Tom Weal (18 Dec 1953 - 23 Jan 2026)

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Location
Eltham Crematorium - North Chapel Crown Woods Way Eltham SE9 2AZ
Date
17th Feb 2026
Time
11am
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Location
The Oakes Starbucks Close Eltham SE9 2TD
Date
17th Feb 2026
Time
12.45pm

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Thank you for the overwhelming love, support, and messages of condolence we have received following the passing of Tom. They have meant so much to us as a family. 💙

Tom’s funeral will be held on Tuesday 17th February at 11am at Eltham Crematorium, North Chapel (Crown Woods Way, Eltham, London, SE9 2AZ).

We are expecting many people who wish to pay their respects, so please bear this in mind when arriving at the crematorium and allow a little extra time, particularly for parking.

In line with Tom’s wishes, flowers are for immediate family only. We kindly ask that, in lieu of flowers, donations are made to Greenwich and Bexley Community Hospice, who cared for Tom.

Tom’s “party” to celebrate his life will be held at The Oaks (Starbuck Close, Eltham, SE9 2TF) from 12.30pm–7pm.

For those who can't attend Tom's funeral please see streaming details below:

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Tony OBRIEN donated in memory of Tom

R I P Tom you will be missed by all a true Gentleman a pleasure to get to know you.

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Steve karen + Jan weal donated in memory of Tom

Love you Tom xxx

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Jamir Chalklin donated £30 in memory of Tom
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Mario & Sarah Innecco donated in memory of Tom
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Rose Collins donated £25 in memory of Tom
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Alicia Mattingly lit a candle
Natalie Ratcliff donated £20 in memory of Tom

We will always remember Tom’s kindness to us giving Martin a job all those years ago. We have fond memories of Tom in Tenerife. When Tom and Joanne got together- it was beautiful to watch how happy they were together. Tom is at peace with his Peter still partying in heaven.

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Binnie Hevey donated in memory of Tom

Rest in peace Tom, thinking of all your family and sending love at this very sad time

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Debbie Keogh lit a candle
Debbie Keogh wrote

Rest in peace Tom 🕯️

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chris ROSE donated £50 in memory of Tom

Rest in peace Tom, which I had got to know you better than I did

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Ash Corbett lit a candle
Ash Corbett wrote

Tom, you were a pleasure to know and be around, looking at all these comments about you, we can’t all be lying! You were a lovely man and to the rest of the family and extended family my deepest heartfelt condolences & sympathies to you all Xx

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Alison & Adam Smith donated £20 in memory of Tom
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Paul Winter donated £50 in memory of Tom

A privilege to have known such a lovely man

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Holly Ebdon wrote

RIP Tom. You were such a kind and funny man. We would always chat and joke at UL and i will always remember the time you tried helping us with my mums tyre in the petrol station at Bexleyheath. You will be missed ❤️

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Suzanne Whittaker donated £20 in memory of Tom

Tom made me feel so welcome when I joined the company last summer. He was always supportive, upbeat and approachable. It's a shame I didn't know him for longer. RIP.

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Paul Ebdon wrote

RIP Tom. The man, the myth, the legend.
You will be missed by everyone.

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Daren Moseley donated £50 in memory of Tom

Gonna miss you mate and the bad jokes. Love Daren and Elaine

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Matthew Oakley donated £30 in memory of Tom

One of a kind, and he will be deeply missed.

Tom had a rare ability, in any situation, to bring positivity and humility into the room. He led by example, lifted those around him, and made even the toughest days feel lighter.

I’m a better person for having known him.

Rest in peace, Tom. 🤍

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Stephen Burgess donated in memory of Tom

You will be missed by so many. Rest in peace Tom.

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John Merrick donated £10 in memory of Tom

I will always remember you and your second trusty monitor that followed you wherever you went, when i worked with you!

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James Mcsweeney donated £500 in memory of Tom
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Natalie Timms wrote

So many happy memories working with you over the years. You will be sorely missed, Tom! X

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Deana Dunbar donated £50 in memory of Tom

Remembering Tom and thinking of his family at this sad time 💕

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Jan Humber donated in memory of Tom

Rest in peace Tom. Our thoughts are with you and those you leave behind.
From the Humber family

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Sarah Whelan donated £30 in memory of Tom
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