John Patrick Fox (2 Jan 1937 - 3 May 2026)

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Our Lady of Lourdes Burnt Ash Hill Lee SE12 0AE
Date
24th Jun 2026
Time
10am
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Kemnal Park A20 Sidcup Bypass Chislehurst BR7 6RR
Date
24th Jun 2026
Time
11.30am

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The Crown 117 Burnt Ash Hill London SE12 0AJ
Date
24th Jun 2026
Time
11am

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John was one in a million.

John was a man of firm principles, honest convictions, and a quiet gentleness that revealed itself to those who truly knew him.

John’s childhood was profoundly shaped by the Second World War. At just seven years old, he became one of the 328 wartime evacuees sent to Lampeter, Wales — an experience that left a deep imprint on his character. The war did not just mark his childhood; it shaped the man he would become.

John was a historian. His life was surrounded by books and papers. History was a lens through which he understood humanity. In his later years, he developed a particular fascination with the Pacific War, diving into research with the same curiosity that had guided him all his life.

When John wanted to relax, he turned to thrillers, reading and on TV. He travelled the world with an open mind, absorbing cultures, stories, and experiences. He loved films, music, and food, especially from India — a continent he always hoped to visit one day. His interests were wide, his mind always reaching for something new.

John was married twice. From his first marriage, he was father of two children, Jane and Paul, and grandfather to four grandchildren: Eleanor, Joel, Luke, and Amy.

John spent 37 happy years married to Martha Lucia. Together they were devoted parents to Alexander, and welcomed Leanna into the family with joy. In his later years, John found immense happiness in his grandson, Otis John, whose presence brought him light and comfort during the final chapter of his life.

After his quadruple bypass in 2006, John’s health began to decline, but his spirit never did. He kept going — travelling, studying, researching, and pursuing new interests. His curiosity kept him alive in the truest sense. Even when his body slowed, his mind never stopped moving. He remained engaged with the world, always wanting to know more, understand more, discover more.

John will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

He was one in a million, and he always will be.

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Martha Lucia, Alexander, Leanna and Otis John would like to express our gratitude to all during this difficult time. Your prayers, messages, support, kindness and love are greatly appreciated.

You are welcome to join the family using the links on this web site:
• Our Lady of Lourdes church service: If you cannot attend the service personally, you might want to access it by going to https://www.olol-lee.org/streaming-service The service is at 10 am. British time.
• Kemnal Park – Please bring appropriate footwear for the woodlands, and an umbrella in case of rain.
• For light refreshments at The Crown Tavern – RSVP below on Attending Funeral and Attending Funeral Reception by 13th June 2026. The Crown will be waiting for you from 11 am, after the church service.

If you wish to make a donation in remembrance of John, please use the links on the web page to the Charity of your preference.

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Jill Sothinathan donated in memory of John

Thinking of John R.I.P may he rest in peace
Condolences to Martha and family

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Eleanor Mcgill donated £25 in memory of John

Dear Martha and family
Thinking of you all and send my love.

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Barbara Coe donated £60 in memory of John

In loving memory on my dear Brother John, so many fond memories and moments that we have shared, that will remain with me and be treasured forever, thinking of Martha Lucia and the rest of the family at this difficult time. I’m sorry I can’t make the funeral due to my health but will be thinking of you all lots of love Barbara and family xxx

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  • Dear Barbara, Thank you for your message. We are very sorry for your current health situation. You will be missed. Love Martha Lucia, Alexander, Leanna and Otis.

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Kathy Salmon donated £20 in memory of John

With love x

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  • Thank you Kathy. xx

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Helena Hyde donated £20 in memory of John

In memory of John Fox, one the most interesting men I’ve had the pleasure of having deep conversations with…. Condolences to Marta Lucia & your family, John will be missed.

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  • Dear Helena. Thank you. For John was very important to go to your place for his hair and eye brows cut. I'm sure you enjoyed his conversation. xx

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In memory of John and his amazing amount of literature and expertise. Thinking of you Martha and your lovely family at this very sad time.

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  • Dear Carole, thank you for your message. John always enjoyed your visits at home. Love xx

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June Whitenstall wrote

Drear Martha, I was so saddened to hear about the loss of your dear husband. Although I never had the privilege of meeting him. I know how deeply loved he was through the way you spoke about him and the life you shared together.
My heart goes out to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. Please know that I am thinking of you holding you in my thoughts and wishing you strength, comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Your friend June

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  • Dear June, thank you.

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Teresa Timmons donated £25 in memory of John

In memory of John Fox. RIP John. Terry x

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  • Dear Terry, thank you.

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Brenda Lobo donated £25 in memory of John

Very sincere condolences to Martha, Alexander and family on your loss. I only met John a couple of times, but he impressed me with his lovely manners and charming conversation. A sad loss.
Rest in Peace

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  • Thank you Brenda.

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