Ben Ling (Passed away 1 Jun 2022)

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Wessex Vale Crematorium Bubb Lane Southampton SO30 2HL
Date
13th Jul 2022
Time
12.15pm
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In loving memory of Ben Ling who sadly passed away on 1st June 2022.

Donations to the Jim Cronin Memorial Fund.
To raise money for the Monkey World Park as we all know Ben had a love of all things monkeys.

There will be a live stream service of the Celebration of Ben's life for those that can not attend this service will also be able to be watched at anytime not just live.

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Colin Ling wrote

Always in our thoughts Ben, Be at peace, bless you. Loved always Dad xx

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Mum Burnett wrote

Another sad year without you Ben....still such a big hole left in my heart. The pain of losing you doesn't go away. Love and miss you every single day. Continue to sleep soundly and peacefully sweet Ben. Mum xxx

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Colin Ling wrote

Dear Ben, I can't believe it's now 3 years since you chose your pathway, you are missed everyday and loved so much. We wish that you had found the courage to talk about whatever was troubling you and that a different outcome may have been possible. We hope that you have found your peace at last that you so richly deserved. All our love always Dad, Maureen and girls. xx

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Carol Burnett wrote

Happy 38th birthday my sweet Ben. Miss you every day...love you always...Mum xxx. Forever 35 xxx

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Dad Ling wrote

Dear Ben, you are so sadly missed and especially so on this day, your birthday. You were loved by all of your family here in the Northeast, we wish things could have been different for you and that you could have found the support that may have made laid an alternative path for you. Rest peacefully son, all our love, Dad, Maureen and the girls xxxx.

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Colin Ling wrote

Thinking of you as always Ben, you are a sad loss x.

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Carol Burnett wrote

My dearest Ben. Two years today, on what was a beautiful, hot and sunny day, we said our goodbyes to you. I can only hope you were able to hear all the beautiful and heartfelt words that were said about you. Liam selected for you the most stunning coffin of the Northern Lights..I hope you looked down and saw it. Richard designed the most colourful and creative Order of Service... everyone played a part and I like to think we did you proud and gave you the send off you so deserved. You are loved and missed every single day my beautiful Ben xxx

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13th July 2022. Saying goodbye to Ben, a day filled with colour and love ❤️

13th July 2022. Saying goodbye to Ben, a day filled with colour and love ❤️

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Jan . wrote

Ben you are dearly missed by all that really knew you.
I had the honour to be able to say this.
I'm sure your at peace now.

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Colin Ling wrote

Mr dear Ben, I cannot believe that it is now 2 years since this world lost your beautiful light. You chose to leave this earth in search of peace and I am certain that you will have found it amongst the stars. You were dearly loved by us all and you are still loved by us all. We wish that you had been able to talk to those around you and ease your troubles to find another way, it saddens us that this was not the case and we miss you. Rest in peace son, with all our love Dad, Maureen, Lisa and Rachel xxx

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You always were such a light and strength to all around you Ben. The happiness and love you shared with your incredible Mum and big Brother never waivered throughout your life and now beyond.  You are a beautiful soul and we all miss and love you.

You always were such a light and strength to all around you Ben. The happiness and love you shared with your incredible Mum and big Brother never waivered throughout your life and now beyond. You are a beautiful soul and we all miss and love you.

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  • Such beautiful words Kay. Thank you...that's one of my favourite pictures with my boys. Thank you for being such a great support to us all xx

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Dear Ben, happy days from 2002, you are so missed and so loved. Rest in peace dear son xx.

Dear Ben, happy days from 2002, you are so missed and so loved. Rest in peace dear son xx.

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Carol Burnett wrote

My dear son Ben....two years since you left us now and the hole you left in our hearts and lives is just as big. Reading back through all your condolence messages is so emotional as shows how much you are loved and respected. I miss you so very much my beautiful Ben. Love you all world xxxx

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The last photo I took of you October 24th 2021

The last photo I took of you October 24th 2021

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Colin Ling wrote

Mr dear Ben, this was such shock for a father to find out so late of the loss of his son. You were, and always are, in my thoughts and loved very much. My wish is that we could have had more time together. Bless you Ben, always. Love Dad & Maureen xxxx

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Carol Burnett wrote

It's been a year since you left us Ben. At times it feels like a lifetime...others it's like it was only yesterday. You are thought of and spoken about every single day my darling boy. Always in my heart...will never stop loving you. Mum xxxx

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Val and Steve Cook donated £20 in memory of Ben

Ben is fondly remembered by us and will continue to be so.

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Jenny Bower wrote

Ben was a wonderful friend and housemate to me and Emily at university. He was always so caring and thoughtful. We had hours of fun playing board and card games. We got up to all sorts of mischief, I came back one day to my room being completely rearranged. He was also fantastic to live with as he had a DVD collection to rival blockbuster!

I will always think of you when playing risk and making pancakes.

I'm so sorry to his family, he really was a wonderful man.

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Emily Lister donated £20 in memory of Ben
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