Alan Obee (10 Jan 1953 - 24 Dec 2022)
Donate in memory of
AlanOakhaven Hospice Trust
Donate in memory of
AlanCancer Research UK
Funeral Director
- Location
- The New Forest Hotel Lyndhurst Road Ashurst SO40 7AA
- Date
- 18th Jan 2023
- Time
- 3.30pm
In loving memory of Alan Obee who sadly passed away on 24th December 2022.
On Christmas Eve I lost Alan, my husband of 40 plus years to cancer. He was my best friend, fantastic Dad to four wonderful children, a real family man. He was a dedicated football fan, always loyal to Saints and a season ticket holder for many many years. Alan also loved our holidays, both abroad to the Caribbean and Europe. Dog holidays in Cornwall were also a firm winter favourite. At home he was amazingly patient, long-suffering & caring with all the animals I have inflicted on him over the years. None of which he initially wanted, but ultimately loved them as much as I did. He was the kindest person I have known and I will miss him every day for the rest of my life.
Judy xx
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Fly High Daddy-O/Grandaddy-O xxxx
Thinking and missing you on your 73rd Birthday Dad. We will raise a glass to you and light candles, whilst thinking of you. Love and miss you always xxxxxxxxxzx
Thanks Alex on serving the birthday drinks. la cuenta, la cuenta, zee bill xxxx
Thinking of you and missing b you always Dad. Merry Christmas. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thinking about you today Dad, can’t believe it’s 3 years to the day that you last spoke to us. We still speak to and of you daily. I hope you hear our words. Love and miss you always ❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙💙❤️❤️❤️
Wish you were here Dad/Grandad ❤️ xxxx
Came to visit your 🦋 today Dad. Love and Miss you always ❤️ xx
Happy Fathers Day Dad. ♥️♥️XXXXXXXXXXXXX♥️♥️
Doesn’t need to be Father’s Day for me to realise how much I miss you. 💔 Happy Fathers Day Dad.
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Thinking and dreaming of happier days. Love and miss you both 💛 💙 xx
Wishing Nanny a Happy Heavenly 97th Birthday. Hope that you're up there having a nice coffee and cake with her xxxx
Hopefully you’re up there having a pint together today for Grandads 💯 Birthday. 🍻
3 Years Ago today already. Thank you for being there dad and for making such a big effort to be there until the end of the night when I know you weren’t feeling your best ❤️ 💙
Thinking of my lovely mum and dad today. 43 years since Superman married you ❤️ 💔 Happy Anniversary xxxx
Married 43 years ago today 💔💔
Happy 43rd Wedding Anniversary Dad. ♥️♥️
Today we should all be celebrating your 72nd birthday with you. We will still celebrate your life & raise a glass, laugh & reminisce about your life. But never a day goes by that we don’t miss you xxxxx
Happy Birthday Dad. We love, miss you & think about you & love & miss you every day. We will be raising a glass to you tonight. Hopefully you’re having your own party in the sky having a drink with Nanny, Grandad Ken & One Grandad xxxxxxxx
Happy 72nd birthday Dad, love and miss you always. ♥️♥️🎂🎂♥️♥️ XXXXXXXXXX
Thinking of you as we enter a new year dad 💔
Raising a glass for you dad 🍷 you were and still are my hero. Love and miss you every day 💙
Carrying this with me everywhere Dad 💙
Eating your favourite 🇨🇳 and thinking of you - another thing you taught me well xxx
We lit a candle for you today dad at Our Lady of St Alphege where I have such a fond memory with you just 8 months before you left us. I love and miss you every day. 💙
Love and miss you so much Dad, Merry Christmas. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️XXXXXXXX
Hello Great Grandad, lots of love from Priscilla. XXXXXXXXXXX
I love and miss you every day but today should be about you. It is about you, but you’re just not here for me to make it about you. You’re always in my thoughts and forever in my heart. Happy Fathers Day Dad, miss you xxxx
Happy Fathers Day Dad, love and miss you so much. ♥️♥️♥️♥️XXXX♥️♥️♥️♥️
Still looking up at you all the time Daddio. Forever in my ❤️ xxxx
Off to Wembley today Dad. Will be thinking of you and Grandad whilst there. Look down on us and bring us some luck. Grandads headstone had some 🦅 💩 on it yesterday. They say that’s lucky 🍀 🤞 I was ok to wipe it off before the game 😧
