Mel Downing (3 Sep 1944 - 12 Aug 2017)

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MelForest Holme Hospice Charity

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Location
Poole Crematorium Gravel Hill Broadstone BH17 9BQ
Date
30th Aug 2017
Time
12.30pm
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In loving memory of Mel Downing who sadly passed away on 12th August 2017.

Loving husband of Sue, father to Vicki and Ade, Grandfather to Ellis, Father in law to Caroline & Graham and brother to Vonnie.

So incredibly missed by all his family and friends.

A great man with a warm heart, a big smile, never-ending humour, flamboyant taste in clothing, questionable colour choices, but not such a bad drummer!

Heaven is just that little bit more cheerful, brighter... and noisier than before.

We would love you to join us at Poole Crematorium on 30th August at 12.30 in bright cheerful clothing.

We will then be meeting at The Willett Arms pub directly after the service for drinks, nibbles and giggles, just as Mel would have wanted.

The Willett Arms can be found at 2 Oakley Hill, Oakley, Wimborne BH21 1RN. Less than a 5 minute drive from Poole Crematorium.

We are requesting family flowers only with donations to Forest Holme, which can be made from this page. Many thanks.

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Hello Dad,
As we say goodbye to another year, and welcome in 2026, just wanted to let you know you are missed now more than ever. Christmas just isn’t the same, life isn’t the same without you. However I will always remember you saying ‘tis what it is’ during those dark days. You were right, and we must dust ourselves off and continue to get on with life, then one day when we are reunited out there in the ether we will carry on where we left off. Grief is the price we pay for love 💝💝💝💝

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Sue Downing wrote

Merry heavenly Christmas my darling Mel as we spend our 9th Christmas without you. You are forever in my heart as you walk beside me every day. Remembering the wonderful times we shared. All my love my forever sweetheart, until we meet again. Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Sue Downing wrote

My dearest darling Mel. Today we would have been celebrating our Diamond Wedding Anniversary. Although your no longer here I feel so blessed to have shared our life together for 52 of those wonderful years. Although we're apart your love still guides me and warms my heart. Happy Heavenly Anniversary my forever sweetheart. All my love 😍 until we're together again. Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Wherever you are out there I wish you a happy birthday Dad.
Forever 72, forever in my heart, forever in my memory, forever only a moment away in my thoughts.
Miss you always. Cheers Dad 🍷🍷 Love Vicki XXXX

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Sue Downing wrote

Wishing you a Happy Heavenly 81st birthday my darling Mel. I can't send you a card or give you a kiss or a hug. But I can smile and remember happy times we shared. I will never forget your birthday, I will never forget you. I love and miss you so very much my forever sweetheart. Sending you lots of love and big hugs on your special day Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Hi Dad,
As another year quietly slips by you are never more than a thought away.
You left an enormous hole in our family that can only ever be filled with all the love and wonderful memories you left behind which is a blessing.
Miss you every day and always until we are reunited somewhere out there in the ether.
Love Vicki XXXXX

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Sue Downing wrote

Another year has gone by my darling Mel. They don't get any easier just a little less painful. I find comfort from remembering all the wonderful times we shared together. You've gone from sight but you're always in my heart, my thoughts, my dreams. I love you dearly. Until we meet again my forever sweetheart I'm sending you lots of love and big hugs. Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Dear Dad,
Wherever you are out there flying high, flying free watching over me, I want to wish you a Happy Father’s Day. Miss your presence, but you are very much alive in my heart and mind. XXX

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Merry Christmas Dad. It’s just not the same without your presence Dad, and it never will be, but as I always say you left behind the greatest of memories, and for that I am grateful because it does help, it gets me through, I can only ever smile when I think of you, or speak of you. Love and miss you forever XXXXX

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Sue Downing wrote

Merry Christmas in heaven my darling Mel as we spend our 8th Christmas without you. Our lives will never be the same, but in my heart you are always there. The wonderful memories keep me strong. I miss you more than anyone knows. Love you and miss you everyday my forever sweetheart. Sending you lots of love always and forever until we meet again. Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Sue Downing wrote

I'm thinking of you today as I do every day my darling Mel. If only you were here to celebrate that special day 59 years ago when we said I DO. The day's go by and life goes on but I've so many happy memories of our 53 years we shared. But how I wish I still had you. Happy heavenly anniversary my forever sweetheart. Sending you lots of love and big hugs. Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Birthday wishes being sent to you out there dear Dad. You would have been 80 today and what a celebration we would have been having. Forever 72 years young. Miss you so much, in particular special days like today. XXXX

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Sue Downing wrote

My dearest darling Mel. Today would have been your 80th birthday. I want to wish you a happy birthday in heaven. I wish you could be here celebrating it with us. I can't put into word's how much I miss you each passing day. I remember you with thoughts that make me smile and will hold you in my heart forever. Sending you lots of love and hugs my forever sweetheart until the day we will be together again.
Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Vicki Pauley wrote

Hi Dad,
It’s been 7 years since you left us to sleep in eternal peace. Miss you so very much, but take comfort in knowing we will all come together one day. Until then the love and memories you left behind guides me through. XXXX

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Sue Downing wrote

Remembering this day 7 years ago my darling Mel with a heavy heart. Words can't describe how hard it was to let you go. Your memory is my greatest treasure and gives me great comfort. A love like ours will never die. I miss you more each day my dearest Mel. Sending you lots of love and big hugs my forever sweetheart. Sue XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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