Pam Haswell (7 Dec 1940 - 7 May 2020)
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In loving memory of Pamela Haswell a loving wife , mother and the most supportive and loving MAMA to her only grandson James ....mum sadly passed away on 7th May 2020....
My mum was born to Eva and Douglas Rutter nearly 80 years ago in st. Neots Cambridgeshire.. she spent her teenage years in Brighton ... with very strict parents; she broke most of the rules !! She commuted each day into London to work for perfumery houses In Army and Navy stores and in time became a perfumery buyer. Dad and her met there and married on Putney common in July 1969 , I was born the following July , her only child ; they travelled around due to my dads job and although I was born in Nottingham they soon moved Back to Burgess hill in Sussex .....before they moveD to Twickenham in 1974... Mum always had a love of dogs and horses .and supported their charities regularly...
Mum had such a strong character ,a great supporter to us 3 and always always had a smile on her face and a heart of gold to all who knew her or needed her , she was full of life and full of chat!! ...: ! Sadly for the past six months She had what seemed a regular hospital bed at Kingston hospital ... she came home on 1 st May where we all cared for her until she passed 6 days later ,, she lives on in all Our hearts 💕 never ever forgotten
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Dearest Pam a kind and caring "sister" who will never be forgotten. We have shared holidays together and countless meals out all of which were great times. So this is goodbye until we meet again keep an eye out for Malc, Mum and Dad for me. Love you and will miss you big time. xxxx
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To Alan and Family. Mel and I were devastated at the sad news of Pam passing. Pam was such a kind and welcoming lady. Our Queen of Lynwood Road. I remember when our Daughter was born and we brought her home. Pam was waiting outside to greet our little bundle of joy. She will be missed but never forgotten. All our Love Tony, Mel, Millie and JJ x x
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Very fond memories of Auntie Pam. I will always remember her laugh and her smile and the joy she had on her face when she saw the great nieces and nephews. Dad has his holiday partner in crime with him now. I’m sure they’re already up to some mischief together. xxxx
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Happy memories of lovely weekends away together, love Sheila
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Happy memories of lovely weekends away together, love Sheila Prevett
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Darling Pam, we have such happy memories of times spent together and the fun we had as neighbours. Thank you for all the kindness you have shown us, especially Marianne, over the years. We shall miss you so much. Much love, Rosie & Bob xxx
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A lovely funny caring lady who will be greatly missed by her family and has left wonderful memories for them. RIP Pam x
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Dear Pam, it is with great sadness that we are writing this message.
May came with sad regret
The day, the month, we will never forget,
No longer in our lives to share,
But in our hearts you are always there.
Be at peace, Peter and Sylvia
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Where do I start , Auntie Pam ( as I have always called since I was little) She was the most glamorous person, her hair and make up were always perfect ! When ever you saw her she gave you the tightest cuddle and the biggest kiss on the cheek . I have the fondest memories of our time all together in Poole where we would laughs the whole time and when ever we were together we would always leave with a smile on our faces where we had such a good day .
Myself and wayne were also lucky enough to share the same wedding anniversary with you and Uncle Alan every year without fail you never forgot to send us a card . I will never forgot what a wonderful kind women you were .
Love you always and forever
Sam, wayne, Jodi & Finley xxxx
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Both Bren and I were glad we were able to see and talk with Pam two days before she passed away.
As you know we have been close friends with your family for 50 plus years.What fun and laughs we have had over many meals consumed in that time.
Pam was certainly a charming and lovely lady, who was not properly dressed, until each day she had put on her lippey and other make up.
She certainly will be missed, and our family send you all our love.xx
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Both Bren and I are glad we were able to see and chat with Pam 2 days before she passed away. As you know we have been close friends with your family for over 50 years.What fun and laughs we have had over many meals consumed in that time.Pam certainly was a charming lady, who was not properly dressed until she put her lippey on together with her other make up
All my family send their love, and Pam will certainly be missed. XX
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Some 30 years ago I went for a job interview with Alan at Twickenham and met dear Pam. I did get the job and it also became the start of a long and fantastic friendship with a great family.
Pam you always made me feel so welcome and we certainly always found something to smile and laugh about.
Your homes - Twickenham, Poole and Thames Ditton - became 2nd homes to me with the added great company of Jane, James and Lottie, the latest of several Labradors - your passion. Many happy times !
It has been a pleasure and a privilege dear Pam to have shared your company for such a big part of my life. Thank you so much. I will miss you.
Rest in Peace.
With Love.
Brian xx
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I will miss your glamour, humour and warmth that was always part of your welcome every time I saw you.
So many wonderful and happy memories of Twickenham, Poole and Thames Ditton
I’m so glad we got to say goodbye when I told you I loved you.
RIP darling Pam
Peter and Donna xxx
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Such a beautiful lady inside and out. My deepest condolences go to Alan, Jane James and not forgetting Lottie who will be missing her too.
Heaven has a new beautiful angel with hair and lipstick on point.
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Happy memories of lovely weekends away together, love Sheila
Darling Pam, we have such happy memories of times spent together and the fun we had as neighbours. Thank you for all the kindness you have shown us, especially Marianne, over the years. We shall miss you so much. Much love, Rosie & Bob xxx
A wonderful memory that I will treasure forever. Auntie Pam was such a kind, loving and wonderful person that we all loved very much. She was such a special lady that we were blessed to know xxx
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