels death. We have known him as our optician for over forty years We will miss our chats on many varied interesting subjects over the years during consultations for he was clearly very knowledgeable caring and kind.
He will be greatly missed.
Our sincere condolences to his family
From the all of our family.

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Janet Legg donated £100 in memory of Emmanuel

In memory of Emmanuel Megafu. May he rest in peace.

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Janet Legg wrote

I have been a client of Mr Megafu for around 40 years. As a glaucoma patient I met with him at least once but more often twice a year, at least. I have grown fond of him over the years. He had a great sense of humour, always gave sound advice, kept tabs on my hospital outcomes and, above all else, was kind, caring and patient with me. He will be missed. Rest in peace.

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Lucy Okeke wrote

Dr Megafu’s death is really sad.

I met him a number of times through Ifeanyi and Akona, his family members. A humorous gentleman with lots of smile.

Rest in perfect peace.

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Alexander Baneke wrote

I am so sorry to hear this. My very best wishes go to his family and close friends.

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Ellie wrote

Megafu was such a kind hearted man he was my optician from my the age of 10 til the age of 18. He was so kind and caring and put all his heart into what he did.
Thank you Mr Megafu rest in peace x

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Claire Conroy wrote

I am grateful & honoured to have known Mr Megafu. He meant a lot to me & he will be missed

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