Anthony Edward Acott (25 Sep 1933 - 10 Oct 2025)

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Location
St Andrew's Church Church Road Ashingdon SS4 3HY
Date
6th Nov 2025
Time
2.30pm
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Location
St Andrew's Church Church Road Ashingdon SS4 3HY
Date
6th Nov 2025
Time
3.30pm

Location
Saxon Hall 5 Aviation Way Souhend on Sea SS2 6UN
Date
6th Nov 2025
Time
4.15pm

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UPDATE:
Toni, Lyn and Trevor would like to thank everyone who attended the funeral, made a donation, or sent cards and messages of support. Your kindness meant a great deal to us. We feel that we were able to give our dad a send-off he would have been pleased with.

We know that some people were not able to be there on the day for various reasons. The service was recorded, and here is the link if you would like to watch it:

https://youtu.be/6DG3FQhQ5uo

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In loving memory of Anthony Edward Acott who sadly passed away on 10th October 2025. Also known as Tony, or the "Man in the Hat".

It is with deep sadness, that we announce that Tony passed away peacefully on 10th October 2025, just three months to the day after his dearly beloved wife, Pam. They had been together for nearly 72 years, and are now reunited.

Tony was a charming, intelligent, witty, generous, and truly lovely dad. He will be greatly missed by his children – Toni, Lyn, and Trevor – his grandchildren – Tim, Gary, Mark, Lauren, and Emily – and his great-grandchildren – Sam, Kasia, and Florence – as well as his wider family and many friends.

We would love for friends and family to join us as we gather to celebrate Tony’s life and say our farewells.

The funeral will take place at St Andrew’s Parish Church, Ashingdon at 2.30pm on Thursday 6th November 2025, followed by Tony’s interment in the churchyard.

After the service, we warmly invite you to join us at Saxon Hall for the reception. (Address details can be found at the bottom right.)

We would be grateful if you could kindly let us know if you are able to attend.

Due to poor internet connection at the church, we are unable to live-stream the service. However, a recording will be made, and a link will be shared here shortly after the funeral.

Instead of flowers, you may like to make a donation in Tony’s memory to the East Essex Hackspace (see JustGiving link, top right or go to https://www.justgiving.com/campaign/tonyacott). This community-run workshop and charity in Hawkwell, Essex, provides shared tools and space for makers, hobbyists, and innovators. Tony’s grandson Tim is one of its founding members, sharing Tony’s lifelong love of engineering.

In recognition of Tony’s passion for mechanics and restoring old motorbikes, donations will go towards a piece of equipment dedicated in his name, so that others can continue to build, create, and enjoy the satisfaction of making things – just as he always did. There will also be a donation box at the service.

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Grandad, you truly were the best! I will miss you so much. I am so lucky to have had you as my Grandad, always smiling and laughing. We will never forget your great stories and will continue to make you proud. Love you always xxx

Grandad, you truly were the best! I will miss you so much. I am so lucky to have had you as my Grandad, always smiling and laughing. We will never forget your great stories and will continue to make you proud. Love you always xxx

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Emily Acott wrote

Grandad, you were one of a kind. I am so lucky I got to spend the time with you that I did. Thank you for being the best Grandad ever, I can’t put into words how much I miss you. I promise I’ll keep making you proud and I’ll keep the Acott name as I promised you.
Rest in peace with Nan, love you millions xxx

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Jan Collins wrote

Rest in Peace, Toni's dad. My thoughts and prayers to his family.

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Coral & Nigel Kathro wrote

In memory of a truly lovely, and charming man. Tony, will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

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Chris & Wendy Pryke wrote

R.I.P. Tony & Pam, Both well respected long time members of the Maldon British Motorcycle Owners Club together with Bob & Sue Acott.
Many good memories over the decades never to be forgotten and a pleasure to have been in your genuine circle of friends xx

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  • Thank you for such lovely words. They were the best days of Mum & Dad's lives, having fun with all their motorbike friends! Hope to see some of the Members of the Maldon Motorbike Club at the funeral, as it was a massive part of their lives for many years xxx

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Jonathan Hyland wrote

RIP Tony. A true gentleman and who with his son Trev, I discovered my passion for all things on 2 wheels. Now reunited with his beloved wife and my "2nd mum" Pam.

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Sue Bardrick wrote

RIP Tony, the best father-in-law I could have wished for. I will think of you partying up there with Pam xx

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My proud Dad in 1982 xxx

My proud Dad in 1982 xxx

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  • Wonderful photo xx

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Lyn Smee wrote

Thanks for the best life, Dad xxx Gonna miss your lovely smile xxx Pleased you're reunited with Mum now xxx Always in my heart, love from your favourite 2nd daughter! xxx Lyn xxx

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Dad enjoyed a bit of surfin'!!!

Dad enjoyed a bit of surfin'!!!

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The last of his bikes to roll out of the stables

The last of his bikes to roll out of the stables

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  • Tony (right) with his brother Roy (left)

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