Christopher John Oakes (13 Aug 1955 - 25 Jun 2015)

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27th Jul 2015
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In loving memory of Christopher John Oakes who sadly passed away on 25th June 2015.

Oakes was in the vanguard of the rise of British chefs in the 1980s when he was appointed head chef at the Castle hotel in Taunton, Somerset. The hotel won a Michelin star in 1984 – one of only 14 UK hotel restaurants outside London to hold the accolade at the time.

Kit Chapman, director of the Castle, said Oakes put the hotel on the gastronomic map. He worked at the hotel from 1983 until 1986, when he was replaced by Gary Rhodes.

“Chris was a very quiet, modest man,” said Chapman. “He arrived at the hotel as sous chef and when the head chef suddenly left, I offered him the top job. He initially refused to take the position as he didn’t believe he had the ability, but he was a wonderfully careful, highly competent and skilled cook.”

Born and brought up in Hollesley, Suffolk, Oakes lived above the pub his parents ran in the village. He was an average pupil at school, but showed early promise as a cook when he came top of the class for making, icing and decorating a Christmas cake.

On leaving school, Oakes initially took any job he could to help support his recently widowed mother. After a time working on building sites and delivering milk, he joined Seckford Hall, a country house hotel in Woodbridge as an apprentice in the kitchen. Oakes later moved on to work for Gerald Milsom at Le Talbooth, near Dedham, and the Pier at Harwich. The seven-year experience of working for Milsom gave him the confidence to move further afield, which was when he joined the Castle.

Upon leaving the Castle, Oakes went on to open his own restaurant, Oakes in Stroud, Gloucestershire. In his book Great British Chefs, Chapman wrote at this time: “Oakes’s themes in the kitchen reflect the down-to-earth honesty, single mindedness and restraint of his temperament. He does not like fuss. His preference is for clean, bold flavours and simply-matched textures prepared and arranged in the modern idiom without any contrived prettiness.”

Oakes eventually sold up in 1995 when the recession of the early 1990s took its toll. At the time, he told The Caterer that it was impossible for him to start making cheaper meals that became the vogue as Michelin-star standard cooking was "the only way I know how to cook".

Other highlights of Oakes' culinary career included spells at Claridge's, and the Stafford hotel, and he was also head chef at Cambridge University’s Trinity College for 12 years before retiring March this year.

Chris leaves behind his loving wife Yolande, stepsons William and Lewis and grandson 'Timmy' whom he loved very dearly. He will be watching over them always.

Tony Cameron wrote

I first met Chris many years ago when he was Head Chef at the the Castle in Taunton after hearing about him on the chef's grapevine, he was a very accomplished cook and after my lunch we started chatting and discovered we had several mutual friends in the kitchens of London. After chatting for ages Chris got up and said he ought to get back to the kitchen as Dinner service was due to start.
We met only occasionally over the years but when he came back to London to work at the Stafford we met up again as if the time hadn't passed. I remember he did a fantastic dinner for the League of Club Chefs and became friends with several of the chefs who attended. Sadly his stay in London was short lived but it became Trinty Colleges gain and I was pleased to hear from him after a while that he'd remarried and was extremely happy !!! I was lucky to meet Yolande and Chris for a drink in town and I kept promising that I'd get up to see them in Cambridge, my biggest regret is we didn't get to do that.....
I will remember Chris like everyone else in our industry as firstly and foremost a true gentleman and a great cook, RIP.

