Marian Ruth Barbier (7 Feb 1939 - 20 Apr 2025)

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Date
21st May 2025
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In loving memory of Marian Ruth Barbier who sadly passed away on 20th April 2025 , Marian was a wonderful sister and is greatly missed by her sisters Bernice and Jeanne , brother Peter and the wider family.
Petty Officer of The Merchant Navy Retired - Late of P&O Anglo-French Normandy Ferries
Marian was an extremely knowledgeable and entertaining lady who made friends easily through her life. Her wide range of interests ensured easy conversation in her company-she could also be very exacting and was admired for her decerning manner at work.
Marian was very sociable when she was in good health and enjoyed family parties and her leisure pursuits were often educational as well.
When her Rheumatoid Arthritis finally stopped her in her tracks she never gave in or gave up!
Marian would always say '' You mustn't give up!'' That was her daily mantra. Thank you Marian , you were an inspiration to us all.

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Richard Orchard donated £70 in memory of Marian

Rest in peace Auntie Marian, my mother would often speak so fondly of you. Love Rick, Davina, Erin & Sienna xxxx

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Missing you loads Auntie Marian love you forever xxxx

Missing you loads Auntie Marian love you forever xxxx

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Christmas 2004

Christmas 2004

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Bernice Freemantle donated £70 in memory of Marian

My Dearest sister Marian, I am missing you already and it's a void that cannot be filled. Oh , how I will miss the laughs we had together and your quiet strength in our shared sorrows.
God Bless you Marian on your final journey, Bon Voyage sweetheart.
Love you always xxxxxx, Bernice (aka Car54 and The Hon. Sec.)

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Bernice Freemantle wrote

My Dearest sister Marian ,I am missing you already and it's a void that cannot be filled. Oh, how I will miss the laughs we've had together and your quiet strength in our shared sorrows. God Bless you Marian ,eternal rest is yours.
Your final journey is here, Bon Voyage sweetheart. Love you always.xxxxxx
Bernice (aka Car54 and The Hon.Sec)

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Jeanne with Marian Christmas 2017 at my house.

Jeanne with Marian Christmas 2017 at my house.

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Christmas 2017.

Christmas 2017.

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Paul Merrick wrote

I remember as a child your stories of life aboard ship, and how you loved a good family get together. Even in later years when you were still able to come to my house with mum for Christmas dinner, you were still as entertaining as ever, my two boys were always keen to listen to your stories, we will all miss you Marian, R.I.P and God Speed on your final journey, xxxx

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Tracy Merrick donated £50 in memory of Marian

Growing up, we loved being entertained by tales from all your times at sea. You will always be fondly remembered.
Love Tracy, Katie, and Lizzy xxxx

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Jeanne Merrick wrote

For my lovely sister Marian, remembering all the fun and laughter we shared as little girls, and later as grown-ups. Loved hearing the stories of your trips abroad. Love and remember you always.
Jeanne, xxxxx

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  • Love you Jeanne xxx

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Jeanne, Jacqueline and Marian.

Jeanne, Jacqueline and Marian.

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  • Never seen this one before! Xxx

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Sacha Freemantle donated £70 in memory of Marian
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what an amazing day we had as kids,   watching the ships returning from falklands war, Ill never forget that ❤️ Sacha

what an amazing day we had as kids, watching the ships returning from falklands war, Ill never forget that ❤️ Sacha

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Peter Barbier donated £70 in memory of Marian

For my sister Marian, You lived life your way!
with love Peter, Karen, Justine, Michelle and the family xxxx

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Bernadette White wrote

Auntie Marian you really were one of kind, growing up you were an inspiration to me, in that it’s possible to follow your dreams and go for it and don’t give up. We all loved hearing about your adventures, enjoyed your sense of humour and admired your true grit when life was difficult ❤️. Sleep peacefully 🙏 until we meet again 🙏

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I'm in Gibraltar on the QE2 Madge, you sailed many times on the Queen Mary! You brought me back a lovely pair of Wrangler jeans from Macys in New York very rare in my school days! Always loved Wrigleys gum too, thank you Madge you lived life your way!

I'm in Gibraltar on the QE2 Madge, you sailed many times on the Queen Mary! You brought me back a lovely pair of Wrangler jeans from Macys in New York very rare in my school days! Always loved Wrigleys gum too, thank you Madge you lived life your way!

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From Heather & Michael

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  • Thankyou dear Marian for the shared laughs we had together over the years & all your special memories of life at sea . I bet you're already sticking post it - notes on everything !! Bless you , you were a very special lady & I will miss you greatly .Love & God bless xxx

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