Nigel Frederick Flisher (20 Apr 1953 - 19 Nov 2025)
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Nigel Frederick
British Heart Foundation
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In loving memory of Nigel Frederick Flisher who sadly passed away on 19th November 2025, aged 72 years.
A kind, loving husband of 50 years, a caring father and devoted Grandfather. A humble and faithful Catholic, altruist and gifted Musician. Well known for his great sense of humour. Long serving in Her Majesty’s Service as a respected Diplomat in the Foreign and Commonwealth Office.
We will dearly miss him and his memory will live forever in our hearts. May his soul rest in eternal peace and rise in glorious light. Amen.
Requiem Mass: Tuesday, 20th January 2026
Time: 10am
St Augustine Church, Rainham, Kent, ME8 9PG.
Committal- family only-St Peter’s Church Cemetery, Hurst Wood, Bredhurst, ME7 3JZ
Wake Gillingham Golf Club
Time: 11:30am -3pm
Woodlands Road, Gillingham, ME7 2AP
Family only floral tributes may be sent by 4.00 pm on Monday 19th January 2026, c/o John Weir Funeral Directors, 127 Watling Street, Gillingham, Kent, ME7 2YY.
Website: https://www.ascot-flowers.co.uk
Welcome donations in memory of Nigel may be made to the British Heart Foundation online via this website. Thank you.
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Nigel and I sang with the choir at church in Islamabad, and put on house concerts at various diplomat homes in the area. Along with Barry Collins, Bob and Linda Nachtrieb and Virginia Morgan, we entertained small and large groups with folk, rock, bluegrass and gospel music and plenty of humor. Heaven has gained a great tenor and a brilliant soul.
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Thank you Don for your lovely tribute to Nigel. He is dearly missed by his family. I love Nigel very much and miss him dearly. Hope you and Karen and the twins are keeping well. Thank you. Val
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Hey Valerie. Yes, my email is.Dschlienz@gmail.com.
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Thank you Don and I’ll be in touch soon. Have a great and blessed Easter. With love and prayers, Val
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Nigel - May the Lord raise you up on eagles wings and hold you in his arms 🙏
Valerie - May the comfort of knowing Nigel is with Jesus sustain you and your family
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Lindsay and Peter, thank you for your kind words and support. God bless both of you and family. Xx
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Dear Valerie, Michael, Caroline and family,
We are so sorry to have learned that Nigel has passed. Nigel was a music buddy of ours in Pakistan. Music buddies are in our hearts forever even when we lose email contact.
Nigel was a gentle Geordie who delighted us with songs of Newcastle, Scottish Child Ballads, Irish and British traditional folk music. In addition he was a rock and roller who played wonderful guitar and sang both tenor and bass vocals. What more could our music group wish for?
We will celebrate Nigel at home on January 20 by playing all of his recorded audio and watching some of the band's performances on DVD. He lives on in our memories.
Linda and Bob Nachtrieb
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Thank you, Linda and Bob for your kind words, great comfort to fsmily. Are you be able to share the recorded audios and DVD. Dearly love to see and hear Nigel singing performances with the Angel Band. Thank you.
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Dear Valerie please do accept our deepest sympathies and extend our condolences to your family as well. I have only met him briefly at South Kensington Station. He seemed a very mild mannered gentleman. God has blessed you both with loving children and grand children. No more pain and one day you are going to see your husband in heaven. May his soul rest in PEACE. GOD BLESS RANJINI SPENCER
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