Ken Kirk (31 Jul 1931 - 24 Jun 2019)

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St Hugh's Church Monks Road Lincoln LN2 5AQ
Date
31st Jul 2019
Time
1.15pm
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In loving memory of Ken Kirk who sadly passed away on 24th June 2019
Ken was born on 31 July 1931 Castletown, Sunderland. He was the only son and eldest child of Gibson and Ruth Kirk. He has 3 sisters Norma, Jennie and Liz
Ken lived in Castletown all his childhood and youth. He left school and initially worked as a miner before joining the RAF for his national service. When he returned home he trained as an RMN and then rejoined the RAF as a nurse. He served in the RAF until 1973 During that time he served in Germany, Cyprus and several English RAF hospitals. He was also involved in medical evacuations from the middle east during the troubles there, often in the guise of a Red Cross aide worker due to the dangers to service men. When he left the RAF he trained as a Probation officer and worked in the Louth area and also for several years at Lincoln Prison. He also worked from the Lincoln office for several years where he set up a youth group for young offenders in the 1970's. In 1958 whilst stationed at RAF Halton he met Eileen Heatley, who he often said was the love of his life, they married on the 25th April 1959. They recently celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary. A year after they married they had their 1st of 4 children Carol, followed by Susan, Michael and James.
He was immensely proud of his children and their achievements, always supportive and generous. He was so happy when Paul, Neil and Sarah joined the family. (his eldest 3 children's partners) He was so proud and overjoyed when he became a grandad. He had 4 grandchildren from 1989 to 1996, Jason, Joshua, Charlotte and Matthew and just 3 years ago became a grandad again to Maddie who he fondly called "the boss", he loved each and everyone of them dearly.
Ken was chairman of the Brant Road Club and an active member of the club for many years. He was also a keen snooker player and was involved with the Lincolnshire and Humberside Billiards and Snooker Association for many years he even beat Steve Davis in a match! He enjoyed watching the football, he followed the endeavours of Lincoln and Sunderland but he also kept tabs on Hartlepool.
His claim to 5 minutes of fame came in the 1970's when he appeared in and won a trip to Skiathos on Bob Monkhouse's Celebrity squares.
During the last few years he enjoyed family holidays and visits to the North East. He also enjoyed trips out in the car and family meals and get togethers. As his health and mobility declined he loved to watch tv especially animal and air ambulance programmes and his favourites Only Fools and Horses an Last of the Summer Wine. He liked to sit in the garden having a "tab" and watching the birds especially the cheeky robin who would pop in from time to time.
He loved his family and was very much loved by them. He will be loved and missed always and forever

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Susan Weaver donated £10 in memory of Ken

From Elaine x

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Elizabeth Kelly wrote

For my dear brother Ken who will be missed by all of us. Love Liz, Frank and family.xx

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Elizabeth Kelly wrote

Thinking of you lots Ken and all the family, your loving sister and brother-in law Liz and Frank.xx

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Alison Williams donated in memory of Ken

Lovely memories of visits to Broadmayne Avenue. Thinking of you Uncle Ken, and of the family. Much love to all of you. You'll be missed! Alison xxx

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Norma Haswell donated £20 in memory of Ken

For my dear brother Kenneth Bewick Kirk. My love always. Norma xxx

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John Haswell donated in memory of Ken

Remembering the fun that I had with the model aircraft you made for me Uncle Ken.

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John Haswell wrote

Remembering the fun I had with the model aircraft you made for me Uncle Ken

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Carol Appleyard donated £20 in memory of Ken

for dad, love you always xx

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Carol Appleyard wrote

For dad xx

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Michael Lister wrote

Although I only knew Ken for a short while
He always was a kind and thoughtful person who put his family first.
I will always remember the times we had a drink in the Brant Road Club
RIP dear Ken a true Gentleman

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RIP Ken
I only knew you for a short time but you will always be remembered

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Reid Cooper wrote

I enjoyed reading more about Ken’s personal and work history because there was much I wasn’t aware of. I’m so glad that I finally made the trip to England in 2017 and fulfilled a lifelong dream to visit my father’s birthplace. Being able to meet my cousin Ken and wife Ellen plus two of their children Carol Kirk Appleyard (Neil)and Susan Kirk Weaver (Paul), was a highlight of my journey. Such a warm and loving family, it was a privilege having the opportunity to spend some time with all of you...but sadly it’s never enough time.
My heart goes out to the entire family on this terrible loss and I just pray that God will comfort, strengthen and carry you during this time of sorrow.

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Miss you so much Dad. Love you forever xx

Miss you so much Dad. Love you forever xx

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  • My hero - love and miss you always -until we meet agai xxx

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  • Hey Pops Miss you xx

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