Thinking of you on your wedding anniversary. I only see one superman in this photo and it’s not the guy with the red cape. 🥰
Love and miss you always Dad. ❤️❤️XXXX
Happy 71st Birthday Dad, love and miss you. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Missing you today and every day xxxxx
We think about you, love and miss you every day Dad, but no doubt that today on your birthday we will feel that even more. Toasting to you dad ❤️ 🍻xxxx
With me always Dad ❤️ Xxxx
Merry Christmas Dad, love and miss you every day and now you’re with me every step of the way xxxx
Merry Christmas Dad, we’ve tried to keep spirits high. Miss and love you every day and now you’re with me every step of the way xxxx
One year since we last spoke Dad, little did I know that that would be the last time I’d ever get to speak to you. I miss you so much, and feel like a part of me is gone with you. We all love and miss you Daddy-O. 💔 Sleep tight Dad 😘
Your wife and your dog (your mum and your sister Holly) thinking about you every day, especially when they’re away and you should be with them 💔 xx
Together again 💕💕
So today Dad I’m doing proper Daddy things with this little monkey that I know you always loved and did grandad things ❤️ I have adopted Kayah today Dad, so she’s now officially an Obee. She loves and misses her grandad Obee 💔
Miss you everyday Dad. What I wouldn’t give for a chat and a hug 💔 xx
Top of the league dad 👌🏻 xxx
I lit a candle for you every night in a beautiful place, which you would have loved xxx
Have a Happy Fathers Day with this legend too xxxxx
I hope that those who are no longer with us from this photo are all reunited with you dad. xxxx
I know mum will be thinking of you on Fathers Day too daddio. We all love and miss you xxx
Thinking of you always. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loves you so much Dad. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Happy Fathers Day Dad, we all love and miss you so much. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
To the best Dad ever, I shall be thinking of you and missing you today. Love you Daddio Nickyboy 💕 xxxx
Cornish candle burning bright for you every evening 💕💕💕
Sausage anyone 💕💕
Oh dad, a year on we sobbed and sobbed when we read your lovely message written on our wedding day to be opened on our first anniversary. Love you Daddio 💔
Another big day passes - Matt and Hayley successfully completed the London Marathan and I know you’d be so proud of them, and it’s one year to the day since this photo was taken. I am so so glad we got to have you with us that day. Love you dad 💕
Love this happy photo of the Obee Saints crew ❤️❤️
….. just chatting to a seagull 💙💙
Would have been 41 years today xxxx
Happy 41st Wedding Anniversary Dad, we all love and miss you so much. ❤️❤️❤️XXXXX
The Cornwall Candle has been transported down to Crantock. Lit & toasted with a glass of the very best red ❤️❤️
This is our Cornish Candle, next week I will take it back with me and light it every night & drink a toast to you & all the amazing memories we have. So bitter sweet, but I will carry on especially for you xxx
Liverpool trip xxx
One man & his surfboard 😂 xxxx
Miss you everyday ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Two months with life going on without you in it. We all miss you so much & the life that you could have been leading xxx
Love you xxxx
Miss you today & everyday ♥️♥️♥️
When Alan cooked me a bacon butty on the beach at Crantock, as a wedding anniversary treat 💕
Missing you dad xxxx
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❤️We all love and miss you so much Dad. ❤️
We all miss you lots ♥️♥️♥️
❤️❤️❤️❤️See you soon Dad. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My dearest dad. Today will be our hardest goodbye 💔 always in my heart, love lulu xxxxx
To the most wonderful Dad and Grandad we could ever have hoped for. Thank you for everything you have ever done for me and for us. We love you and will miss you every day. Until we meet again Dad/Grandad 💔 Love Nick, Debra, Kayah & Joshua xxxx
❤️❤️❤️ The BEST Dad ever. ❤️❤️❤️

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