Stephen & Denise Edkins
Ray Clare
There are no words to describe the grief and pain at the loss of such a wonderful person as Ray Clare.
We first met Ray through Folk Music at the various Folk Clubs and sessions held in and around Tamworth. Indeed Ray became a strong member of the Committee at Tamworth Folk Club and served as Secretary. He was also heavily involved with the running of Tamworth Folk Moot.
However, our deeper and more lasting friendship with Ray was through Rambling, Walking and Hiking. The Tuesday night walks from various local Hostelries became an institution and although we were all supposed to take it in turns to organise the walks, it was invariably Ray who sorted out the walks, the pubs and got the info’ circulated to everyone.
Then of course there were the annual trips to Ireland. Ray aided and abetted by John Donaldson would decide on the locations and the various walks and excursions and of course the pubs in the evening for our music sessions (where Ray’s spoon playing became legend). We particularly enjoyed these Irish trips because the only decision we had to make was what to put on our plates in the evening! Ray thought of everything else.
There were quite a few of Ray’s sayings that we recall with fondness from these walking groups:
“The hardest part of these walks is finding your way off the Car Park.”
“You’ll have done most of the climbing when you get to the top.”
“Don’t be putting all of yer weight on yer feet.”
Ray’s sense of fun always shone through and we remember the time on one of these Irish trips when Ray said: “Look at that giant Frog”.
He was referring to the shape of the Mountain.
The Irish called the shape: “The Sleeping Soldier”.
In recent years, Ray had been most helpful to us acting as Driver and Support on some of our long-distance cycle trips. Notably: “Coast to Coast (Way of the Roses)” and “Devon Coast to Coast”. At various points on these routes, we’d turn a corner and there would be Ray, on the side of the road, parked up with the kettle on and a most welcome brew.
Ray was still his positive and joyous self the last time we saw him when we went to visit him at George Eliot Hospital. He was smiling through the pain but still enjoying the craic and having a good old chin wag with us.
We’re so sorry we can’t be with you today to celebrate the life of Ray Clare and our thoughts go out to all his Family and Friends who, like us, will forever mourn Ray’s passing. We will raise a glass (or several) to him later today.
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