Phyllis Emma McNamara

Phyllis Emma McNamara (1 Feb 1934 - 3 May 2020)

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It is with deep sadness that the family announces the death of Phyllis Emma McNamara (aged 86), who passed away on Sunday 3rd May 2020 following a short illness which she faced with incredible dignity and courage.

Roy's devoted wife of 67 years, loving Mum of Joy, Jean & Paul, adored Mother-in-law of Graham (deceased), Brian, Mark and Jane, Cherished grandma to Lyndsay, Matthew, Rachel, Stephanie, Benjamin & Millie and great grandma to Owen, Quinn & Imogen and beloved sister of Rosemary and caring friend to many.

The celebration of Phyllis' life will be held at The Crematorium, Weelsby Avenue, Grimsby on Tuesday 19th May 2020 at 10.30am.

SPECIAL ARRANGEMENTS FOR ATTENDANCE:-

Due to current "gathering" restrictions, the service will be dedicated to immediate family only ie, Roy, their children and partners, her sister and brother-in-law. Those wishing to attend to show their love and respect may do so BUT attendees will not be able to enter the gates of the crematorium grounds because doing so will result in an immediate family member being unable to take their place for the service. Instead, attendees may greet Phyllis as she is driven to the crematorium gates by lining up along Weelsby Avenue leading up to the gates. Please ensure that social distancing is observed.

Please do not stand near the gates of the crematorium grounds because the family is reserving such area for Phyllis' 6 grandchildren who, because of number restrictions, cannot, unfortunately, enter the crematorium gates and attend the service.

Current restrictions may be relaxed in the days before the service. The family will check for any changes to the restrictions on Monday 18th May, so if you are considering attending, please contact either Joy, Jean or Paul to check the position after 12 noon on Monday. The family respects that some people may wish to continue to isolate and not attend. They know you will be thinking of Phyllis and the family during this difficult period.

Phyllis has specifically requested that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to MacMillan via the link above. In any event, due to social distancing, there will be no opportunity to view flowers in the garden of remembrance and, sadly, the family will not be able to personally thank attendees.

Jean Williams donated £180 in memory of Phyllis

Mum,
We've had our first family night without you and it was not the same without you. Life is just not the same without you. We miss you so desperately. We all planned to do the Race for Life in memory of you and Jane's lovely Mum, Pat, but the event is cancelled. We are therefore going for a walk instead and will think of you both. This donation is the equivalent of the Race entry fee. Dad has donated too. He misses you as much as we thought he would but we are looking after him. Love you so much Mum. Hope you are resting and looking down on us all with pride. xxxx

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Benjamin McNamara donated in memory of Phyllis
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Jean Williams wrote

Roy, Joy, Jean & Paul extend their sincere thanks to you all for your generous donations to Mum's chosen charity, expressions of sympathy (either by way of card, flowers or words) and attendance at today's emotional but fitting tribute to the most wonderful lady we've shared our lives with. xx

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Benjamin McNamara wrote

Love you Grandma x

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Sarah and Ian Murten wrote

So sorry for your loss - hope you can treasure your wonderful memories xx

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Sarah and Ian Murten donated £20 in memory of Phyllis

So sorry for your loss - hope you can treasure your wonderful memories xx

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Jean Williams donated in memory of Phyllis

This donation has actually been kindly made by Liz. Jean has simply entered the same on the system on Liz's behalf.

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Sean Minkley donated £10 in memory of Phyllis
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Denise Fields wrote

Sending all my love to you all at this sad time x

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Denise Fields donated £10 in memory of Phyllis
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Millie Mcnamara donated in memory of Phyllis

RIP Grandma❤️❤️

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Kirstyallard71@gmail.com Allard donated £20 in memory of Phyllis

Sending much love to all of the family at this sad time.

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Lyndsay Smith donated £25 in memory of Phyllis
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Richard Rudd donated in memory of Phyllis

Deepest sympathy from Dick, Nicky & family

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Carla Mowforth donated £10 in memory of Phyllis

Thinking of you all x

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Ros Collinson donated £15 in memory of Phyllis

Sorry for your loss Joy and that you can’t celebrate her life how you would have chosen....but you’ll always have her close to your heart anyway. I didn’t know her but can see you in her. A beautiful warm person.

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Sheila Abbott wrote

So sorry to hear the sad news Roy and I will miss talking to your mam and dad at the bus stop she was a lovely lady thinking of you all

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Rachel O'Donovan donated £30 in memory of Phyllis

In loving memory of our amazing Grandma and Great Grandma. We love you so very much. Rach, Wes, Owen & Quinn x

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Andy and Jacinta Busby donated £20 in memory of Phyllis
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Lauretta Mckinnon donated in memory of Phyllis

I was so very very sad to hear of Phyllis's sudden death. Myself and my family have lovely memories of her kind heart and selfless personality. What a great support she has been to heher family throughout their lives. A wonderful wife to Roy, which together they shared a truly wonderful life. Phyllis epitomised all that is goodness,kindness and decency. My heart goes out to Roy and all of the family..they have lost a lovely soul...but she will be carried safely in their hearts forever. My sadness is so immense for you all.

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Matthew Boothby donated £10 in memory of Phyllis
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Sandie Braithwaite donated in memory of Phyllis

In memory of a lovely lady

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JENNIFER PARROTT donated £30 in memory of Phyllis

In memory of a lovely lady Jenny and family

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Joy, Jean and Paul McNamara donated £75 in memory of Phyllis

In memory of our beautiful Mum who fought a brave battle against cancer with such dignity and courage.

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