Brenda Foyster (20 Sep 1954 - 19 Aug 2025)

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Location
Thames View Crematorium Gravesend Road Shorne Gravesend Kent DA12 3JH
Date
18th Sep 2025
Time
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In loving memory of Brenda Foyster who sadly passed away on 19th August 2025

No one heard the footsteps of Angels drawing near and Brenda left us suddenly after losing the battle with several long term illnesses, she will be very much missed by all her family and many friends.

Born in Beckenham in September 1954 to David & Poppy with two younger siblings, Heather & Paul.

Brenda was raised in Lewisham but moved to Guernsey in her teenage years to live with her grandmother.
She then returned to live with her parents in Hither Green before marrying Nigel in 1973 when she was only 19 years old.

For the first 11 years of marriage, Brenda & Nigel would travel the world before the birth of their first son Dean in 1984 and their second son Jonathan in 1988.

Brenda's early years of marriage involved working for Barclay's Bank in both Bermondsey and then the Welling branch when she made the house move to Gravesend some 40 years ago.

In later years she doted over her three wonderful grandchildren, Charlie, Harry & Poppy and we are sure that her love and devotion to them will guide them on the right path through life.

Brenda lived an eventful and colourful life that was no doubt packed with happy and some sad memories however she has left us knowing that she was a much loved by both her family and all that who knew her.

Donna Foyster wrote

Happy 1st heavenly mother’s day Brenda. We all miss you so much.

Love Dean and Donna xx

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Nigel Foyster wrote

I think back to the fifty five years that we spent together at Christmas and recall the many happy times that we shared with family and friends, some of which are sadly also no longer with us.

This may be our first Christmas apart but you will be much missed not only today but also in the days to come.

Take care, the memories remain with us all
With much love
Nigel
Xxx

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Donna Foyster wrote

Our first Christmas with out you. You are so missed by each and everyone of us. The void that you’ve left behind is unreal. I just hope you are at peace and looking down on your boys and your grandchildren and how well they have coped. Merry Christmas Brenda where ever you might be. Love you all the world xx

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Pauline Ann rawbone donated in memory of Brenda

Dear Brenda
Your life was cut short far too early. You will be sadly missed.
Love Pauline & Arthur

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Sue & Alan Shepherd donated £20 in memory of Brenda

In memory of Brenda.

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Happy birthday to my beautiful auntie Brenda hope you’re having a blast up there you’re always in my thoughts & heart each & every day miss you auntie until we meet again love you loads💔💔

Happy birthday to my beautiful auntie Brenda hope you’re having a blast up there you’re always in my thoughts & heart each & every day miss you auntie until we meet again love you loads💔💔

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Today we lit a candle for you on your birthday.  You are truly missed.  We love you mum more than you probably ever knew.  Rest in eternal peace with the angels love Dean and Donna xxx

Today we lit a candle for you on your birthday. You are truly missed. We love you mum more than you probably ever knew. Rest in eternal peace with the angels love Dean and Donna xxx

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Jon foyster wrote

Happy Birthday Mum❤️xxx

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Nigel Foyster wrote

With love on your birthday xxx

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Dean Foyster wrote

Finally had to say our final goodbye. I held it in since you left. I hope we all done you proud today. Rest in peace mum. Will love you forever xxx

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RIP Brenda

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Deana King wrote

I'm so sorry to not be able to be there Thursday but I'll be thinking of you all.
RIP Brenda

love Deana and family

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Nigel Foyster wrote

Just one more day until you are finally taken from us.

We shall however be with you as the angels guide you to be at rest with those that you have sadly lost and loved in life.

Although you are no longer with us, you will always be much loved and the cherished memories of you will stay in our hearts forever .

Rest in peace and stay strong as you always were in life.

With all our love forever ❤️
Nigel, Dean, Jon, Donna, Charlie, Harry & Poppy
xxxxxxx

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  • Beautiful message Nigel. Be strong today. We are with you in our thoughts. We are sending all of you our love. God bless you all.❤️ Rest in divine peace dearest Brenda.🖤

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Shannon Solway posted a picture
Best holiday making so many memories  💕💕 Missing you so much auntie Brenda forever in my heart the strongest women we had on this planet💕💕

Best holiday making so many memories 💕💕 Missing you so much auntie Brenda forever in my heart the strongest women we had on this planet💕💕

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Jon foyster wrote

Miss you so much Mum💔
Forever your remain in my heart. You were the strongest and bravest person, and such an inspiration to those around you.

RIP MUM❤️

Love always
Jonathan xxx

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Peter Katie Jessica Kearns donated £20 in memory of Brenda

We know you’ll make them laugh up there

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Gill Casselman wrote

Rest in peace my special cousin and lifelong friend. I have so many treasured memories of happy times we spent together. You are always in my thoughts, forever in my heart xxx

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