Constance 'Connie' Mary Fill (23 Feb 1933 - 20 Apr 2025)

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Southend Crematorium 654 Sutton Road Southend on Sea SS2 5PX
Date
20th May 2025
Time
3.30pm
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In loving memory of Constance 'Connie' Mary Fill who sadly passed away on 20th April 2025.

To describe our dear Mum, A Dear Sweet Lady born Constance Mary Summerhayes on 23rd February 1933 and as her name would suggest..constant in her manner, her way, brave and a true lady and hero coping with pain for a large part of her life but remaining Caring, Considerate, Compassionate, Dignified and Never one to complain.

Even to the last Mum had her standards of cleanliness and tidiness and an every day occurrence was to see Mum picking up “bits” off the floor with her litter picker!

A wonderful Wife to Geoff, Mother to Karen and Debbie, Grandmother and Great Grandmother and Mother in Law. Deeply loved by All her Family xx She dearly loved her garden, flowers, nature, music, arts and charities ! She gave willingly to those suffering and in need, with genuine concerns for everyone and every animal in trouble.

You are loved and missed so very much Mum and we hope you’re re-united with Dad and your many loved ones gone before you.

You are gone from our homes but never our hearts in which You will live forever. Rest in peace dearest, no more pain Mum. We All miss You so very very much xx ❤️🕯️🕊️🙏 💔 xx

Mandy Williams donated £10 in memory of Constance

Fond memories of a dear Aunt, a truly lovely, warm, caring, gentle lady.

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Patriciia Martin donated £40 in memory of Constance

Fly high on your angel wings xxxx

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  • Thank you ❤️ xx

    Posted by Karen on 18/05/2025 Report abuse
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Cheryl, Sue and Lorraine nee Fill donated in memory of Constance

In memory of Auntie Connie and Uncle Geoff. With love, Cheryl, Sue and Lorraine.

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  • Thank you my dear ladies xx

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Cheryl, Sue and Lorraine nee Fill wrote

Auntie Connie has always been a kind and thoughtful relative to us. Over the years we have seen her overriding love of family, and enjoyed her sense of humour and infectious laugh; when we were much younger we witnessed her unwavering ability to speak her mind and defend others. Bravo!
Though never able to defeat lifelong pain, Auntie Connie was never diminished by it; rather, what defined this brave and wonderful woman was her timeless love for her beloved Geoff, daughters and their families and as such she reached a grand old age.
Karen and Debbie, you were so lucky to have her as your Mum and for us, her nieces, it has been a joy and a privilege to have known and loved her. x x x

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  • Lovely words girls ❤️ thank you ☺️. Mum was always thinking of you girls xx

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Mel terry Kershaw wrote

Karen & family , thinking of you all and beautiful heart felt words Karen xx

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  • Thank you Mel & Terry, 😊 xx

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Doug and Wendy Barker wrote

Dear connie my Mums best friend. They were life long friends, sharing so many years together.
Mum loved her so much, I will will never forget her xx

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  • That’s lovely and Mum loved Elsie too ❤️ it’ll be lovely to see you there, thank you. Xx

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Haidee Baines donated £40 in memory of Constance

To dear Auntie Connie, with love, Haidee and Ian, Alex and Katherine xx

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  • Thank you Haidee, love from us xx

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Sally. & Paul Brand donated £50 in memory of Constance

In memory of Karen’s Mum and Lauren’s Nan RiP

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  • Thank you Both 🥹 xx

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Lesley Summerhayes donated £20 in memory of Constance

In loving memory of my darling Auntie Connie.
I will always miss the times we have spent together, and wish we had more to come.
Sleeping with the angels
God bless
Lesley xxx

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  • Thank you Dear Cousin ❤️ xxx

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Pat Martin wrote

Connie was a lovely lady with a big heart. She always saw the best in everyone and everything, even though she was often in pain she always had a smile when you were with her. I miss our weekly chats about putting the world right. Xxxx



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  • Thank you Dear Pat xx

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Mandy Williams wrote

Your mum was such a sweet, kind, caring lady who will be missed very much.

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  • Thank you Mandy 😘 xx

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  • Such a beautiful picture of your dear mum & dad. M xxx

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  • Wonderful memories of such a devoted & happy couple. Both forever in my heart & memories 💔🙏🌹

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