Raymond Parks (8 Aug 1948 - 2 Jan 2024)

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Location
Basildon Crematorium Church Road Basildon SS13 2HG
Date
7th Feb 2024
Time
12.30pm
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In loving memory of Raymond Douglas Parks who sadly passed away on 2nd January 2024 after a 2nd long and painful battle with cancer. Raymond was looked after and lovingly cared for by the wonderful staff of Fair Havens Hospice for 10 days until his passing.

As we are sure most of you will know, Raymond was very fond of a joke or windup that we probably all have happy memories of to treasure. These will keep his memory alive, and no doubt make us smile and laugh during this difficult time. With this in mind we will never forget his time at Fair Havens Hospice where in his last few days despite being unable to speak and in a very frail state, he still had time to joke with the nurses and carers, even making them dance with him whilst trying to return him to bed!

We will be forever grateful to those who cared for Raymond in his last days making his passing more comfortable with his family by his side.

To help Fair Havens continue their remarkable work for others in the future we would much appreciate it if you would generously make a donation in Raymond's name via the link on this page. Thank you.

Fair Havens wrote

Today, our thoughts are with Raymond's family and friends.
May his funeral bring a sense of peace to all those who miss him.
Sending strength & comfort

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Jennifer Parks donated in memory of Raymond

We will miss you so much Uncle Raymond!
Thank you to Haven Hospice for making Raymond’s last days comfortable.
Love Gillian, Jennifer, John, Blake and Bryce xxxxx

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Kathy and Graham Elson donated in memory of Raymond

Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

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Dave Rose donated £30 in memory of Raymond

I will always have fond memories of Ray and loved his sense of humour.
All of us in the Rose family send our love and condolences

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Margaret and Bill Briggs donated in memory of Raymond

Thinking of you at this sad time

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Michelle Durham donated £42.74 in memory of Raymond
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Avril Harwood donated in memory of Raymond

Ray. Such a lovely Brother-in-Law and Uncle. We will miss you, your kindness, wit and leg pulling. A gentle man and a gentleman. Rest In Peace. The Harwood and Mann Families xx

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Sonia , Nicola & Scott Farmer/Plant donated in memory of Raymond

Dear Ray, my brother in law, I will always be grateful for the help he gave me over the years. From my family and I he will stay in our thoughts and hearts always. X

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Joanna Smith donated £30 in memory of Raymond

Sending so much love to you all. X

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Norman Crampton donated £50 in memory of Raymond

Ray: A truly valued friend with whom I have shared countless happy memories.

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Brenda Morgan donated in memory of Raymond

My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time

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lesley and donated £20 in memory of Raymond

When I was first promoted to Telex Ray was my Senior Manager he helped me to adjust to a managerial role and yes he could have a dry sense of humour. It was a pleasure to have known him.
RIP Ray

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Terri Crampton donated in memory of Raymond

So many years of fantastic friendship!

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Ed Chatelier wrote

I worked for Ray in Product Development in Telex in 1990s.First time I met him he was doing a crossword in his office. The difficult one.
He was a Excellent Boss ,astute,clever. If I had one word to describe to him it would be Integrity. My group was in a political charged area in BT so he needed that quality.
He laid the foundations for the success of SecureStream 300 and Telex Refile.( Earned millions for BT).
Rest in Peace Ray.

Ed

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Jas Bassan donated £10 in memory of Raymond

With love BASSAN family

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Chris Shortall donated £50 in memory of Raymond

One of the kindest cleverest people I've had the privilege to meet. RIP Ray

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Danny Stephenson donated £20 in memory of Raymond

From Danny, Ruby and Rex..

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John and Chris Harrison donated £25 in memory of Raymond

I worked with Ray in the same Department at BT and he was a truly nice and honest man and he will be sadly missed.
Chris and I met up with Ray and Meryl over coffee where it was great to have a chat.
We send our condolences to Meryl and his family and our thoughts are with you all.
Raymond will be sadly missed by all that knew him.

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John and Chris Harrison wrote

I worked with Ray in the same Department at BT and he was truly a nice man and will be sadly missed.
Chris and I met up with Ray and Meryl over coffee where it was always great to have a chat.
We send our condolences to Meryl and his family and our thoughts are with you all.
Raymond will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

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Pauline Durham donated £30 in memory of Raymond

Sadly missed. Such a gentleman.

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Lee Smith donated £25 in memory of Raymond

Sending condolences to family and friends. Fond memories of him from the jubilee. Thinking of you all.

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Barry Case donated in memory of Raymond

Sympathy and condolences to all

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Allan Renton donated £30 in memory of Raymond
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Allan Renton wrote

I worked in Ray's team for a number of years before he retired, also way back in the 70's I worked in Ray's team doing Factory Acceptance Testing at Plessey's factory in Poole. There were at least 6 guys on this project and we all stayed at a hotel in Bournemouth called the Durley Dean. This hotel was something out of the 20's but the food was superb. The evening meal was very much "dress for Dinner" not black tie but smart ! Ray being Ray choose not to conform, the rest of us did and enjoyed the food. One evening early on, Ray had been for a walk in his trusty Parka, and on his return decided to join his team in the restaurant, before he made our table, he was intercepted by the restaurant manager and frogmarched out of the restaurant, much to the amusement of his team. I can still visualise the indignation on his face. For once Ray was on the receiving end, good times, not many like Ray, R.I.P

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