Richard Sanders (3 Sep 1968 - 14 May 2025)

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Richard

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Location
Beckenham Crematorium Elmers End Road Beckenham BR3 4TD
Date
26th Jun 2025
Time
4pm
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In loving memory of Richard Sanders who sadly passed away on 14th May 2025.

Richard was a happy, healthy little boy, with a lively interest in the world around him and a good sense of fun and humour. He was a rebel and defied convention, being thrown out of school age 16 because he had a Mohican haircut.

He developed an interest in Punk Rock as a teenager. He met Sid Vicious’s mum some time after Sid Vicious’s death and adopted the name Sid as his street name, by which he became well known.

He did apprenticeship training and got his first job Silk Screen Printing at age 17. He was considering making a career of this, but was devastated when he lost the job through no fault of his own. It seemed his employers wanted to employ cheaper student labour in the Summer holidays. He did not accept defeat but got straight on the phone looking for work.

His working life was mainly in the construction industry, ranging from casual labour to skilled forklift truck driving, for which he was trained and did well. He took a qualification in Railway maintenance, scoring highly, but never got to work on the Railways.

He emigrated to Sweden and got married in 1989 and, having learned the language, got a job in Ikea. He and his wife moved to England, where he worked in an English branch of Ikea. Sadly, the marriage did not last, as they were both homesick in each other’s countries, but they remained in touch and became friends on Social Media.

He had many friends of both sexes and usually remained on good terms with his ex-girlfriends. His female friends liked him a lot because he treated them with respect. He defended vulnerable people who were bullied and on occasion saved people’s lives, through prompt action when they had accidentally overdosed on drugs. He loved nature and animals, and rescued injured wild creatures including a squirrel and a dove.

He had many losses in his life, starting with a little schoolfriend who drowned when he was only 4 years old. Richard asked: “Why?” – to which, of course, there was no answer.

As the years went by, he lost more and more friends through drug and alcohol overdose, suicide and accident. He often felt he was the only one left. Shortly before his own death, he lost another close friend, Kiwi, and this hit him hard. He managed to track down the friend’s daughter to let her know.

He was a freethinker with an enquiring mind, and had a lot of knowledge of history and ancient belief systems and civilisations. He was very interested in the work of Nikola Tesla and his dream of free electricity for everyone. He was fascinated by the pyramids, their purpose and how they were built, long before the technology we have today.

He had a larger than life personality with a unique and unconventional outlook on life, and he truly did it his way. He will be forever missed.

Sarah Clark donated £40 in memory of Richard

RIP Sid, you were one of the good ones.

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  • Sarah, thank you so much. xxx

    Posted by Debby on 26/06/2025 Report abuse
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Julie Pilcher donated £40 in memory of Richard

Sorry I didn’t get to know you. Hope you have found peace

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  • Jule. Thanks so much for your lovely words and your generosity. Xxx

    Posted by Debby on 19/06/2025 Report abuse
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Annica Sterner wrote

Richard, I will always remember the warm-hearted, fun-loving, generous and kind person that you were. There are so many memories, happy ones and sad. I will treasure them all. May your soul rest in peace. Vila ii frid.

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  • Thanks Annica, for the candle and your lovely words. xxx

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Alison Duch wrote

It is all so very sad. Our thoughts are with you Deb. It's too bad we didn't get to meet him while we were visiting you in the U.K.
Love Alison

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  • Thanks do much. I too wish you had met him. x

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LYNDA Thomas wrote

My thoughts are with you Debby, and David, I hold you both in my heart and send hugs of comfort. Blessed be xx

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  • Thanks Lynda, that's so lovely of you. xxx

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David Thompson-Trace wrote

RIP Richard, you had a personality that lit up every room you entered. Sadly this light is no more but you will be fondly remembered by us all.

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David Thompson-Trace donated £20 in memory of Richard

RIP Richard, you had a personality that lit up every room you entered. So sad that this light is no more but you will never be forgotten. From me, your brother David's longstanding housemate.

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  • Thanks so much for this donation. Much appreciated, along with your kind words.

    Posted by Debby on 17/06/2025 Report abuse
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Debby Wakeham donated £100 in memory of Richard

In memory of Richard. We will never forget you, never stop loving you. Eternal love, from Mum and brother David. xxx

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Debby Wakeham donated £100 in memory of Richard

In memory of Richard. We will never forget you, never stop loving you. Eternal love, from Mum and brother David. xxx

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