Pamela Moss (9 Jun 1953 - 21 Nov 2025)

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Location
Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane Chatham ME5 9QU
Date
17th Dec 2025
Time
3pm
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Three Mariners Inn 509 Lower Rainham Road Rainham ME8 7TN
Date
17th Dec 2025
Time
4.30pm

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We are heartbroken to share that our wonderful mum, Pam, passed away peacefully on Friday 21st November, surrounded by her loved ones.

There simply aren’t enough words to capture what this incredible lady meant to us. Pam touched so many hearts and will be sorely missed by everyone who knew her. She was the most generous soul, with a sharp but warm wit, an extraordinary mum (not only to her own children but to so many others too), and the most loving, supportive, and fun Nan anyone could wish for.

We’re so sorry that many of you didn’t get the chance to say goodbye. Mum had been poorly on and off for some time, and our only focus was making her as comfortable and settled as possible. It’s also been impossible to reach everyone she held dear in person, so please forgive us if you’re hearing this way – it’s not how we would ever have wanted it.

We find comfort knowing she’s now reunited with Dad and the other loved ones we’ve lost, probably already organising them all with a cuppa and a smile.

Mum’s funeral will be held at
Medway Crematorium
Robin Hood Lane, Chatham, ME5 9QU on Tuesday, 17th December 2025 at 3:00 pm
Your presence would mean the world to us.

After the service we warmly invite you to join us for refreshments and to share more memories at Three Mariners Pub
509 Lower Rainham Road, Rainham, United Kingdom, ME8 7TN

Please don’t hesitate to get in touch if you need be – your messages and memories mean the world to us right now.
All our love
Quentin, Bruce and Louise

Rebecca Pitt donated £25 in memory of Pamela

Rest in peace Pam

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Sonya Smith wrote

Pam, you and Rod were a huge part of my childhood, I have so many lovely memories of you. You will be sadly missed but I’m sure you are having a glass of sherry in peace 💕 until we meet again xxx

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Sonya Smith donated £25 in memory of Pamela

In memory of a wonderful lady 💖

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Susan and Bob Mills donated £25 in memory of Pamela

Pam, you left the legacy of a beautiful family who will always have you in their hearts. Sleep peacefully now.

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Faye Mills wrote

To me you will always be Mumma Moss, the most welcoming mother-in-law i could have wished for. So kind, caring & encouraging, equally quick witted & all about other people having fun and feeling comfortable. I will miss our girlie times when we manicured our nails & laughed together. Always there to listen & strongly supportive with love & a great sense of humour (sometimes unrepeatable). Often offering uplifting advice to me (and others too); you've been so embracing of every soul you touched.
You'll be sorely missed, always remembered fondly and placed in my heart. You raised an amazing family, who are credit to you and im so grateful to have married into such a wonderful family that you nurtured, my love always, Faye xxx

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Faye Mills donated £20 in memory of Pamela

To me you will always be Mumma Moss, the most welcoming mother-in-law i could have wished for. So kind, caring & encouraging, equally quick witted & all about other people having fun and feeling comfortable. I will miss our girlie times when we manicured our nails & laughed together. Always there to listen & strongly supportive with love & a great sense of humour (sometimes unrepeatable). Often offering uplifting advice to me (and others too); you've been so embracing of every soul you touched.
You'll be sorely missed, always remembered fondly and placed in my heart. You raised an amazing family, who are credit to you and im so grateful to have married into such a wonderful family that you nurtured, my love always, Faye xxx

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