Linda Wellmen (11 Dec 1950 - 14 Aug 2025)

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LindaThe Indee Rose Trust

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Location
Basildon Crematorium Church Road Basildon SS13 2HG
Date
12th Sep 2025
Time
10am
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In loving memory of Linda (Lin) Wellmen who sadly passed away on 14th August 2025.

She truly was the best, a loving Mum, Nana, Wife, Sister, Auntie & Friend to all. To know her was to love her and we feel so lucky to have shared so many wonderful memories with her.

Mum was famous for her amazing cooking, especially her legendary apple pie, meat pies & sausage rolls - no-one could make them like her and they will always remind us of home and her love.

He love, her stories and her laughter will stay with us forever. We shall miss her more than words can say xx

We would love to hear your stories / memories of Lin (mum) - please feel free to share below.

Mum loved her hats – they were very much part of her attire – so please feel free to wear one to add a little colour and tradition in her memory. To honour her ;Signature Style' and 'Standards' you will see her beloved collection being worn on the day by some of her close friends and family members.

Flowers are welcome, though as they cannot be kept for long, we are also welcoming donations (should you choose) in Mum’s memory to her favourite charity, The Indee Rose Trust by clicking the link above.

Flowers can be sent to: Stibbards, 22 Canvey Road, Canvey Island, Essex, SS8 0LW on the evening of 11/9/25

Let’s give her the send-off she would have wanted – a true celebration of her legacy. ✨💖

Vanessa Millar donated in memory of Linda
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The Emberys Embery donated £75 in memory of Linda
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Odile Brennan donated £50 in memory of Linda

From Philippa and Odile

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Jane Hart donated £20 in memory of Linda

With all our love Jane Dave Poppy & Tilly Hart ❤️

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Charlotte Martinson donated £50 in memory of Linda

Love from us all xx

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Linda and Derick Beesley lit a candle
Claire Leonard wrote


So, so many memories of Auntie Lin!
Having a drink or 10 with my mum on far too many occasions, without any occasion but they made it into one!
I was speaking with Charlie about Lin and said I was pretty sure she gave me my first drink - Malibu and pineapple (it was the 80’s) and Charlie quickly replied - me too! Mine was a vodka and coke! Lin was consistent throughout the generations!
Cutting my front lawn the day before my wedding in the rain - classic Lin!
The years of Canvey Majors - everything being yellow and blue!
Family holiday in Ibiza.
As mentioned the food - especially the amazing apple pie!
Always the life, soul and fun of any party.
We will always have a special place for Auntie Lin in our hearts and thoughts.
Our love goes out to Uncle John, Brad, Ness & families - keep hold of the many happy memories in your hearts.
And look out for the spider!
Our love Claire, Mark, Steph & Charlie xxxx

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Claire Leonard donated £100 in memory of Linda

God bless, sleep tight Auntie Lin xx

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Sylwia and Regis M donated £30 in memory of Linda
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Yvonne Musgrove donated £20 in memory of Linda
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Andrew Hodder donated £25 in memory of Linda
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Andrew Hodder wrote

In memory of Lin, a special lady I will never forget. I remember a fantastic day out in Lake Geneva with her, Lainey and Joseph, I remember some great great nights out with her and then just simply sat around the table at the house in Crystal Lake. Never shy of an opinion or a laugh, a true character. Lin was also so kind and thoughtful to my family. Love to all the family, she loved you all so much.

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Matthew, Nicola, Cadence and Faith Honeyands donated £30 in memory of Linda
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Matthew, Nicola, Cadence and Faith Honeyands wrote

Will be sadly missed. Always love you Auntie Linda. Xxx

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Trev and Lynne Hodder donated £30 in memory of Linda

In loving memory of Lin whose kindness and thoughtfulness we will remember always xx love Lynne and Trevxx🤗❤️

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Marlene Atkins donated £20 in memory of Linda

Remembered with a smile fly with the angels xx

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Katie Vincent donated £100 in memory of Linda

In loving memory of my beloved Auntie Lin - Katie & David xxxx

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Sharon Martinson donated £50 in memory of Linda

God bless xx

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Katie Vincent wrote

Since the age of four, you have been a constant in my life — like a second mum, and an aunt all rolled into one. You never let us down, and you always kept the very best secrets. From the time I broke your favourite ornament and you never told me off, to the moments we shared laughter, stories, and a bond that words could never quite capture. Vanessa & me wearing your snake skin & butterfly shoes with your makeup smeared all over our faces, as you dad and Lyn B rolling out of black cabs.

We shared something deeper too. My birthday fell on the date you lost your beloved mum — and somehow from that, a bond between us grew. We’d talk about spiders and laugh, and it became our own special thing, one of those webs that tied us together for life. You still made me feel special on a sad day of remembrance for you.

I remember days out in London when you’d dress me and Vanessa in matching clothes sometimes rah-rah skirts, with Bridie the hairdresser curling our hair so we could go to football club do’s. Horse riding adventures, sneaky cheats with my dad’s barrel, and your booming laughter with him at four in the morning — so loud I would come downstairs to tell you both off.

There were trips to America and France, your girls’ weeks with Wendy, and the sound of you both laughing that always filled every room. I remember your silky short nightdresses, your feather slippers putting bins out , my dad shouting profanities! Your parties that were the best in every way. You always welcomed everyone into your home, told things straight, and somehow always knew how to make me feel special. I’ll never forget when you told me, with a squeeze of my hand, that my Prince Charming would one day come — and that he would be the best of them all. That squeeze of your hand, the look in your eye — it was enough for me to know you were always there; and there for me, Sarah and my dad you were.

So many funny stories, too many to ever count. Auntie Glad, Nanny Joan, the poodles at the caravan, the chaos, the laughter — all of it, stitched together like the best comedy show, only it was real life with you. And of course, you smoking like a trooper, vodka in hand, rolling your eyes with long pauses in speech. Telling it exactly how it was, with little tweaks to entertain.

Dinner parties in your Beckton flat, giggling and laughing into the early hours. Getting grandad billy drunk one Christmas morning, him setting light to the kitchen table cloth, to sharing turkey when ours fell fail- I never quite managed to stay awake as long as you, Vanessa, Sarah or Ange during your all-nighters watching the Oscars. I’ll never forget St George’s days, or your lesson that nothing should ever be second-class — always standards. And I’ll never forget the way you laughed without caring what anyone thought, the way you loved us so deeply, and how precious that love always was. From Millwall to Walworth Road - to one for the road.

Auntie Lin, you leave behind not just memories, but a way of living — with laughter, with love, with honesty, and with open arms for everyone. Your stories, your spirit, and your joy live on in all of us.
That was you, Lin — strong, straight-talking, and full of life.

I want you to know how much I loved you too. Always. I can only imagine the party in heaven … “Our Katie” xxx

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