I'd known Alex almost 30 years as he had the diligent role of flying organiser in the Hang Gliding society that I'd somehow been convinced to join in my first week of uni (can't remember if he had a hand in that or not,.. but probably). My first definite memory of him was the soc's first social, a bar crawl round and off campus where he talked me into trying real ale, resulting in chunder but carrying on regardless! Other memories of that night are sketchy but I do remember hanging on to Alex as we tried to very literally squeeze our way from the doorway, to the bar of the Grove, which seemed to be THE place to go for *every* off campus student at the time (seriously that couldn't have been fire legal!), before ultimately giving up - probably no further than half way!
Since then, he's been a real pal through the years, from uni days, Game City Nights, Tech Notts, weekly climbing and the laughs we all had playing Elite during COVID lockdowns, despite his hearing difficulties (which probably led to the odd "Leroy Jenkins" moments with his favourite Type 10 "tank", but that just added to the much needed comedy of those times =D ). He was often the first to say yes to a cinema or band trip idea and I'll really miss him at the upcoming Levellers gig we were meant to be going to together this month. All in all, we had a lot of fun, and I was hoping for a lot more. When I took this picture of him on the Flying Scotsman in May we'd gone for a bit of an explore down the carriages. I never imagined it would be the last. Over the recent weeks, as more and more things have gone on, news, tech, nerdy stuff that I'd ordinarily like to talk to or tell him about, I feel like I'm missing him more now than ever. It all came to an end far too soon.
There is one kinda cool thing. Back when it was popular, we'd often bring our 3DS's to meet ups so we could get a "Street Pass". As such, I've got Alex's avatar, Allypally on mine. So in some small way he's still around to help me out in those mini-games, which I think he'd have definitely liked.
Alexander James Weighell (14 Sep 1977 - 26 Jul 2026)
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In loving memory of Alexander James Weighell who sadly passed away on 26th July 2026 aged 48.
Much loved partner of Nicola, a cherished son to Chris and Tina, a dearly loved brother to Oli, Adam and Simon, Uncle to Freddie, Stanley, Tommy, Finn, Toby, Ruby and Lola and friend and colleague to many.

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