Feni (faynie) Lee (11 Dec 1982 - 17 Sep 2017)

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Location
Eltham Crematorium Crown Woods Way London SE9 2NL
Date
12th Oct 2017
Time
3.30pm
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Erith Working Mens Club Valley Road Erith DA8 1BT
Date
12th Oct 2017
Time
4.30pm

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In loving memory of Feni Lee who sadly passed away on 17th September 2017...

Faynie was born with bechettes syndrome this is a very rare blood disorder which affects the immune system which makes it hard to fight infections. Faynie was diagnosed with bechettes when she was 15 after many years of poor health it was a relief to finally no what was wrong with her.
At that time we didnt no just what bechettes was all about as it was so rare most drs had never heard of it being only 1000 known cases of this in the whole world at the time of diagnosis. Faynies life was constant hospital visits including great ormond street moorfields guys st thomas the royal london and many more. Being pulled about by drs wasnt very nice for her but she never complained. We were among the first to do fundraising for the wishing well appeal at gosh where her name remains on the role of honours book for being the 3rd person in this country to have eye laser surgery and the youngest. She was given sight for the first time age 17 months and thats when she really came out of her shell n there was no stopping her if we told faynie to go left she would go rite she never would do as she was told. She was lively as a child i called her my little bird cos thats what she reminded me of MAGPIE couldnt resist anything sparkly n shiney. Faynie leaves 4 children chelsea charlie danny and harry. 18 months ago we were told faynie was in stage 4 of the bechettes this caused her a lot of discomfort n sleepless nights she was suffering everyday and had begun doing things completely out of character for her. In april this year i got a call from qe hospital faynie was on a life support machine she had been sat up in the bed laughing n joking just 30 minutes before, she went down hill fast.we was told 2 hours n it would all be over. We prayed harder than ever and understood what fear meant for the first time in our life. Then by miracle she came through she wasnt the same girl that she had been before. She was suffering once more we were all left traumatised. She went home after 3 wks then that call came again and as before she was back on ventilator this time she didnt wake up the bachettes went through her body so fast and on 17th september she went to sleep for the last time we was all there with her.
Faynies passing has left a void that will never be filled the shock and disbelief is immense we or heartbroken beyond words. This cruel illness has no cure we or asking anyone if you can donate to the bechettes society we can help with the continuos research of this awful thing even if we can make people aware or help at least one person then it wont have been for nothing and we can keep her memory alive. Thank you for taking the time to read this and please do leave a message share a memory and post a picture the memory book will be given to faynies 4 children at a later date god bless you all and thank you for being part of faynies life xxx

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Faynie Lee wrote

Be lifting me bottle of glucose to you at midnight my girl I hope you are making up for all the birthdays you didn't want to celebrate on earth. Where ever you or up there you are happy and no longer suffering. Me n your not so little blonde ppls miss you said rotten. They or all doing OK there content n OK I hope you or proud of em all they've grown so much. The time has gone so quick Bern. Please give grandad a big squeeze from me I miss him so much it's not the same here without me bestie you stay close to him and everything will be OK. That's me done now Bern I'm getting a bit tearful now silly old fker going soft in me old age. Your children or all taller than me except Chelsea me n her or like 2 lil midgets beside the others. Behave ya self up there n drop us a sign so we no your OK. Loads loves n stuff from all of us xxx

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Merry Christmas mum❤️ We miss you like crazy. We hope your proud of us and looking after grandad up there❤️💙 we love you with all our hearts and hope your having a ball up there. All our love Chelsea❤️ Charlie❤️ Danny💙 and Harry💙 xx

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Hope you liked the flowers and the xmas basket xxx

Hope you liked the flowers and the xmas basket xxx

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I just had to send you this and believe me bern i can hear your laugh xxx

I just had to send you this and believe me bern i can hear your laugh xxx

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All my love mum xxx

All my love mum xxx

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I hope your ok up there mum😘
We miss you so much everyday, I hope you are proud of us🥰 we love you to heaven and back❤️

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Genty Lee wrote

Another birthday gone by wish u were here chewing our earholes and exaggerating ur tall tales! We all miss u so bloody much Stevie still dont let no one sit in 'beefs seat' on the bus 😂 u would be pleased to know u still cause murders from up there lol....love u sis hope ur having a blast xxx

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