Peter James O'Callaghan (Passed away 21 May 2026)

  Peter James O’Callaghan 8Th January 1944 – 21st May 2026 For those of us who knew Peter O’Callaghan well, we knew him as a man who lived life mainly on his own terms, who had little respect for rules and regulations that might limit his personality. He had great respect for the power of speech. Why use one word when a whole paragraph would suffice! He was a man of deep faith in humanity, who was happiest with bare feet, a glass of red wine, and a room full of people ready to listen to a good story. Peter was our resident speechmaker. He spoke at weddings, funerals, birthdays, and leaving days. He never missed an opportunity to raise a glass and lift our spirits.    

Peter passed away peacefully surrounded by his family and friends. He had lived with dementia and Parkinson’s disease for some years and was finally taken by pneumonia. He was cared for with great kindness and compassion by the staff at Briggs Lodge in Devizes.   Born in Cork, Ireland; Peter was the second eldest of five brothers and one sister, and his Irish roots run deep through everything he did. Whether he was cheering on Irish rugby or proudly speaking about Ireland or ‘his people’, the Irish, his homeland was always close to his heart.  

Peter spent five years training for the priesthood and later studied to become an English teacher, before deciding that neither path was for him. After moving from Ireland to England, he dedicated much of his life to working with the homeless. He worked as Director for different local authorities and housing associations including Hammersmith and Brent Housing, Patchwork, BIAS, and Shelter, but was happiest when working face to face with those in need of homes.    

It was while working at Shelter Housing Aid Centre, he met Lesley, and they married in 1972, beginning a partnership of more than fifty years. Together they raised their twins, Kate and Tim, and later welcomed their granddaughter, Louise.  

Peter came from a sporting family. His passions were Golf, Tennis, Swimming and Badminton. He also enjoyed storytelling, poetry, and socialising with friends. Known for his quick wit, warmth, and humour, he saw the good in everyone and gave his time generously to those who needed support. He will be deeply missed by his family and friends.  

The family look forward to those of you who can attend his funeral to celebrate his life. This is at West Wiltshire Crematorium, Semington on Monday 29th June at 11.30am. Any donations kindly given are for Shelter.