Valerie Hawksfield (10 May 1964 - 22 Sep 2026)

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Location
St Lawrence Church Bidborough Tunbridge Wells TN3 0UJ
Date
23rd Oct 2026
Time
10am
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We would like you to join us in celebrating the life of Val Hawksfield who sadly passed away on the 22nd September 2026 after a hard fought battle with pancreatic cancer.

Val was one of the most genuine and kind people and lived life to to the full. She always had time for everyone and had countless stories of the fun she got up to. The overwhelming support through her battle and the reaction to her passing truly showed how special she was to so many people.

A service will be held at St Lawrence Church in Bidborough at 10am on the 23rd October. Due to limited church capacity, seating will be allocated by invitation. However, the service will be streamed online and a showing of this will be held in Bidborough School hall next to the church. There will also be the opportunity to say a final goodbye as she leaves the church.

Streaming link - https://www.funeralstream.tv/claritymedia1023#valerie-hawksfield

After the service, please join us for refreshments at Old Farm, Lamberhurst Quarter, TN3 8AS.

The dress code is smart casual and pops of colour are more than welcome.

We kindly ask for no flowers as Val had asked for donations to be made to the Hospice in the Weald instead. This can be done through the link on this page. There is also a section if you wish to upload a message, story or favourite memory or even a favourite image.

For planning purposes, please RSVP to 07712570332 or bhawksfield@gmail.com.

Lesley Tyler donated £50 in memory of Valerie

Remembering a special lady.

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Chris & Penny Walters donated £50 in memory of Valerie

Our heartfelt sympathy to Les, Beth, Owen, Will and all the family. Such fond memories growing up with Val, who was always full of warmth, fun and mischief. So lucky to have known you.

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Val Fitzpatrick donated £20 in memory of Valerie
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Ali Tomlins donated in memory of Valerie

Val...one of life's gem's. Remembering happy times at the vineyard.

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Doug Moore donated in memory of Valerie

Fantastic funeral service. Val would very impressed. She was an amazing lady

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Gran Jan Champneys donated in memory of Valerie

RIP my darling stepdaughter all my love

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Jonathan Easteal wrote

Dear Val, who was around in my life for over 50 years, you are very much missed and mourned. We will miss your fun, sunny disposition, care for others and sense of humour. Things won’t be the same knowing you are no longer among us but know the lasting impact you made on the lives of very many people. Rest in Peace. Love, Jonathan

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Jonathan Easteal donated in memory of Valerie
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Molly Latter donated in memory of Valerie
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Nick & Clare Tate donated £30 in memory of Valerie
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Karon and Steve McCarthy donated £30 in memory of Valerie
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Wayne Davis donated in memory of Valerie

Remembering Val, our love and thoughts go out to all the family. Wayne and Caroline Davis.

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Jude Saunders donated £50 in memory of Valerie

So sad to be saying ‘goodbye’ to this very special lady.

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Jude and Charlotte Saunders wrote

So very sad to be saying “goodbye’ to this very special lady.
So many funny memories to share but really I just remember laughing so much in Val’s company.
We went through a phase of signing up for half marathons. The first one was Paddock Wood and Val had to pull out. That was fine but I was so appreciative of her popping up at the finish line to congratulate me and give me a big hug.
The other vivid memory I have is of our piano playing. We had lessons following on from each other with Emma Pitts in Paddock Wood and I was definitely in the lead at the beginning but Val was very committed and soon overtook me. Occasionally we would try and play duets and were so hopeless because we were helpless laughing at our efforts.
Much love and so many fond memories. Jude

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Jon Langley wrote

I will always remember your kindness and generosity and that amazing smile, which just lit up the world. I will never forget your support to me; your beautiful children are a perfect reflection of your spirit and warmth and that must have been a great joy for you. Rest in Peace, love Jon xxx ps we never got that coffee we promised we'd have when you felt a little better...so very sad.

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Neil Payne donated in memory of Valerie

In memory of a kind, generous and special lady, and with our condolences

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Jo Corry wrote

You were so kind, thoughtful and generous and, at the same time, so full of mischief and fun. You knew what was important in life and created so many wonderful memories for those you loved. Such a class act, you carried yourself with grace and poise, even when life dealt you the bitterest of blows. I will think of you when I cook one of your recipes; when I wonder how I am going to fix a tear in some jeans without running up the road for help and when I see something that would have made you chuckle. What a privilege it has been to know you and what joy you bought to our lives. Rest well my darling friend x

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Darling Val. I will miss you so much x

Darling Val. I will miss you so much x

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Gary & Nicole Smith donated £100 in memory of Valerie

Val was such a special person to have had the pleasure of knowing. Words just can’t express what a fantastic person she was. Nicole & I miss her terribly. Gary & Nicole

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Catherine Dench donated in memory of Valerie

In loving memory of Val from Ann, Catherine & James x

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Sarah Hosking (née Barter) donated £52.39 in memory of Valerie

Thank you for being my friend Val. I will cherish my memories of us forever. What a mad time our teens were! I am so very lucky to have had you in my life. You truly were so incredibly special, and honestly, the sweetest, most gentle soul with a real zest for life. I’m so sorry yours was too short Not fair! Rest in peace now my friend and please come and visit me in my dreams xx

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Bidborough Tennis Club donated £50 in memory of Valerie

In fond memory of Val. Thank you for your time and bright spirit during your time on the Tennis committee.
Sending our love to the family at this difficult time.

From the committee and members of the Bidborough Tennis Club xx

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