In loving memory of Elisa Davey who sadly passed away on 10th July 2026
Born on the 24th July 1950 in Batley, Yorkshire West Riding, Elisa Margaret was the only child of Harold and Joan Whalley. During her early years Elisa suffered with a weak chest exacerbated by industrial pollution and her family were advised to move South and, aged six, the family moved to Salisbury where she had a happy childhood.
Elisa was at college in Southampton when her parents moved to WashCommon, Newbury in 1970, around the corner from her husband to be, John.
At a serendipitous meeting at John's sister's (Jean) twenty first birthday party in January 1972, Elisa and John met as a blind date which resulted in an immediate and lifelong rapport. They were married on 4th November 1972 followed by two sons, James (1976) and Adam (1979).
Hardworking, intelligent, kind, elegant and vibrant, with a quirky sense of humour and a ready smile, Elisa was intensely loyal to her family and friends and immensely proud of both sons and her grandchildren, Ella and Thomas.
With an inquiring mind and a great zest for life, Elisa threw herself into her interests (family, antiques, horse-riding, travel, gardening, bridge, and West Horsley Place) with enthusiasm, always wanting to know more.
For the past seven years Elisa has had an inordinate satisfaction from volunteering at West Horsley Place particularly with her Ghost tours. Her favourite quote being:
"I was just thinking, it ought to have been thought dull and commonplace, the same sunrise over the same house in the same tiny piece of England, every day for two hundred years, but it is beautiful. I travelled miles and was unchanged when I could have been here and transported, it is not the fault of the sun if the eye sees not its beauty.”
May she rest in peace x.
14.00 hrs 19th August 2026.
Randall’s Park Crematorium, Randall’s Road.Leatherhead.KT22 0AG.
No flowers please but a donation to St Catherine’s Hospice Crawley would be appreciated. Without their support Elisa would not have been able to fulfill her wish of passing away in my arms at home.
Elisa was a kind and fun-loving friend whom we have known since 1979 when our sons were at playschool.
We shared many happy times together, especially at Bexhill and Swanage (our second homes).
Our favourite places were the beach, National Trust properties and sometimes on the tennis court!
We will miss her greatly, and send our condolences to John and her family.
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We were very sorry to hear of Elisa’s passing.
Such a wonderful woman and a much loved friend for nearly 50 years.
Thinking of John and the boys at this difficult time.
Best wishes
Sue, Matt & Ali Duncan
Loving and missing you. XXXXX
Elisa always lit up the room with her engaging smile. She is sadly missed at Westcott Bridge Club
Remembering Aunty Elisa. Thinking of Uncle John, Jamie, Adam and the Davey family and sending all our love.
Sincere condolences to John and family for this unimaginable loss from all at Betchworth Antiques Fair. A truly lovely lady who will be greatly missed.
Elisa what a lovely person you were. We didn’t get the chance to know you more. We send all our love and condolences to John, James, Adam and all the family. Madeleine, Brian and Amy.
We are very sorry for your loss John. Elisa was a lovely lady, always so kind to Francesca. We are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. With love Koulla,Jeremy & Francesca x
In loving memory of a very special friend
In memory of Elisa, someone both Howard and I were very glad to have had in our lives.
Our sincere condolences to the Davey family on Elisa’s passing. She will be greatly missed.
We love you and miss you xxxx
Dunster Castle
Thanks J & D, I remember it well.
Grateful for happy memories of sharing horses on loan especially the opinionated Prinnie.
Dress code for the 19th is “Cheerful, Colourful, Tasteful, Elegant” . I think that covers most bases. Thank you.
Thank you Veronica for sending me this photo, I had not seen it before.
Our condolences to John and the family on the very sad loss of their lovely, vibrant Elisa.
Love Sandra and Islay
A lovely lady who was always a joy to be with and will be sorely missed.
Elisa and I became Bridge partners even though she was much better than I was. She was always gracious, kind and humorous and we spent more time laughing than concentrating!
My condolences to John and all the family.
Sending all our love to Uncle John, Jamie, Adam, and family at this time.
Auntie Elisa was always so wonderfully glamorous, kind, and full of warmth and humour. It brings great comfort knowing she was back at home where she wanted to be. We are thinking of you all and sending strength.
With love from Shaun, Sarah, Archie, and Isabelle.
Dunster Castle
Thank you Veronica for sending me this photo, I had not seen it before.
Bexhill 24.7.2012
On the balcony of the De La Warr Pavilion, September 2025
2016; 44 Years of friendship
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