Brenda Ford (22 Jul 1942 - 26 Apr 2026)

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Brenda

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Location
Basildon Crematorium Church Road Basildon SS13 2HG
Date
18th May 2026
Time
12.30pm
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In loving memory of Brenda 'Bren' Ford who passed away peacefully on 26th April 2026 at Langley Lodge.

She was the most wonderful wife, mum and nanny (Nanny Brenny) who touched the lives of everyone she ever met. She will leave a huge hole in the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.

During her last few years she lived with dementia and therefore we kindly ask people to donate in her memory to Alzheimer's Society. If you would prefer, flowers are also more than welcome.

We will be celebrating her life at Basildon Crematorium (Gardenside) at 12:30pm on Monday 18th May. Afterwards, we will be heading to The Gun Pub (SS13 2DU) - everyone is welcome.

Tracie Brook donated £20 in memory of Brenda

Thinking of you all xx

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Stacey Webb donated £130 in memory of Brenda

A heartfelt thank you for all of the lovely flowers, online donations and the added donations on the day of mums funeral. We really appreciate the outpouring of love for mum which has been a huge comfort to all of the family Xx

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Caroline Rees donated £20 in memory of Brenda

In memory of Brenda for a cause that is close to our heart. Xxx

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Beryl & Brian & Family Elliott donated £53.43 in memory of Brenda

Sending our love, we will be thinking of you on Monday. xxx

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Beryl, Brian & Family Elliott wrote

We were so lucky to have known you Bren, didn't we have some fun over the years! Words can't express how much we will miss you. Sending all our love to Bill, Stacey,Ian and their families. xx

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Trish & Pete Fry donated in memory of Brenda

Our Dear Bren, you will be forever in our hearts and memories.
Missing your beautiful smile, that infectious laugh of yours and your tight hugs when we walked through the door.; but most of all your unconditional understanding and love, no matter what. Our love always, Trish & Pete xx

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Kim Weston wrote

When I first joined HMC&E all those years ago, Bren took me under her wing and earned the affectionate title 'Auntie Bren'. When she wouldn't let anyone else call her that, I knew we had a special friendship.
We had so many laughs during those happy times and amid the sadness now, I am thankful for the lovely  memories, and knowing that Auntie Bren was always in my corner xx

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  • I love this Kim xx

    Posted by Stacey on 17/05/2026 Report abuse
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Kim Weston donated £20 in memory of Brenda

When I first joined HMC&E all those years ago, Bren took me under her wing and earned the affectionate title 'Auntie Bren'. When she wouldn't let anyone else call her that, I knew we had a special friendship.
We had so many laughs during those happy times and amid the sadness now, I am thankful for the lovely  memories, and knowing that Auntie Bren was always in my corner xx

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Diane Clark donated £20 in memory of Brenda

RIP Dear Brenda

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Paul Schmitt donated in memory of Brenda

With love to Bill and the rest of the family, thinking of you all.

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Deborah Curtis donated £30 in memory of Brenda
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Jacqueline & Michael Mehrtens donated £50 in memory of Brenda

God Speed,Fly High,Bren!No more
Pain. See You on the Rainbow bridge. Love Jackie & Mick.xxx

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Gubuz Kahraman donated £100 in memory of Brenda

To Bill and all the family
We will miss Bren a lot.
Sending you all our love
From
All your friends at Aspera

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Steph & Tim Tonks donated in memory of Brenda

With all our love to Bill & all the family. Brenda will be sadly missed.

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Cheryl Sapstead wrote

Lovely, fun, smiley Bren. Sadly leaving her dedicated husband Bill. You will be very much missed always Bren xx

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Cheryl Sapstead donated £20 in memory of Brenda

Hoping to abolish this terrible cruel disease

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  • Thank you Gavin this is wonderful.

    Posted by Stacey on 20/05/2026 Report abuse
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Tony & Liz Schmitt donated in memory of Brenda
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Alison Guest donated £20 in memory of Brenda

I remember Brenda from my early days at HMCE in T&SO, may she rest in eternal peace, a lovely day xx Love to Bill and all her family xx

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Sue O’Reilly donated £30 in memory of Brenda
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Marianne Starling donated £20 in memory of Brenda

Sending love to Bill and Family.
Rest in Peace lovely lady.
Marianne

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Natalie Harris wrote

I'm so sorry I can't be there on the day to celebrate your life. I will however remember you with a great deal of fondness and humour, particularly your stories; one of which has always stayed with me. When your aunt thought you wore a wig which gained you the nickname 'baldy Fordy' from me. God bless and my thoughts are with you, Bill and your family xx

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  • This is such a funny story and so typical of mum, thank you for sharing. Stacey xx

    Posted by Stacey on 14/05/2026 Report abuse
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