Tom Chapman (14 Apr 1988 - 5 Nov 2021)

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TomForest Holme Hospice Charity

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Location
Bournemouth Crematorium Strouden Avenue Bournemouth BH8 9HX
Date
29th Nov 2021
Time
11am
Funeral Director
Nicholas O’Hara Funeral Directors Ltd, Wimborne

In loving memory of Tom Chapman who sadly passed away on 5th November 2021. A beloved husband and soul mate to Jodie, son to Peter and Geraldine and brother to Becky and Sarah. A much loved uncle, cousin and friend to so many.

Everyone is welcome to come and remember Tom who has left a massive hole in all of our lives but has also given us so many happy, precious memories. He was a bright, happy, hilarious person, so to reflect that, please wear something colourful rather than black.

Donations to Forest Holme Hospice Charity rather than flowers please. Forest Holme were absolutely amazing in their care for Tom and the rest of the family, so any donations will help to enable them to continue their excellent care to others in need.

We would love to hear your memories, so if anyone would like to leave a message, please do.

Katie Jump donated £20 in memory of Tom

Thinking of you all x

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Richard & Martine Boyt donated £50 in memory of Tom
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Chris (Gilby) Lyne donated £20 in memory of Tom
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Allan Pickering donated £30 in memory of Tom
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Richard Futcher donated £20 in memory of Tom
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Bryony Solan donated £20 in memory of Tom
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Godfrey & Janet Everson-Davis donated £40 in memory of Tom
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Chris & Gill Sharland donated £20 in memory of Tom
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Mathew Rogers is attending the funeral
Margaret (& Sharon) Viney donated £50 in memory of Tom

In Memory of Tom

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Lisa Cooper donated £150 in memory of Tom

Thinking of you all at this very sad time. With love from your friends at Muscliff Primary School, xx

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James Edwards, family and Karen Edwards donated £200 in memory of Tom
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Ben Duly donated £40 in memory of Tom
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Jon Trembath donated £30 in memory of Tom
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Sarah Dallyn donated in memory of Tom

To my brother…you are the light of all our lives my love. You taught me to be silly, to have fun, to joke, to enjoy life. I will continue to ‘be more Tom’ in all that I do.
I will forever cherish our memories from when we were young right up to our last weeks together. Us playing in the garden on the water slide; exploring the woods on the golf course daring each other, with Becky, who can make it all the way across the fairway; playing tennis over the house; scrubbing your bum cheeks after you drew on them just like Bart Simpson did (but using marker pen!!); playing with the Playmobil Cowboys and Indians; playing with the Brio train set; wrestling in the hallway; doing ‘acro’; cycling like crazy down the hills on the Heath over all those tree roots; laying with you until you fell asleep; zipping you in a suitcase; us playing James Bond on your PlayStation until so late at night that we couldn’t then fall asleep as we were so wired; our weird nicknames for each other (in fact I heard ‘Zinedine Zidane’s’ name on the news the other day and laughed!); us quoting all our favourite films word perfect-Home Alone, The Goonies, Ace Ventura, Dumb and Dumber, Forrest Gump…Friends, (there is always a quote from one of these for every life experience….we continue to do this Tom…Phoebe and Leo have them down to a fine art); us discussing our dinners…what’s everyone got for tea tonight?; you taking the p over my total lack of tech knowledge (Becky is guiding me through how to upload this and donate as I type); bringing Pringles and Pick and Mix to you just a few weeks ago and telling me, ‘you nailed it!’; you always saying, ‘love you’ and asking how we all are…
Phoebe and Leo miss their Uncle…they loved your ‘naughty boy’ stories and we will still talk about them! You carry on through your nieces and nephews who are smaller versions of you! I think because we are all so close and so bonkers, this has rubbed off on our kids! We all sing at the tops of our voices, make silly faces and noises, crack jokes, burp and fart….and laugh so ruddy hard and just have so much fun! I love how silly we are as a family, how fabulous our family is. I hold this so dear in my heart. You are everywhere and when I think of you I feel blessed and so forever thankful that I pause for a moment, feel such warmth in my heart and smile. Thank you for my smile.
All my love always my Angel, your sister Sarah xxxxx
PS….could I BE more proud of you Tom…
PPS…pullover…no it’s a cardigan but thank for noticing…
PPPS…hey you guys!
PPPPPS…alrighty then…..
PPPPPPS…mama always said, ‘life is like a box of chocolates… xxxxx
Love from Sarah, Neil, Phoebe and Leo xxxxx

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Becky Chapman donated in memory of Tom

My little brother, always. I miss you so much. Your silliness,the emoji videos, singing at the top of your voice. Bants about football and us both ganging up and taking the p out of Dad. My partner in crime. What a massive hole you have left in our lives. So proud of you and privileged to have been with you those last few days. I’m sorry I couldn’t fix it 😢
As you said to me, in my last text message from you.
Love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

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Our beautiful, funny, brave cousin, we’ll miss you so much. Lisa and Kate xx

Our beautiful, funny, brave cousin, we’ll miss you so much. Lisa and Kate xx

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JOHN AND KAY BEASHEL donated £40 in memory of Tom
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Nina Manning donated £20 in memory of Tom
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Nina Manning wrote

I have spent so many days and nights with Sarah and Geraldine and they would speak of Tom often. I met him a few times and thought him a fine young man. Our families have always been a part of our narrative as a group and I hope to continue to hear many more tales of Tom as I give my support to Sarah and Geraldine through the next phase. I love you girls. X x x x x

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Patrick Willis donated £40 in memory of Tom

Tom. You were as impressive in life as you were on the golf course. An all round decent fellow who was self evidently much loved and respected. Your legacy is assured. Sleep well matey.

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Wendy & Robert Wood wrote

Tom stayed with us on the eve of Paul & Becky's wedding, he was a very polite and charming young man.
We were very sadden to hear of the loss of Tom, out thoughts are with Geraldine, Peter, family and friends at this very sad time. Wendy & Robert Wood

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Wendy & Robert Wood donated £40 in memory of Tom

Tom stayed at our house on the eve of Paul's wedding, found him to be very polite and charming young man.
We are both very sadden with your passing, our thoughts are with your family and friends.
Rest in peace Tom

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Ian Palmer donated £30 in memory of Tom

Thanks for the Vegas memories mate!

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