Terry Sexton (12 Sep 1938 - 13 Jan 2023)

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Location
St Peter & The Guardian Angels 72 Paradise Street Bermondsey SE16 4QD
Date
8th Feb 2023
Time
10am
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Hither Green Cemetery Verdant Lane Catford SE6 1TP
Date
8th Feb 2023
Time
11.30am

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Moby Dick Pub 6 Russell Place London SE16 7PL
Date
8th Feb 2023
Time
12.30pm

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We lost our lovely Dad Terry on 13th January 2023.
Such a vibrant character who was so full of fun, it was tough seeing Dad's struggle with health in his final years. We are so proud of the determination, strength and courage he showed.

Born in Dagenham, Essex on 12th September 1938 to Bill and Bella, he grew up with his 2 older sisters Mary and Theresa, and 3 younger brothers Micky, Teddy and Tony. The family moved to London when Dad was 13 and South East London continued to be home until he passed away, aged 84.

He completed his National Service with the RAF and then worked in insurance and finance, until retiring at 75.

Dad married our Mum Maureen on 23rd February 1963 and they went on to become the proud and loving parents of 5 daughters, Maria, Ann, Julie, Sally and Jill.

Our Dad meant so much to us, and together with his 12 grandchildren, 8 great grandchildren, son in-laws and wider family members, we will miss him dearly.

The At Home Palliative Care Team from Guys and St Thomas’ were so amazing in Dad’s final weeks and enabled him to fulfil his wish of staying at home to the very end. For this reason we as a family are asking that instead of floral tributes, donations be made to support the work of this wonderful team. Contributions may be made at the funeral or via a link to the Just Giving Page.

https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/terrysexton-memorial?utm_term=XzRAeN68y

Finally, Dad was always adamant that his funeral should be a celebration and not a morbid affair. For that reason, there is no obligation to wear black unless you so wish.

Thank you to those of you reading this as you will have all touched Dad’s life in some way - be it directly or through your links to us, his daughters. We know that Dad will appreciate your thoughts and prayers and will be smiling down at all of us, with Mum by his side.

Looking forward to seeing those of you who can join us on 8th February.

Tel’s Girls

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Suzan Crawley wrote

To Jill and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time. So sorry to hear about lovely Terry.

Barry and I always enjoyed chatting to him, as he had a wicked sense of humour and we enjoyed discussing holidays especially the South of France and food and wine.

He is with his beloved Maureen now and she’s taking care of him x

God bless Terry and his family x
May he rest in peace.. 💙❤️

The Crawley Family xx

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  • Thank you Sue, You are all in our thoughts and prayers too. Barry was the loveliest man. I never told Dad before he went about Barry as he would have been so upset. I’m hoping seeing him again up there would be a pleasant surprise for them both, although heart breaking for us. I’m sure they will light candle, have a glass of wine and be smiling down on us all. Xx

    Posted by Jill on 14/02/2023 Report abuse
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Paul Hands wrote

I am very sorry to hear the news of terry passing he was a brilliant man, who had a good sense of humour and he was a good friend and I miss the good times, also terry was a brilliant father to his children, I will miss him,, I will pray for terry and his family

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Joan Kerwick wrote

One of the nicest men I have ever met and I will always remember the great times and parties we had Beth in the Catholic club and Terry’s home, I will never forget the millennium party party there, we still talk about it all the time, rip Terry and say hi to Maureen xx

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Jimmy Delee wrote

The nicest kindest man you are ever likely to meet, had some the best times with Terry, a proper father figure to anyone,As for Maureen broke the mould when he made her,love them both xx

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Pat Judges wrote

It was a shock to find Terrys obituary on this page….I was sending a message to my dear cousin Sheila who died Christmas Day. Both Ed and I send our deepest sympathy we were neighbours for 40years to Terry Maureen and lovely girls, God Bless you all from Pat Eddy &familyxxxx

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  • Thank you Pat, sending you Ed and Martin our love x

    Posted by Jill on 2/02/2023 Report abuse
  • As Dad would have said...God works in mysterious ways! Mum and dad really valued you as friends and neighbours. Regards Julie (in NZ)

    Posted by Julie on 6/02/2023 Report abuse
  • Thankyou Julie I have happy memories of our friendship with Maureen Terry and all the family in Alloa Road God Bless you all. Terry always used to say I have lit a candle for you…..today I will light one for him…Patx

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Luc and Els wrote

A last word my friend ,
When heaven is what you always hoped for, Maureen is waiting for you.
You always called us a virus because you could never get rid off us, so when it is our time we will look for you again.
Thanks for everything.
All our love to you and Maureen.
See you later
Luc & Els

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  • Thank you for your message. He loved you both so very much and treasured your friendship. You shared so many wonderful times together. I'm sure he will be waiting for you with a wine in his hand x Julie

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Diego Salazar wrote

I was incredibly lucky as I had the opportunity to live in Alloa road with Terry and Maureen for more than a year back in 2004. During my time there I spent countless evenings with both of them talking about history, politics, family and overall the humbling stories that both of them had to share about their lives. I will never forget the delicious Sunday Roasts that both of them prepared for sometimes an enormous amount of people.
Their hearts were so generous and full of love that their house (or “La Casa Loca”) as Terry used to call it, was a place where the good energy was constant and everyone felt blessed to be there.
I never saw them as just my “host family”, from the very first day I saw them as my adoptive parents in London and overall as my friends. Terry even attended my wedding where only family and close friends were invited.
Terry and Maureen will always be in a very special place in my heart. May Terry rest in peace and may he bring some good vibes in heaven where he will definitely be happy with her beloved Maureen.

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  • Thank you for your beautiful words and sharing your memories and photos.

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Andrew Bodle wrote

So sorry to hear of Terrys passing away had the pleasure of meeting him a few times in Portugal.My thoughts are with all the family and send condolences
Take Care
Andrew

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Mike Sweeney wrote

So sorry to hear about Terry’s passing. My Mum, Una is currently suffering from mild dementia but I will share the sad news with her as they used to be friends through the St. Gertrude’s network in Bermondsey, (choir / guitar playing etc). The Sweeney family with pray for comfort, strength and support to the Sexton family at this very sad time. May Terry’s soul rest in peace. Love, Mike

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  • Thanks for your message and pass all of our love to your mum. X

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Angie Scullion wrote

Dear Tel's girls! Your dad was a great man, full of mischievous fun! And still had a full head of hair! His devotion to your families as a dad and grandad will be forever engraved on all your hearts. You've been very blessed to have had this wonderful man in all your lives. He was a great character and will be missed by everyone who knew him! Sal, Seany and Kei-Kei-dee, we will always be here for you to share your memories of your beloved dad/grandad. Love you Ang, John, Frankie, Poppy, Liam and Mary. Xxx

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  • Thank you for the heart felt message. Sally told me you are coming up for tge funeral. That is so appreciated and you will be a great support for Sally, Sean and Kiera. Safe travels. Julie

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John & Eileen Malloy wrote

For Ann and your whole family, Deep sympathy for your loss.

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