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it is so hard for us to express our sadness at the loss of our dear friend Chris He has been so prominent in both our lives he has been our boss, our friend, mentor and a father figure at different stages. We both equally cared so much for this wonderful guy because of his thoughtful, modest, giving, unselfish nature and tireless in his teaching and guidance of others We feel privileged to have had Chris as an influence in our lives, we owe him so much and maybe we didn't tell him enough, not that he would have listened and probably told us to get a grip. but we will Really miss him and it is so wrong that such a good man could be taken from his loved ones so early God Bless you Chris you will always be remembered in our hearts Karen and Ray Xxx

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Yolande Conquest-Oakes wrote

I knew Chris at school, but didn't take much notice of him then. In 1971 After he had left he had turned up at the local village hall on a week night where we would all get together and listen to music, play pool and just generally muck about. It was decided that a group of us would go off to another village on motor bikes and grab a coke at the pub. All the other girl got on the back of different boys bike which had left me with Chris to ride with. I had been seeing a friend of his as you do when your young for about 6-7 months. That finished and I was out with the girls at a dance and was asked by a friend of mine to go and see Chris who was standing at the back of the hall. I didn't know at the time he had wanted to ask me out, but as I had been seeing his best friend he didn't want to step on any ones toes. We got talking and he told me when he had arrived that he almost got into trouble with the local lads as he had very short hair. My friend had rescued him by telling them he was in the army. Which was a lie as he had just started at Seckford Hall as a chef. We carried on talking until the dance was over and he walked me and a few friends to the bus stop to wait for my mum to pick us up. We kissed for the first time in that bus shelter which is there today, you have to drive past it to get to my sister's house. I lived in a very small village with my parent's and Chris would several times a week ride his bike to see me after he had finished work. Being still at school there were times when there was restrictions about the amount to time he was able to stay. Some nights only 10minutes. He would then ride his bike back home only to conk out half way across the heath. He then had to push it the rest of the way home.
I moved closer to where he lived after a while, and he wold come and see me more often. There were some days I would go to his work and wait for him in the staff room. The teasing we would both get. They were happy days and I thought we would be together forever at that time.
After about 2 yrs he said he had been for an interview at Le Talbooth and he was going to work there. In my nativity I thought I would just see him a little less but that was soon knocked on the head. He was working 16-18 hours a day with one day off. I had started college and saw him less than an hour a week. After 3 months Chris told me that it was over. He still loved me but the distance and hours were not making it a great relationship. I was "too gorgeous, that someone would steal me". I disagreed but Chris was determined to succeed in his cooking he said it had to be.
Many years went by and often I would think about what he was up to. I had qualified as a nurse, got married and had 2 sons.
One day I received a message on Genes Reunited. It was from Chris asking me if I remembered him. What could I say. "How do you forget your first love". He told me about his work history which was bloody impressive and that he too had got married but with no children. It was funny in a way. We had both got married the same year. His wife then was pleased he had found someone on the site and was keen to meet me. We spent a few months messaging each other about our lives. I had won 2 tickets to meet and greet Marti Pellow so agreed my friend and I would meet him and his wife at Kings Cross station pub before the show. As soon as I saw Chris the old feels were there again but he seemed very happy with his life.
Again we talked on the phone and messaged each other as friends. I received a call from Chris Easter time 2002 to say that he and his wife were separating (reasons I won't go into). I continued to support Chris from afar as he decided to leave his work and take 6 months out to think. He planned to go to Southwald and throw stones into the water for 6 months. He felt he had neglected his mother and wanted to be close to her again.
We did get together again in 2002. There were some difficulties initially but Chris was determined we were going to get through them. My 2 sons have over a period of time come to admire, trust and love him. I can only say Chris has been my strength, comfort and love. He showed me how taking a positive view on life will make you succeed. I have lost my best friend in the flesh but I will never lose him again in my head, heart or soul.
We will be together again some day, and god help them when we are as we are a might to be forced with.
I love you my hansom husband and will talk to you every day awaiting your response. XXX

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As a supplier I only knew Chris in his capacity as Head Chef at Trinity and having read all the other comments, wish I had quizzed him a lot more about his fascinating life and career! A quiet but good friend who always had time for me and the visitors I brought to see the MKN kitchen equipment. I am sad for Yolande & the families loss and know that Chris will ensure that all "up there" receive great food and hospitality. I raise my glass to you my friend, Sante du Chef!

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