Roger, I know we haven't seen much of each other since that day in February 1964 and I understand how rotten you must be feeling right now. Please try to remember the good times with Jillian, the times when you made each other laugh. Remember the things you did together that you couldn't or wouldn't tell anyone else about. This is a sad time for you, but as sadness will pass, memories will remain, nurture those and enjoy them, for they are what Jillian gave you. Try to think not about who or what you have lost, but what you have gained by meeting and marrying her. I hope you find contentment soon secure in the knowledge that you shared your life with a lovely woman.
donated in memory of Jillian