Pamela Sedgwick (15 Dec 1962 - 23 Jul 2021)

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Location
Mortlake Crematorium Kew Meadow Path Richmond TW9 4EN
Date
24th Aug 2021
Time
10.40am
Funeral Director
Brunskill Family Funerals

In loving memory of Pamela Sedgwick who sadly passed away after a brave battle with cancer on 23rd July 2021. This memorial page is to celebrate, honour and remember Pam, a loving mother, partner, cousin and loyal friend. Please feel free to leave a message, share a memory, light a candle or donate to her charity.

Pam was 58 years old and her life ended too soon, leaving behind her daughter, Grace and her partner Geoff. It is incredibly difficult to deal with our emotions when we grieve, because of this some of you may feel anger, regret, disbelief. We are all different, but the reason you feel this way is because of the love that you had for Pam. Grief is the price we pay for love.

Many of you will not have been privy to the last two years of Pam’s life. The adversity she faced was truly harrowing. She chose to deal with her cancer privately and quietly, whilst only being with her family who could support her when she needed them most. Pam received the very best care from the NHS. They tried everything.

Despite everyone’s best efforts, no more could be done and the cancer continued to spread. Pam truly battled, but sadly it was a fight she could not win. Pam accepted her fate with great dignity, fighting to stay around for Grace and Geoff for as long as she could. She passed away peacefully on 23rd July, with Geoff and Grace by her side.

Perhaps the only way we can sum up this last 18 months is by imagining what it must have been like entering Tutankhamun's tomb for the first time - dark, dusty, with no way of knowing which way to go - but gradually your eyes get used to the dark and you touch a dusty object and what lies beneath it shines gold. This was Pam.

Pam was gold through her whole life; a woman of principal, who was intelligent, well read and had the ability to connect with people. She believed in making the most out life and firmly held the view that nothing should ever hold you back. She led a interesting and busy life and has left a wealth of wonderful memories.

Love and friendship was incredibly important to Pam. She was good fun, popular and loyal and she always invested in her friendships; we thank Pam for her love and friendship as we recall and remember the good times. We'd love to hear your stories and for you to share your memories ...

All donations to Pams chosen charity Sarcoma UK will be very gratefully received; we aim to assist in their fight to improve early diagnosis (which is basically one of the only ways of beating it) of this truly underfunded area of cancer research. We'll be organising further charity events going forward - if any off you are interest in assisting in anyway please contact us.

Rosie Roberts donated £40 in memory of Pamela

Sending much love, to you all. Xxx

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  • Thank you Rosie. That’s very kind x

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Safeena Tonks donated £30 in memory of Pamela

It was a joy to have known Pam and reconnected with her in the last few years. She was principled and passionate in what she believed in. She will be missed by many. Sleep tight Pam xxx

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  • Thank you Safeena, that’s very kind .. brilliant photo too! x

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Pam, Jaki and I in a school photo in 1976. We were 12/13

Pam, Jaki and I in a school photo in 1976. We were 12/13

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George Gooch donated £10 in memory of Pamela

Some pub quiz winnings

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  • Thank you George .. nice comment . maybe we should arrange a charity quiz? 😊

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Richard Fox donated £20 in memory of Pamela
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Ellie Beckett donated £30 in memory of Pamela

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  • Thank you so much Ellie x

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  • Thank You Ellie, thats very kind x

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Diane Gillespie donated in memory of Pamela

I will miss Pam always, a unique soul who has had a profound effect on my life and all those around her. Thanks for your friendship Pam xxxx

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  • Thank You Diane, thats very kind x

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rachel arquati donated £50 in memory of Pamela
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Andy Wright donated £10 in memory of Pamela

Lots of love xx

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  • Thank you Andy, thats very kind x

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Tori Keene donated £10 in memory of Pamela

In memory of your fabulous Mum. Sending you lots of love x

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  • Thank you Tori thats very kind x

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Catherine Walters donated in memory of Pamela
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susan french donated £250 in memory of Pamela

On behalf of Barnsbury Housing Association, where Pam was a much-valued colleague - she will be much missed.

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  • Thats very kind and much appreciated Susan ❤️

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susan french donated in memory of Pamela

Pam was a much valued colleague - I really enjoyed working with her. She was smart, challenging and fearless - and very stylish! She made a big difference to Barnsbury and will be much missed.

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Sean McLaughlin donated in memory of Pamela

So obvious how much Pam will be missed by her family and loved ones. Let's not forget what a wonderful professional contribution she made, and how capable and loyal a colleague she was. Thanks Pam!

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  • Thank You Sean thats very much appreciated ❤️

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Berni Boruch donated in memory of Pamela

Gone way too soon - will be much missed always

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  • Thank You Berni thats very much appreciated ❤️

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George Gooch donated in memory of Pamela
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Rose Hircock donated £20 in memory of Pamela
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Rosemary and Diana Arber/Airey donated in memory of Pamela
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Elaine and Chris Lomax donated in memory of Pamela

In memory of a beautiful lady 💖💖🙏

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  • Thank You Chris and Elaine thats very much appreciated ❤️

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Jo Oldridge donated £10 in memory of Pamela

Thinking of you Geoff and Grace and sending much strength and love. I hope my donation brings some good out of such a sad occasion x

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  • Thank You Jo, thats very kind and much appreciated ❤️

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Marietta Gill donated in memory of Pamela
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Caroline Conroy donated £30 in memory of Pamela
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