Wendy Ware (7 May 1962 - 1 Dec 2025)

Wendy ❤️❤️

Thank you for giving me the chance to know you and work with you. You’ve always carried this strong, motherly warmth that somehow fills the whole ward, and the team lights up the moment they spot you in your little corner. I must admit, there’s a kind of magic in the way you make everyone feel safe, seen, and just a bit more cheerful. You always held your ground, and we’d often exchange those little words and looks that only we understood. We used to joke that we’d sink in together, that you’d go where I go — but now I’m here, and you’re up there. We missed you
Please keep watching over us from where you are. This time, I’ve got it.

Sleep peacefully Wendy

Rest in peace 🍀💕

Remembering Wenders xxx

I have no words I’m just so shocked and sad extremely sad for Nick and Katy especially and all the family: I have so many memories and stories of you and you made me feel so happy and comfortable during my interview panel process when I was being ripped apart with questions. You had my back and many years of being colleagues and friends. You were an are a soft and caring brutally honest and say exactly what you think but was always respectful of your delivery of what come out your mouth. You was so PROUD when Katy joined us at SCC and you told everyone and it was lovely kinda made sure I was there for her and kept her under my wing as I had so much respect for you, she was as fiesty as you haha. We were both sat together at Rods funeral and you were smoking hot in that leather jacket 😉 you were naughty and cheeky always an innuendo with everything in all situations and we were always on the same page with that and you would give me the look and wink and laugh or smile depending the situation. If we wasn’t being professional you would give everyone within ear distance the full Wendy laugh that was unique and loud and distinctive everyone knew it was your laugh for miles it was big and bold.
I remember the last time we saw one another (I think) was when I was in hospital to be assessed by a specialist regarding my condition at the time and you was working at the hospital and had your own floor and reception area, you were straight there to me and left everything and help me in the lift and took me to the specialist that I was in to see and in the lift you were so worried about me and said Dan you look horrendous you look like absolute shit what’s happened and I still played you up and you loved it and on my way back and to your floor you gave me a big hug and said Dan please look after yourself and message me and come to me if you need anything I’m here please 🙏 and we spoke soon after Phil and I split and we spoke about what happened and the situation privately together and you were there and didn’t take sides and was always watching and communicating with me on the recovery and achieving everything to where I am now.
You did everything for your family and the girls you non stopped talked about Katy, Daisy and lily you absolutely loved them and if you wasn’t it was something naughty and belting out that huge laugh. You’ll be missed forever and can’t even begin to understand how and why you were taken away. I don’t know how Katy will cope with out you; you were just like naughty sisters and very protective of Katy and if anyone dare say anything negative they would know about it and very quickly regret it because you would wipe the floor of them with grace and style and I knew when you were going to blow cos you would turn around and I knew that you were waiting for them to finish with whatever they were saying and then you would spin around or come back into the room and say have you finished? And then you would say now you listen to me, and boom 💥 but you did it in a clever way and delivered it so that they had no come back whatso ever and you were cool and then explain and leave it friendly and respectful and always gave a wink or eye roll or something or a little look to anyone in your presence and it was like a I’m finished with them now and a little nod or something and then walk away and id look at the speechless fire stater and then go and check on you and have a debrief on the situation and laugh and talk about how you wiped the floor with them. Everyone soon learnt that you were not a person to listen or allow complete b**shit be said. You Nick and Hayley together in the office were the best of the best and funny honest and fair I loved popping in to have naughty conversations and talk smut.
It was a pleasure and honour to have met you in a professional setting and a boss and as a friend. Unique and beautiful such a beautiful woman and always were glamorous and up to something. Your home was unique and characteristic and elegantly decorated and handcrafted by your taste and bare hands and hand made or knitted pretty things and a husband who you loved and adored and was proud of his tall dark and Handsome appearance and style of dress. Always proud of all your family and one point the whole day service was a stand in joke to you and everyone in the service as 7/10 were your family by blood or marriage and it was like the Wendy show and everyone was always confused about who was who and even know still confused haha too many to understand 😉😂 Jord was the pride of the day service and you were always pushing her to do more and you were just proud of her as you were Katy. Then came a chav who is now my supervisor, can you believe It Wend 😂 you always had them under your wing and knew their worth and potential and they are proving you right and I won’t ever listen to either of them 😂 jokes I adore them as you know as much as you did and Jord is one of my favourite people in my life, and the chav is no longer a chav chav he’s lost the hats cos he can’t afford them anymore being a dad and doing what you knew was gonna do as you believed in people who stood out and was always right and you made sure people knew. Family was key and your doggies, Wend it’s never gonna be the same again and I can still hear your laughter and voice that’s how special and unique you were and are there will never be another woman like you ever and your family will never be the same again. But we will always keep and eye on Katy I know she’s your main priority and worry d everyone who loved and respected you will always be there and support her when ever she needs as she is the one who will be completely lost and will always be heart broken you were there behind her for everything. Don’t worry we have all got her and those beautiful grand daughters or yours will be her strength. Still can’t believe you are gone and we’re all still shocked and devastated about it. Always the best hearted people taken back to our lord as you have proven yourself in life with your grace and kindness and your needed now to help above and I bet you will look so beautiful with your huge white wings 🪽 I can hear you “look at these beautiful things look at how beautiful and big they are,I can see your smile too. Wendy ware you naughty little minx you go and you fly high and shine bright you beautiful angel but don’t forget us and make sure Katy smells and feels your presence always. Love you so much bendy Wendy and thank you for everything you have done for me and for all that have been honoured by you. Don’t ever worry I’ll keep up and play up those people who you love In your honour, Jord has always got my support and gob and I’ll continue to ignore the chav and his attempt to be authoritative with me I’ll continue to wind him up piss him off as you liked ❤️ Katy don’t bite to my nonsense as you know. Anyway we loved a good natter for hours after work had finished and here I am non stop waffling it was always your fault back then and again this long lengthy (stop it) text is all about you and your fault because you were such a huge character and so many stories and things to say about you and what you brought into all our lives. Don’t work too hard and don’t fly too fast and can’t wait to see you on the other side and hear all about your adventures and gossip now you have an important job to do for our loving father. See you whenever we meet again beautiful Wendy make sure you have the best biscuits for our cuppa date. Big hugs and keep being naughty and mischievous cos ya good at it love you ❤️ thank you for everything babe. Never be forgotten as always in my heart and thoughts, stop it 😂 I can just see that smile and I know what goes through your mind absolutely filth I’m not that kind of person 😉😂 shine bright and sprinkle that glitter as you go 💔🌹🕯️✝️🕊️👑🧑🏼‍🦳❤️

Wendy a beautiful and caring soul inside and out. Taken far too soon but now a beautiful Angel. Sending so much love and thinking of you all uncle nick, Katie, Lilly, daisy, Tom, Tash and all the family. Wendy would be so very proud of you all. ❤️❤️❤️

Gone too soon you will be greatly missed xx

I will miss knowing you are with us making the world a better place. Thank you for being you and loving me for me. You are gone too soon. Sending all my love to everyone who loved Wendy but particularly Nick x

Missed so much and love you lots,will never forget you, ❤️

Thank you so much mum I really appreciate everything you’ve done have done for me love you to the moon and back I’m internally grateful don’t worry I will keep my promise I’ve got the girls love you forever ❤️❤️❤️

Fly high rest easy my angel we will meet again soon I love you more then you will ever know nanny Wendy 🩷🩷

May you rest in peace 🫶🏻Love from Christina Mia and all this kids xxx