Patricia Olive Oakeshott (23 Jan 1930 - 11 Jan 2021)

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In loving memory of Patricia Olive Oakeshott, who sadly passed away peacefully in her sleep on the 11th of January 2021, aged 90 years.

Born in Oldham, Lancashire, Pat trained as a nurse and spent most of her adult life in North Kent. Following the death of her husband, Pat dedicated herself to the well-being of the citizens of Higham and Gravesend and was appointed Mayor of the Borough of Gravesham in 2007. She worked tirelessly for the good of the community in both her civic duties and her many charitable interests.

Loving wife of Capt. Arthur Oakeshott (deceased), caring mother and grandmother, great-grandmother, and dedicated public servant.

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Emma Bowles wrote

Sending our thoughts to all of Patricia's family and friends at this time.
Patricia was much cheerished volunteer and will be greatly missed.
From all the team at ellenor.

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Pete and Heidi Turner donated £50 in memory of Patricia

With much love, so long a part of our lives

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Lin & Richard Bradbrook donated in memory of Patricia

Remembering a good friend to us, and all the community.

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Chris Stone donated in memory of Patricia

With appreciation and thanks for a life well lived - on behalf of Gravesham Town Twinning Association

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R Jones donated £50 in memory of Patricia

Pat may you Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory

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Rachael Martin (on behalf of Higham Memorial Hall) donated £50 in memory of Patricia

In memory of Mrs Pat Oakeshott who put a lot of her time & energy into supporting the Higham Memorial Hall

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Jeanette Barron donated £20 in memory of Patricia

In loving memory of Pat

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Christine Chapman wrote

An amazing lady who was a great supporter of Girlguiding in Chalk and who inspired so many of us. Love to Vicky, Gail, Mark and their families. xx

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Graham Fisher donated £50 in memory of Patricia
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ELIZABETH JEFFERY donated in memory of Patricia

Pat was one of the founder members of KentARA and HiARA. Higham Active Retirement Association and supported the club in lots of ways including serving up until very recently on the committee. We will miss her a great deal. We send our condolences to her family. Rest in Peace.

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ELIZABETH JEFFERY donated £10 in memory of Patricia

Pat was a dear friend and I often went to her for her wise advice.
My condolences to all her family. May she rest in peace.

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Eileen Perks wrote

Pat was a kind and generous friend of Gravesham & Dartford Phab Club and for lots of other people and charities for many years. The beautiful display of flowers in Chalk Church for our daughter's wedding in 1999 was fantastic and talked about for a long time afterwards. Thank you for so much Pat.

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Paula Baylis wrote

Will miss my travelling companion to Rotary for many years a lovely kind lady

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Daisy O'Hagan wrote

A wonderful generous lady. We will miss you, Pat. Michael and Daisy xx

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Daisy O'Hagan donated £20 in memory of Patricia

RIP Pat

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Paul Sutton wrote

A wonderful Rotarian who lived by the Rotary motto 'Service before self'. She will be missed x

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Paul Sutton donated in memory of Patricia
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Hazel Sheehan donated £100 in memory of Patricia

Ok I make this donation on behalf of the members of the Rotary Club of Strood, in memory of Pat, a dedicated Rotarian who contributed much to both the community and to the fellowship of our club. She will be greatly missed.

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DAVID HURLEY wrote

God Bless, Pat. Rest In Peace.

Thank You for everything that you have done for Gravesham.

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Kay Harris donated in memory of Patricia
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Michael Papadopulos donated £50 in memory of Patricia

A good friend and generous soul.

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Nigel Bourne wrote

Pat arranged flowers at Chalk Church, ran flower festivals and helped with other fund-raising initiatives for us. My sadness to hear the news about her passing is tempered by the fact that her passing was peaceful, that she had reflected on the deep issues of life and faith, and by the knowledge that she achieved so much in her life. She enjoyed life, but she was always trying to find ways to help others. She was a rare person, someone who combined real kindness with a determination and ability to get things done. Pat brought, through her personality and drive, a kind of positivity and sparkle into the lives of many people. She will not be forgotten by any who knew her.

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Gail Cornish wrote

Amazing Mum who touched everyone she met, She taught me everything from elbows off the table to how to serve your community. Time to rest now Mum. Love you always.

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Freeman of the Borough

Freeman of the Borough

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Penny Hilton donated £100 in memory of Patricia

An amazing Aunt who will be greatly missed. Nite n bless x

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