Brian Andrews (10 Sep 1942 - 7 Apr 2025)

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Beckenham Cemetery Elmers End Road Beckenham BR3 4TD
Date
1st May 2025
Time
11am
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In loving memory of Brian Andrews who sadly passed away on 7th April 2025

Brian, my Dad, was a much loved man. Many have said he was a kind and gentle man.
He was a quiet man, who would do anything for his family, no matter what.
He had our backs and would help at the drop of a hat.

He sadly had two strokes in 2019, which caused him to need full time care that could not be given at home.
We manged to find him a place just as Covid kicked in at The British Home, in Beulah Hill. It took him a while to settle in and it did not help, with us not being able to visit, due to Covid Restrictions, but we manged to video call and he recognised us most times. They cared for him right up until the end, which was a great relief to us, knowing he was in safe hands.

It was a blow to see him like this, as he was always up and about, doing stuff. Mostly for my mum and me. DIY was not his favourite thing to do and he muttered profanities under his breath about hating DIY, but still done it for us anyway, regardless.

He also loved to spend time down 'The Van' or caravan to you & I. He would go with my mum, sister and his grandchildren at weekends and for the summer and spend the time on 'The Deck' or in the pub having a few beers with his friends. Or reading one of his books.
He was happy not to join us to boot sales or shopping trips to Hastings or Ashford. He stayed home and cooked the dinner and watch his beloved motor racing or any other sport that was on.

His grandchildren remember all the old sit-coms he used to watch and the sitting in the dark having a cigar watching snooker late into the night, with a beer near by of course! Or he'd fall asleep snoring in the armchair.

He had all the time in the world for us, his children and grandchildren and would always be offering to drive and drop / pick us up no matter the time.

I fondly remember his dry sense of humour. The stupid one liner jokes that were always told at the completely wrong times and usually only I found funny and the rest roll their eyes at!

He outlived both his wife and eldest daughter, who I hope now he is re-united with.

Dad, Grandad, we will sorely forever miss you. xxx

Mick, Rita & family Ovenden wrote

Always remember Brian as a friendly cheerful man.He took time for a chat and was always interested in what was going on. He was sociable, and thoughtful. Sadly missed.

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  • Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻 xx

    Posted by Rachel on 30/04/2025 Report abuse
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Debbie Webb wrote

Remembering, affectionately, Brian, our friend and neighbour.You have been missed on "the road", over the last few years, but we have thought of you often, with fond memories - like, when the children were younger and our boys were bombing around the garden with Charlotte, or keeping an eye on the house while you were away at the caravan, the cheery wave at the door, or across the garden, and the catch-ups on the way to the shops; we shall remember your tremendous wit and happy smile.
Sleep tight now,
With love,
Debbie, Phil and Family xxx

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  • Thank you for your kind words and continued support 🙏🏻 xx

    Posted by Rachel on 23/04/2025 Report abuse
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David Fagan wrote

I remember Brian in so many ways - a very active man who adored his children, grandchildren and of course Betty .
We had chats about many things - including his dreaded repairs to the caravan . Didn’t realise DIY wasn’t his thing . I know he worked at Heathrow for many years as a freight agent . I worked in the import and export business so had a number of conversations about ‘our business ‘.
God bless Brian and it was great to have you as a neighbour for so many years
David

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  • Thank you Dave for your kind words. R

    Posted by Rachel on 19/04/2025 Report abuse
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  • What a beautiful photo … just how I remember your mum & dad !

    Posted by Jo on 19/04/2025 Report abuse
  • Happy times, a lovely cold beer for your dad and a yummy glass of red wine for your mum x

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  • Such a lovely photo of your Brian, he had a fabulous smile and chuckle. Goodnight Godbless Brian. You have lots of catching up to do with Hannah, (Betty to many) and your beloved daughter Tracy. Lots of love, Sharon x

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