Shirley McFadyen (20 May 1950 - 20 Sep 2015)

Cant believe it has been 5yrs since I last saw you, hugged you. I miss you so much mum, you have left such a huge void in our family. Nothing is the same without you here. Fortunately, because of you & the way you raised us, we are all still really close & all the boys too. Hope you have enjoyed meeting your great-grandson, he is absolutely gorgeous. Cant believe I am a nan, now I understand what you used to say about a different kind of love.
Love you millions mum
Jo xxxxx

4 years, how is this right. I have missed you every minute of every day mum, i still hold your hand every night when I go to sleep x I cannot actually believe I am finally a qualified nurse. I know you have been with me every step of the way. Shirl's girls are still as close as ever you have done a good job there mama and grans cherubs are coming along nicely. so many changes happening right now for us all which i am sure you are aware of. would love to get a message mum. Tomorrow will be spent celebrating your life as you would want it. But you have left behind so many broken hearts xx watch over us mama xxx

sat reflecting as i do every day x so much has changed and i would give anything to hold you to hear your voice and to see you smile xx love and miss you more each day xx

happy mothers day to the most precious mum in my world and the next xx not a minute passes me by that you are not in my thoughts. My heart is still heavy but I beam with pride that I had you in my life xx forever I will miss you xx

Well today went well but you will know that as u were with me xx all is good and I feel good about things. all set for Monday so keep yourself free xx Love and miss you so very much xx Here's to 2019 Mama "If you stay by my side we can rule the world" xxx

Dear mum, another new year without you. I know you were with us all tonight, how can you not be, when your face is every room.
Your absence is still so strong & I don't think that will ever change. Love you millions mum & miss you loads
Love Jo xxx

Hi Mama xx Missing you so much at Christmas time and every minute of every day. you will forever be the missing piece of my heart. You have opened so many doors for me which I am forever grateful. yet I would give it all up tomorrow if you could open a door and walk right through it back into our lives. forever shirls girls will be broken xxx Love you more Mama xx Merry Christmas My Angel

Dear mum, missing you so much today. Your favourite day of the year. My dinner table has never been so small. Your absence is huge this time of year. Xmas has no meaning anymore, kids are grown up, your not here & i am so lonely. Your not supposed to cry on Xmas day, but I just can't stop.
Love you millions mum, hope your having a lovely day with all the family up there.
Jo xxxx

Hi mum,
Can't believe it is 3yrs since I hugged you or kissed you.
Miss you everyday ...... No change there.
Think about you all the time, talk to you all the time.
It is so hard to live without you in our lives, don't think we will ever get used to it. Every day is just another day without you.
Love you millions mum xxx

Miss you every minuite of every day Mum xxx

here we are 3 years later and nothing has got any easier yet so much has changed in my life xx i think about u every minute of every day mum and still block out the fact that your are no longer her to see to touch to smell. i will never stop loving you and i will miss u forever xxx please watch over us all and keep us safe from harm xxx

Happy heavenly birthday my beautiful Mama xx i miss you with every beat if my heart xx i hope you are enjoying this new chapter in your life and thank u for helping ne live my dream xx your walking every step with me xxx forever and always xx

just heard that me dad is up there with you xxx can u believe it ?? omg tell him im not happy noone told us. how rude xx anyway 2 yrs for auntie rosa today hope shes settled in ok. missing u like crazy mum cant believe how much our lives have changed since u left us xxx